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How to Avoid or Minimize Probate: Trusts, Organizing Estate Information, and Helpful Resources

Previously on Paper Doll‘s “I don’t you don’t want to think about death but the paperwork is important” series:
- How to Avoid or Minimize Probate: Paper Doll’s Guide to Getting Started
- How to Avoid or Minimize Probate: Organize Your Beneficiaries, POD Accounts, & More
we looked at what probate is, how the process works, and the reasons why you want to avoid it as much as possible. Then we looked at two overarching categories (joint ownership and beneficiary transfers) for inexpensively and easily organizing your assets to avoid probate.
Today we’ll round out the options for avoiding or minimizing probate, clarify some issues regarding wills and their role in the probate process, detail how to organize your estate information to make the transition smoother, and share additional resources to ease estate planning.
WHAT IS A TRUST?
You’ve probably heard a lot of terms bandied about regarding trusts. Because (and I realize I’m repeating myself), I’m a professional organizer and not an attorney, we’re going to stick to the basics for educational purposes; this is not legal advice.
To create a trust, you’re going to need a lawyer’s assistance, which means it’s going to cost more money than the probate-avoiding methods we discussed last week.
Revocable Living Trusts
A revokable living trust is a stellar tool for helping you avoid or at least limit probate.
Think of a trust as similar to a suitcase or basket into which you place your assets. You transfer ownership of your assets — which can be tangible, like a house or a car, or intangible, like investments or bank accounts — into the trust. Instead of you being the owner of these assets, the trust owns them as a sort of spin-off variation of you. Think of it as the Trust of You.
The Trust of You is a completely separate legal entity from the actual walking-and-talking you, and once you transfer ownership, you don’t own your house (for example), but the Trust of You owns the house. It seems silly, but from a legal perspective, it’s powerful.
Throughout your life, you are the (initial) trustee, which means you still maintain total control over what happens to whatever assets you place in the trust. You can buy and sell stock in your portfolio, add a deck to the back of your house, or move money from your checking account to the savings account. It’s just all “owned” by a legal entity that is not you, but it’s controlled by you.
The key is that you name a successor trustee. The role is somewhat like the role of executor, except you don’t have to get the court involved or fill out a lot of excess paperwork. The job of the successor trustee is to follow your instructions for distributing the assets within the trust. That can mean parceling things out to the relatives and friends you’ve named, or the successor trustee may maintain ownership for their own lifetime, until it passes to the next successor trustee(s).

Trust Photo by Joshua Hoehne on Unsplash
When you set up a trust document (which the lawyer may call an instrument), you state:
- what property or assets are going into the trust
- who is the grantor (or settlor, or trustor), the person establishing the trust document
- who is the trustee, the person (or people) with the authority to manage the assets in the trust
- who is the successor trustee, the person who will distribute assets in the trust when you (or you and your co-initial trustee) depart the earth
- who are the trust beneficiaries, the individuals or entities who will receive the property after you’re gone
- and whether there are other trust terms, such as whether and how you can amend or revoke the trust.
You may also want to figure out what assets should be used to pay the eventual taxes on your estate.
With this document in place, you then “fill” the trust by transferring property from your name into the trust’s name.
So, your bank account will no longer be in the name of You, but the Trust of You; the deed to your house and the title to your car will be transferred from your name into the name of the trust, and so on. (Because random tangible assets like your fancy-pants jewelry and artwork (and your less fancy-pants possessions like, well, pants (and other clothing) — or furniture, or whatever — don’t have ownership documents, you can just list the property in the trust document as saying it’s owned by the trust.)
And everything that goes into the trust will be called the “corpus,” which is Latin for “the body” of the trust; you may also hear it called the trust estate, the trust property, or the trust principal. The point is, it’s your stuff until you (legally) drop it in that theoretical basket/suitcase, at which point the stuff belongs to the trust. Got it?
Once you shuffle (or tango) off this mortal coil, the successor trustee will need to:
- get a written verification of the market value of real estate held in the trust as of when the grantor (remember, that’s you) died. This is for tax purposes, because as you recall, the two things that are guaranteed are death and taxes.
- do paperwork to finalize the transfer of the assets in the trust
- give all of this trust information to the beneficiaries of the trust.
Why aren’t trusts subject to probate?
Because, from a timey-wimey, wibbly-wobbly, Jeremy Bearimy legal hocus-pocus perspective, technically, none of the assets inside the trust are yours.
Are they actually in a basket or a suitcase? Nope. It’s all just a hand-wave-y legal maneuver that lets the successor trustee transfer the assets from inside the trust to your heirs/beneficiaries without courts getting involved.
Not to sound like a three-year-old, but whyyyyyyyyyy can you do this? Because somewhere along the way, rich people agreed to make it easier on themselves, and now we non-rich people get to take advantage of the situation, too. Except, again, you’ll have to pay Lawyer Dude III, Esquire some money to get it all set up, so it’s not going to the be the first (or second) choice for many people looking to avoid the perils of probate.
Other than probate, what are the other advantages of a living revocable trust?
A revocable living trust is nifty because it provides flexibility. You can put anything in the trust, take anything out of the trust, do the hokeypokey and turn yourself around, because throughout your life, it’s under your control. Everything inside of the trust is yours to do with as you wish, aside from the fact that in (legal) name only, it doesn’t belong to YOU but the Trust of You.
It’s a living revocable trust, because it’s created while you are alive, and it’s a revocable trust because you can revoke it (that is, take it back, or revise the included property) as long as you are alive.
You can also maintain privacy. While a will becomes public record after probate, the terms of a revocable trust is private, both while you’re alive and after. Your financial holdings and your choices regarding how you distribute your assets will stay confidential!
Additionally, if you are alive but seriously incapacitated — if you suffer an illness or are injured — your successor trustee can act on your behalf to manage your trust assets, per your instructions. Remember last week’s example of the husband of the woman with dementia who would have needed a court-appointed conservatorship to sell a home owned in joint tenancy? That wouldn’t be necessary if they held their home in a trust.
The main thing to know is that setting up a revocable trust allows you to distribute assets smoothly, the way you want, without delays due to probate or fights among your beneficiaries.
What are the disadvantages of a living revocable trust?
- You have to fund the trust properly — If you don’t transfer the assets into the trust correctly, it’s as if you didn’t do it at all, and the assets will have to go through probate. (Lawyer! STAT!)
- Living revocable trusts don’t reduce estate taxes — There are no tax benefits to a revocable trust. (There are potential tax benefits to having an irrevocable trust, one that you can’t change during your life, but that’s too complicated for the purposes of this post.)
- You don’t have any asset protection — Because you have control over assets while you’re alive, creditors can sue and come after the assets. (This is another case where a irrevocable trust can offer extra protection.)
Who shouldn’t get a living revocable trust?
It might not be right in the following cases:
- If your property isn’t extensive, a trust may be unnecessary overkill. The methods we discussed last week may suffice, saving you time and money.
- If you don’t have someone trustworthy (like a spouse, sibling, adult child, or trusted friend, or relative) to oversee a trust after your demise, it’s not the best option.
- If you have oodles of debt, probate has the advantage of providing a cut-off date after which creditors can’t file claims against your estate. Living trusts don’t have any such cut-off date.
- If you’re worried about long-term care and Medicaid planning, an irrevocable trust may be a better option to protect you and your family.
What’s an irrevocable trust?
An irrevocable trust is like a revocable trust except that once the grantor (the one setting it up) transfers ownership of assets into the trust and funds it, nothing can be changed, revised, amended, or terminated, at least without a court order or the agreement of all beneficiaries.
So where does a will come in?
You may be wondering, if you’ve set up joint ownership, beneficiaries, POD/TOD accounts, deeds, and titles, and/or maybe even a trust, do you still need a will?
First, it’s important to know what your will can’t do.
ASSETS YOU CAN’T BEQUEATH BY WILL
A will controls property in your name, with no designated beneficiary and no automatic transfer mechanism. When you die, the will controls your probate assets. Your non-probate assets transfer by deed, title, contract, or named beneficiary.
The options we’ve discussed these past few weeks for easing probate prevent you from bequeathing the following assets by will. (Note: this is not all-inclusive. You daughter-in-law the cardiothoracic surgeon may be an asset to the family, but you can’t bequeath her to your best friend.)
- Life insurance policy proceeds for which you’ve already named a beneficiary
- Funds in retirement accounts, including pension plans, 401(K) plans, IRAs (of various types), or other retirement plans. Again, you just name a beneficiary.
- Money in a bank account designated as Payable on Death (POD)
- Stocks, bonds, and other securities held in beneficiary or Transfer on death form
- Real estate named in a Transfer on Death (TOD) deed
- Vehicles (and not just cars) held in beneficiary form, also called in Transfer on Death form
- Any assets or property you own in joint tenancy with your spouse or other individuals. As discussed last week, related ownership might be called tenancy by the entirety, like if you and your three college roommates buy a house, or community property with right of survivorship with your spouse or life partner. Remember, in such cases, your share of whatever your owned goes to the surviving co-owner(s).
- Assets/property that you’ve transferred to a living trust

Last Will and Testament Photo by Melinda Gimpel on Unsplash
EVEN IF YOU AVOID OR LIMIT PROBATE, YOU STILL NEED A WILL
It’s easy to think that if you set up beneficiaries for all of your securities, and set up POD status for your bank accounts, get TOD deeds for your house and car or set them up for joint tenancy with right of survivorship, and even have a revokable living trust, you can skip having a will. Don’t do that!
Wills are not just for distributing your goodies. They serve other purposes:
- If you have underage children or older dependent children with disabilities, you need a will to name a guardian (and provide guidance for that guardian). However, even if you don’t have children, or your kids are well established in adulthood, there are other reasons to have a will.
- If you acquire any assets after you set up your trust but before you revise it (or cease to exist), having a will and an executor means that you still have a say regarding how anything outside your trust gets distributed. This also helps if you get a gift or an inheritance that hasn’t yet gone through probate at the time you die, meaning you couldn’t have put it in a trust or named a beneficiary. In such cases, your will has a residuary beneficiary, a person named in the will to get everything else you own that isn’t left to any other beneficiary. And if you don’t have a will, state law determines where any of these “bonus” assets go. Do you want your state deciding something like this?
- If you have a small estate, a will makes the Small Estate Affidavit process that we discussed two weeks ago easier on your heirs.
WHY YOU NEED TO PLAN YOUR ESTATE
As you’ve seen from the past few weeks, as much as none of us want to think about death, avoiding the process may make us feel better in the short term, but it creates a lot of trouble for everyone we love after we depart. Here are some pretty compelling reasons to work through the issues.
Avoid an Unpleasant Treasure Hunt
Starting the process right now begins with finding the accounts, the investments, the insurance policies, the deeds, and the titles. Why make your executor waste time searching and waste money paying for documents you already have?
Keep the Wrong People from Becoming Heirs
If you don’t have a will that specifies who gets what, and you don’t name beneficiaries or do the paperwork for joint tenancy or setting up trusts, and you don’t keep all your paperwork annually monitored, the wrong people will end up being beneficiaries of your largesse.
Recently, a close friend’s sister-in-law died. Although her brother and his wife had been married for a few years, various situations kept her from prioritizing making a will, changing her beneficiaries, and even modifying her Power of Attorney documents for healthcare and finances. When she suffered a tragic accident, instead of her husband making the decisions for her care while she was alive, the duty fell to the relative she’d named as healthcare proxy before they’d ever married. Now that she’s gone, her estate will be distributed according to a combination of an out-of-date will and the decisions of someone else; her husband must either accept what happens or fight the executor’s decisions while still in the throes of grief.
If you don’t update wills, beneficiaries, and executor paperwork, the ex who cheated or the sibling who is no longer among us or the best friend who is no longer best will be granted power that you did not wish them to wield, or which they can no longer wield.
Of course, it’s not just money. The person you named to be guardian of your child(ren) 10 years ago may not be the person you’d want now.
Eliminate Confusion and Prevent Feuds
If you don’t plan your estate and keep everything updated, you leave people guessing about what you wanted. With uncertainty comes unpleasantness and infighting. That’s not the kind of legacy you want to leave.
Empower yourself and your loved ones by organizing your information so that you can make the best decisions about your estate plans and make it easier on your executor and heirs.
ORGANIZE YOUR ESTATE INFORMATION
The easiest way to make sense of all of the information you need to track is to create a spreadsheet of all of your assets.
Create a column for each piece of information for financial or tangible assets:
- Asset name — for example, “Personal Checking Account at Chase” or “Roth IRA”
- Account numbers for each asset
- Asset location — for example, the address of the property, the transfer agent for stock, the name of the life insurance company
- Contact information for the whoever manages the asset
- A description of whatever ownership documents you have
- The location of the ownership documents in your home, office, the cloud, etc.
- Beneficiary names — to whom you’re leaving each asset
- How the item is set it be transferred — by named beneficiary, POD, TOD deed, trust, etc.
- Other notes that might help clarify the asset for your executor and heirs.
For vehicles, make a separate spreadsheet with the following:
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- each vehicle you own — remember to include those you own that others use, like your grandkid or housekeeper
- vehicle type (car, jet ski, golf cart)
- make
- model
- year
- vehicle identification number (VIN)
- location where it’s garaged (your house, a city garage, a storage facility) a barn or airplane hanger or marina berth)
- creditor information if you still owe
- location of the title, if you have received it after paying off any loans — If you’ve lost the paper title, apply for a replacement now and save your loved ones the labor and stress when they’ll already be mourning you.
- name of the Transfer on Death (TOD) beneficiary, if applicable
- location of any agreements, like a lease or garage/docking contracts
- location of the keys
Create a row at the top of the document with the date of revision.
Keep a printed copy of the most updated version of this document with your wills and other estate paperwork.
Revisit the document whenever you acquire new holdings, or at least annually to make sure:
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- beneficiaries are still alive
- beneficiaries are still in your life
- documents, keys, and other essentials are still in the same place
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RESOURCES FOR PLANNING YOUR ESTATE
For bank accounts, life insurance policies, securities, and retirement accounts, speak directly to the company that manages the accounts, and they will walk you through how to fill out the beneficiary forms we discussed last week. For real estate and other tangible items owned in joint tenancy, start with your local county clerk’s office to see whether you can download templates or if you’ll need to consult an attorney.
Professional Organizers can save you time and headaches, locating all of your documents and organizing the information. You may also find it beneficial to speak with a Daily Money Manager.
If someone in your family has already passed and you’re needing additional help, another resource is Professionals of After Loss Services (PALS).
My colleague Seana Turner blogged about Connecticut-based Transference, a company that specializes in helping executors, surviving family members, and overwhelmed Power of Attorney-holders handle financial and legal logistical challenges.
Get Your Sh*t Together (GYST) — This site offers a wealth of advice, checklists, and free templates to help manage all of the details related to completing your estate planning documents, including The Get Your Sh*t Together Essential Checklists.
Ellis Family Guides — Four free, directly downloadable books on getting your affairs in order, living trusts, Social Security and Medicare, and wills, trusts, and estate planning. They require no sign-ups; you don’t even have to provide your email address unless you want to receive an annual email with updated Social Security and Medicare figures.
Estate Exec — This site describes itself as the estate settlement equivalent of what Quicken does to help manage finances. The software promises to walk you step-by-step though all aspects of an estate, with checklists and record-keeping features. It also grants log-in access to the estate’s account to desired interested parties. They have a ten-day free trial requiring no credit card, email, or registration; if you choose to keep it, it’s a one-time payment of $199 per estate, which is deductible as an estate expense.
NOLO Estate Planning Basics by Denis Clifford ($21 on Amazon)

NOLO’s Executor’s Guide: Settling a Loved One’s Estate or Trust ($25 on Amazon)

Childfree Trust — This fascinating newcomer bills itself as the “only comprehensive, nationwide estate solution for Childfree and Permanently Childless people.” They help you create estate documents and promise to be “your professional, fiduciary medical and financial POA, executor, and trustee and ensure your wishes are followed as you wrote them.” They offer members a 24/7 emergency support call center. It’s free to create an account, but membership costs $999/year with locked-in discounts for prepaying for two or three years.
After three weeks of reviewing what probate is, how to avoid it, and how to organize your estate information to ease the process, I hope you’re finding this essential aspect of “adulting” to be a bit less intimidating.
How to Avoid or Minimize Probate: Organize Your Beneficiaries, POD Accounts, & More

Nobody likes thinking about death, but as Benjamin Franklin said, “[I]n this world, nothing is certain except death and taxes,” and as such, we’re better off being organized for the eventuality than trying to wish it away.
Last week, in How to Avoid or Minimize Probate: Paper Doll’s Guide to Getting Started, we began by looking at the essentials: what probate is, how the process is started and then progresses, and then the alternative use of Small Estate Affidavits. Perhaps more importantly, we reviewed (in depth, as only Paper Doll can do), why you want to avoid probate whenever possible, in order to:
- lower (considerable) costs
- save time
- maintain family privacy
- ease the stress felt during a time of mourning
Now clear on why you want to avoid probate, or at least minimize it as much as possible, we come to the heart of the matter. What do you actually have to do to avoid the pains of probate?
HOW DO YOU AVOID PROBATE?
Whether she realized it or not, my maternal grandmother had an interesting way of making sure that probate would be as unproblematic as possible. If you came to her home and managed to praise anything — a teacup, a lamp, a painting — she would hand it to you at the end of the visit!
Giving everything away during your lifetime is an intriguing approach, but not necessary practical. Also, while it reduces what has to go through probate, if you’re giving actual money, remember that gifts exceeding $19,000 per person are subject to federal gift tax.
Rather, there are three main methods for securing assets so they go from your ownership to those you intend to receive them — avoiding probate — without ever pressing an oversized ceramic dog statue into a departing guests hands.
The three categories actions you can take to avoid probate:
- Own assets jointly
- Name a beneficiary through a beneficiary transfer form, Payable on Death form, or Transfer on Death form
- Create a revokable living trust (RLT) in which the trust is the owner of your “stuff” and can be passed to named beneficiaries
Again, as a reminder, Paper Doll is a Certified Professional Organizer® and not an attorney. Nothing in this post series is, or should be taken as, legal advice. Rather, it gives you a jumping off point for approaching the appropriate parties (at your bank, brokerage, insurance company, county government, or your actual attorney) with your wits about you.
Today, we’ll focus on the first two (easier) categories of getting assets into the hands of your loved ones while avoiding probate.
ARRANGE JOINT OWNERSHIP
If you own something (a bank account, a house, a chestnut-colored thoroughbred horse) all by yourself, you have to take a variety of steps to ensure that when you shuffle off this mortal coil, it goes to whomever you wish.
However, if you jointly own something, when one owner passes away, ownership passes to the other owner(s) in a straightforward way. Let’s start with a simple example — bank accounts.
Joint Ownership Bank Accounts
A joint bank account is one jointly owned by two (or more) people. Duh! Most commonly, people open joint bank accounts when they get married so that they can pay for joint expenses, such as mortgages, utilities, household upkeep, childcare, family vacations, etc.
Marriage or cohabitation isn’t the only reason you might have joint ownership of a bank account.

Paper Mommy, wrist in a cast, but with a perfect manicure, 2016
Almost a decade ago, when Paper Mommy broke her wrist, I took over paying her bills by phone; however, the next time I visited Buffalo, we went to her bank so set up checkwriting access for me and for my sister, and my mother found that it made sense to add us as joint holders of the account.
If you set up joint ownership (either when you open an account or subsequently), and then pass away, your joint accountholder(s) will have still access to the funds in the account. They won’t have to present a death certificate to the bank until/unless they take your name off the account, at any future time.
This is a great option for seniors, assuming they’re comfortable with the other joint accountholders (like their adult children) always having access to the money. Obviously, it’s necessary to consider the maturity, stability, and trustworthiness of anyone named as a joint account holder.
Joint Tenancy
Joint tenancy is a probate-avoiding method of owning assets, commonly focused on real estate. When one owner (the “joint tenant”) passes away, the other, surviving joint owner(s) will automatically inherit the portion owned by the person who died, through a legal status known as “right of survivorship.” If you survive — that is, live beyond the time that co-owner ceased to do so — you have the right to own their share.

Little Red Houses Photo by Tierra Mallorca on Unsplash
It’s not magic; there’s paperwork to transfer the property into the name of whomever inherits, but for all practical purposes, this right of survivorship makes it easy to transfer real estate — houses, condos, farms, etc. — without the stress of probate. Joint tenancy can be used to transfer ownership for assets other than real estate, like car titles or a bank accounts, as described above, but let’s keep this simple.
When you buy property or set up ownership, make sure the deed, title, or other paperwork establishes joint ownership, usually by referencing “joint tenancy with the right of survivorship,” though a few states require a little bonus language.
In most U.S. states, joint tenants own equal shares. So, if Ernie and Bert co-own the brownstone at 123 Sesame Street, each owns 50%. (Of course, neither Ernie nor Bert will EVER pass away, so this is merely for discussion purposes. Are we clear? Let’s proceed.)
A joint tenant can’t leave their share to anyone but the other joint tenant(s). So, Ernie can’t stipulate in his will that his share of the brownstone goes to Grover; if Ernie ever did ascend to the great unknown, Bert would own the whole building.
Joint tenancy, especially with real estate, does have some drawbacks:
- Creditors can sue for your joint tenant’s portion. If you jointly own a house with your deadbeat boyfriend, the court could force the sale of the house to reimburse his creditors; you’d get your share of the money (while some or all of his share would go to the creditors), but you’d no longer own your home or have the full buying power that house represented. The other joint tenant can also take out a mortgage on their share to get cash, so you’d now own a house half-owned by the bank!
- You can’t unilaterally un-share ownership. If darling becomes a devil, you’re still bound to them.
- You’re stuck if your joint tenant becomes incapacitated. If a couple own a house in joint tenancy and the wife suffers from dementia, the husband can’t just unilaterally decide to sell (or take a mortgage) to afford assisted living for her. Instead, he’d have to get conservatorship from a court. Messy.
Tenancy by the Entirety
Tenancy by the Entirety (TBE) is very similar to joint tenancy, but it’s only available to married couples.
The other major difference is that neither spouse can sell or otherwise transfer ownership of their half of the property during the lives of the either spouse without the other’s permission.
It’s also only allowed in some states, and for some inheritance purposes. Tenancy by the entirety is possible for:
- All property types (i.e., real estate and personal property) in Arkansas, Delaware, Florida, Hawaii, Maryland, Massachusetts, Mississippi, Missouri, New Jersey, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, Tennessee, Vermont, Virginia, and Wyoming, and in the District of Columbia
- Real estate only in Alaska, Indiana, Kentucky, New York, North Carolina and Rhode Island.
- And in special situations:
- Illinois — it’s limited to married couple’s primary residence, called a homestead property.
- Michigan — all joint tenancy situations are automatically converted to TBE status upon a couple’s marriage.
- Ohio — TBE is only recognized for property deeds issued before April 4, 1985.
- Oregon — both spouses own the entire property rather than each holding a 50% share
TBE is complicated; get an attorney to help you with estate planning because it can impact a variety of issues, including creating trusts, planning gifts, or Medicaid lookbacks.
Community Property With Right of Survivorship

Miniature Couple Photo by Nothing Ahead
Nine states — Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin — are considered community property states for married couples. (California and Washington allow registered domestic partners to do this as well.) Basically, it’s “what’s mine is yours and what’s yours is mine” such that when one spouse dies, the ownership of their community property automatically goes to the surviving spouse.
In these community property states, you can avoid probate by putting “community property with right of survivorship” (or an approximate phrase) on any account registration paperwork, deed, or transfer documents. Check for the exact language your state requires.
Joint ownership can be complicated. Let’s examine variety of alternate ways to transfer ownership that cost little-to-nothing, and require so little effort that you’ll think you’re gaming the system.
BENEFICIARIES / PAYABLE ON DEATH / TRANSFER ON DEATH
You know what a life insurance beneficiary is. You take out a policy, name someone as the beneficiary, and when you’re gone, the proceeds go to the named person. But the concept of beneficiaries can be applied to much more than life insurance!
The key thing to know about these options is that everything belongs to you and stays under your control during your life. Whether an investment or retirement account is listed as having beneficiaries, or a bank account or asset is categorized as Payable on Death or Transfer on Death (TOD), beneficiaries don’t have access until the owner of those assets dies.
Payable-on-Death (POD) Bank Accounts
You can name an individual (or individuals) to inherit money from a bank account when you pass away. The difference between a jointly held account and a payable on death account is that with the former, you all have access to the money at any time; with a POD account, you name individuals who get your money after you’re gone.
Arrange this when you open the account or at any time thereafter. While it’s not difficult, every bank has its own procedures, so be sure to ask.
Rather than calling, you’ll likely have more luck going to your actual branch and asking one of the “desk ladies.” (This is how Paper Mommy and I refer to a non-cashier bank employee with a desk or office. Yes, a man can be a desk lady.) While researching this post, I tried calling Paper Mommy‘s bank branch, but nobody ever answered. Eventually, I called the toll-free number, and after suggesting they check to make sure my mom’s branch wasn’t being robbed (yes, I watch too much TV), I was able to confirm some aspects of the process.
Some banks make it very easy. With Bank of America, you can log into the app, click on the three horizontal lines in the top left corner, select Profile, then Settings, and scroll down to the Beneficiaries option under Feature Settings.

The resulting “Your Beneficiaries” page shows all of your accounts:
- Pick an account
- Click “Add beneficiary”
- Choose the beneficiary relationship:
- Spouse, family member, or friend not on the account, or
- Business, charity, estate, or trust
- Fill in the beneficiary’s full name, birthdate, country of citizenship, and current address or tax ID (Social Security number or EIN)
- Click Save
I accomplished the whole task during one commercial break! However, some banks make it slightly more laborious. Plan to follow some approximation of these steps:
- Go to your bank’s branch. It’s often best to schedule an appointment through your banking app.
- Ask the banker to change your account’s designation to Payable on Death (POD). Note that your bank may call this something else, like:
- Informal Revocable Trust — Unlike formal revokable trusts, which are established by written trust agreements (requiring lawyers and lawyers’ fees), an informal revocable trust account works just like setting up a beneficiary for an insurance policy or investment holding. When the account-holder dies, the “deposit” (that’s the account) “passes” from the owner directly to the beneficiary/beneficiaries without the need for any written trust agreement.
- Totten Trust
- Beneficiary
- Transfer-on-death (TOD) or In Trust For (ITF) or As Trustee For (ATF)
- Provide the following for each beneficiary:
- Full legal name
- Residential address
- Phone number
- Date of birth
- Relationship to you
- Set your intended allocation. The default allocation divides the account balance equally among all beneficiaries still alive when you die.
- Confirm that your signature card is on file.
- Review the form for accuracy and sign it.
If you use an online-only bank, call but be prepared to explain (a few times) what you want and know that you’ll likely have to upload proof of identification to a secure portal.
Once a person dies, the beneficiary can just go to the bank, show the death certificate and their own proof(s) of identify, and obtain the funds.
Advantages of POD Accounts
You avoid probate!
It’s also relatively simple and and cost-free, not counting the value of your time. You don’t need a lawyer; just go to your bank or credit union, fill out the POD paperwork, and you’re set.
POD accounts are revocable. If your one of your kids becomes a meanie, or your sibling becomes a candidate for a political party that turns your stomach, just go to the bank with an explicit written revocation — or just withdraw all the money from the account, close it, and open a different account.
Limitations of POD Accounts
A POD account only applies to bank (or credit union) accounts, like bank deposit or checking accounts, savings accounts, or certificates of deposit (CDs); you can’t set up this kind of POD for real estate, stocks and bonds, or physical property like cars or boats or your Beanie Baby collection.
Even though it might be called an informal revocable trust, it doesn’t safeguard money from creditors the way a trust does. While you’re alive, if you owe personal debts, creditors can still make claims against whatever money is in that account.
Transfer on Death (TOD) Registration of Securities
Per the Uniform Transfer-on-Death Securities Registration Act, you can name someone as the beneficiary of your stocks, bonds, mutual funds, or brokerage accounts. This is known as Transfer on Death or TOD.
You’re likely already familiar with how this works if you’ve ever set up any kind of standard investment account, as listing beneficiaries is generally part of the basic paperwork. Just provide the individual’s name and Social Security number, plus some contact information and you’re done. When you die, the assets in that account will pass to your beneficiaries once the financial institution is notified of your passing.
That said, it’s important to periodically check your beneficiary listings. If you name your spouse as beneficiary and have an acrimonious divorce, or even an amicable one but then remarry, you’ll want to change that beneficiary paperwork. Also, as the years go by, not all beneficiaries may still be alive; if someone passes, update your beneficiary names!
While you aren’t required to list beneficiaries, if you don’t do it, all of your investments will just sit in your account upon your death, going nowhere until your will goes through probate. And without a will, your loved ones will have to wait even longer for everything to be resolved.
You can generally name anyone as beneficiary of your securities investments: a parent, spouse, child, sibling, distant relative, friend, George Clooney — even a business or non-profit/charity. You can also name your trust as the beneficiary.
Note: You may be limited by state property law. Remember those community property states? There, you must get your spouse’s signed, witnessed consent to designate anyone other than your spouse as your primary beneficiary for a TOD for securities.
Retirement Accounts

Retirement Beach Photo by Costa Karabelas
You worked hard for your retirement benefits, so make sure that money goes where you want. When you set up any kind of retirement account — a pension plan, an IRA (of any kind), or a 401(K) — you’re required to list a beneficiary, usually a primary and secondary one.
Whether you live in a community property state or not, you’ll need spousal permission to list anyone except your spouse as your beneficiary.
Again, this isn’t entirely set-it-and-forget-it. People change spouses. Friends and relatives pass away, or just out of our lives. Businesses close or change ownership and charities don’t always maintain their mission. Periodically review your beneficiaries and make changes if necessary.
As with securities, retirement accounts live up to the concept of a TOD designation — they get transferred upon (proven notification of) death. When a you die (eons from now), your beneficiary should contact the retirement account custodian — that’s the financial institution that holds the account’s investments, processes the transactions, keeps all records, documents incoming contributions and outgoing distributions, and oversees the reporting to the IRS and other government agencies, as required.
Your beneficiary should provide a death certificate and their own ID, and then claim the funds directly or transfer the account into their own name(s) so they can maintain those investments, either as-is, or adding/revising the assets in them, just as if they’d opened the account themselves.
Transfer on Death Deeds for Real Estate
In 31 states and D.C., you can avoid probate on real estate by creating a Transfer on Death deed. Those states are: Alaska, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Georgia, Hawaii, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Maine, Minnesota, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, Nevada, New Hampshire, New Mexico, New York, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Oregon, South Dakota, Texas, Utah, Virginia, Washington, West Virginia, Wisconsin, and Wyoming.
Also, in Florida, Michigan, Texas, Vermont, and West Virginia, a Ladybird Deed, (also called an enhanced life estate) allows Medicaid beneficiaries to protect their home from the Medicaid Estate Recovery Program and pass the house to a loved one as inheritance, rather than to a state Medicaid agency to reimburse long-term care costs.

- Complete the deed — Depending on the state, homeowners may be able to access a free deed template; look for downloadable forms on your county or state website. Otherwise, an attorney can prepare your Transfer on Death deed. The TOD deed requires:
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- your name and personal information
- a legal description of the property — a single family home, a condo, or a banana stand?
- the beneficiary’s full name and address
- the beneficiary’s relationship to you
- Sign the deed and have it notarized — Legal lingo: you’re the transferor and must sign the deed, but your beneficiary does not need to sign it.
- File it with your county’s land records office — Don’t leave it sitting in a pile on your microwave, because if you die before it’s officially filed and recorded with the governing authority, it’s invalid.
Note: The deed must state that it won’t take effect until your death and that it is revocable by you at any time prior to your death.
Revoking a TOD deed
Speaking of which, as with almost all of these options today, you can revoke your transfer on death deed altogether, or change your beneficiary. Just file a revocation, a written document starting you want to revoke the terms of the beneficiary deed you’ve previously made and recorded (that is, filed).
States vary, so if you were able to download a form to file, look online for a downloadable revocation form. (Some states have sample revocation language in the statutes that legalized TOD; copy that language.) File the revocation at whatever governmental office where you filed the original TOD deed.
You may have to pay an attorney if your state requires a grownup to prepare the document. You also may have to pay a filing fee.
Thus, unlike setting a beneficiary for your bank account, securities, or retirement account, TOD deeds are neither super-quick nor always inexpensive. However, they’re much quicker and less expensive than going through probate.
For those who live in a state not listed above, the best option for avoiding probate is to place your home or other real estate in a trust, which we’ll discuss next time.
Transfer on Death Registration for Vehicles
Got a car? (Or a truck, motorcycle, boat, RV, jet ski, snowmobile, tractor, or airplane?) You may be able set up a TOD registration so that when you die, ownership will pass directly to whomever you wish, avoiding probate.

Little Red Car Photo by Gimmel Magaway on Unsplash
Vehicles are generally registered in the name of one owner, though it can be more than one in the case of co-owners, as we discussed with joint tenancy, above. However, in 15 states (Arizona, Arkansas, California, Colorado, Connecticut, Delaware, Illinois, Indiana, Kansas, Missouri, Nebraska, Nevada, Ohio, Vermont, and Virginia), contact your state’s department of motor vehicles and request a copy of your “car title in beneficiary form.”
Once you register the vehicle, the title certificate will not only list your name as owner, but also the beneficiary you choose. After your death, they go to the DMV with the death certificate and ID, fill out the new title, and pay a transfer fee (ranging from $15-75).
While you’re alive, nothing about naming a beneficiary on the Transfer on Death registration form impacts your ownership. You can sell it to the teenager next door or donate it to 1-877-Kars4Kids. If you get annoyed at your beneficiary for playing bad music on the car radio, just name a new/different beneficiary.
Residents of the other 35 states (and DC) have limited alternatives. Your state may have TOD systems limited to surviving spouses or one’s that apply only to low-value vehicles. Contact your state’s Department of Motor Vehicles to find out what your options are.
As this series continues, we’ll look at setting up trusts and assets you can’t bequeath by will.
We’ll also look at how to organize information about your assets to make things easier for your loved ones, and provide resources for asset-holders, executors, and beneficiaries.
How to Avoid or Minimize Probate: Paper Doll’s Guide to Getting Started

October 19-25, 2026 is National Estate Planning Awareness Week. In 2008, Congress established this as an annual event, in part because so many Americans do not have wills or other estate documents, and often do not understand the elements involved.
We’ve previously talked about important documents to have when someone is alive, in case of emergency, like a:
- Power of Attorney
- Healthcare Proxy
- Advanced Care Directive or Living Will
To refresh your memory on these documents, see past Paper Doll’s classic post How to Create, Organize, and Safeguard 5 Essential Legal and Estate Documents.
Most people understand how these are used during someone’s life. However, there is often confusion as to how things will work after a death.
Recently, while organizing a client’s vital documents, I asked some general questions regarding the basics of the paperwork: filling trusts, naming beneficiaries, changing the status on accounts, etc., and the client said, “Thankfully, we don’t have to worry about any of that. I have a will!”

The reading of the will in Monseiur Verdoux (1947), in the public domain
If you watch old movies about such things, there’s usually a death, a sobbing person falling to their knees, a funeral, and then a formal reading of the will, at which point a portly lawyer turns the assets over to whomever is there — loved ones, a mysterious woman in a veil, a beloved dog. In movies, after a few shocking disclosures, everyone leaves the room owning what they were bequeathed.
Yeah, no. That’s not how it works.
In most cases, assets are transferred from the person who is deceased to the new owner(s) in one of two ways, either through a process called probate or as the result of specific probate-avoiding actions, like setting up trusts, joint ownerships, or direct transfers (like registering an asset as Transfer-on-Death or Payable-on-Death).
Over the next few posts, we’re going to cover these concepts, including how to properly set up accounts, ownership, and beneficiaries of assets to reduce the emotional and financial stress on those who are left behind.
WHAT IS PROBATE?
You’ve certainly heard about probate before. You know it has something to do with wills and what happens when someone dies, and that may be the limit of your familiarity.
Most adults who haven’t ever dealt with probate tend to nod sagely when someone else is discussing it, and hope nobody will ask them questions. (In that way, it’s similar to being in an algebra class. Look interested, but not so interested that anyone will ask you to weigh in.) Don’t let embarrassment or uncertainty lead you to miss out on the opportunity of easing the entire process.
In the simplest terms, probate is a legal process where a court supervises the distribution of the assets of a deceased person.
Probate exists because no matter what the will says about who gets what, the government (under the guise of the probate court) has a vested interest in making sure that all of the estate’s debts (if there are any) get paid off before any heirs collects assets. The court also needs to make sure that taxes are paid and that assets are properly transferred.
Probate doesn’t only happen when there’s a will. If someone dies intestate — that is, without having left a will — and there are interested parties (heirs), an estate usually goes through the probate process as long as the value of the personal property of the estate (not counting a house or other types of real estate) is above specific dollar value.
Plus, if someone does die without a will, the probate code determines who gets what. That means, for example, if someone dies while going through a nasty divorce but doesn’t have a will, the court will give a lot of their assets to the not-yet-ex instead of to the non-profit or beloved friends they might have wished to receive those things.
How To Start Probate
As a reminder, Paper Doll is a professional organizer and not an attorney, so nothing in this post series should be taken as legal advice. Rather, it should serve to give you a better understanding of what to expect when you organize your important documents and information to make the estate management process easier.
- Name an executor — The testator (that’s the person making the will — also known as the last will and testament) names an executor, the person who controls someone’s assets after death, carries out the deceased’s wishes, and distributes the assets. The executor can be a spouse, an adult child, a friend, or even an individual hired for the purpose.
- Submit the will to the probate court — The executor submits the original, signed will to the office of the probate court clerk in the county where the deceased person lived. So, if Great Uncle Phil lived in Polk County, Iowa but you’re his executor and you live in Hawaii, you’ll need to submit everything to Polk County.
- Submit a certified copy of the death certificate to the probate court clerk’s office. Typically, the funeral home will provide the family of the deceased with multiple copies of the death certificate. You can always get more from your state’s Office of Vital Records.
- Fill out a sworn petition to probate the will — The word “petition” is just a fancy legal term for request or application. The petition form will include information about:
- the testator (again, that’s just the deceased)
- an estimation of the total value of their assets — Later in this series, we’ll talk about how to organize that information so the amount submitted can be accurate.
- the names, addresses, and relationships (to the deceased) of anyone named in the will, or if there is no will, the same information for any relatives who might be entitled to inherit.
Note: in some counties, the petition to probate a will has to be drafted and filed by an attorney, so check with the Probate Court Clerk before trying to use or submit any online forms on your own.

Probate Lawyer Scrabble Photo by Melinda Gimpel on Unsplash
The court will charge fees for the probate process; if you have to hire an attorney, there will be fees for that, too. Know that that all estate-related fees can be paid (generally, reimbursed) from the deceased assets.
What Happens Next
Once you file all the paperwork with the probate court, you’ll be schedule for a hearing in front of a probate court judge. Unlike anything you’ve ever seen on Perry Mason or Law & Order, this is not likely to have much dramatic effect. Assuming nobody objects to the person named as executor, the judge will officially appoint the named person to do it.
If there are objections (let’s say Big Brother and Little Sister have a longstanding beef), the judge may name a more neutral party, like an attorney, to serve as the executor. Either way, whoever takes on the role with make an oath to “faithfully” pay the owed debts and distributed whatever assets are left over according the wishes the deceased expressed in the will.
The Executor’s Role
Next, the judge will give the executor a legal document called Letters Testamentary, and yes, it sounds like something out of an 18th-century English novel. Just go with it. In some jurisdictions, it may be called letters of administration. It’s just a document authorizing the executor to act on behalf of the estate.
Again, it’s a legal document. Don’t fold it into quarters and stick it at the bottom of your purse with the half-eaten bag of gummy bears. Don’t clip it to the sun visor of your car. Make a folder for it and put in the VIP (very important paper) section of your filing cabinet. Scan it and keep a copy on your phone so you can refer to it when aren’t at your home or office.
One of the rights of being an executor is actually an obligation: to withdraw all the money from the deceased’s bank accounts and then deposit it in a new account for the estate. This way, the executor can pay the debts and distribute any financial assets to the heirs.
Once the executor has notified all creditors, paid all debts and/or filed objections to creditors’ claims with the court, and distributed the assets, the estate can be closed. This involves filling out and signing a form documenting all payments made from the estate and sending it to all beneficiaries named in the will. If everyone gives the okey-dokey and feels the accounting is correct, they also sign the form. Finally, the form gets submitted to the probate court judge for approval and the estate can be officially closed.
Can you see the advantage of organizing your assets so that your estate can avoid, or at least minimize, probate?
SMALL ESTATE AFFIDAVITS AS AN ALTERNATIVE TO PROBATE
A small estate affidavit isn’t the deed to a tiny house.
“Small estates” are those valued at a relatively low amount. Heirs can collect the assets/property without going through a formal probate process by securing something called a Small Estate Affidavit.
Depending on the state, that “small” amount may be $10,000-$25,000, like in Alabama, Georgia, New Hampshire, and Vermont, or it could be what some of us would not consider small at all, like $150,00-$400,000 in states like Arizona, California, and Wyoming. Most states fall somewhere in the middle. For example, in Tennessee, where Paper Doll resides, the limit is $50,000.
There are usually special requirements for filing small estate affidavits:
- the assets must have been owned solely by the deceased. That means that jointly-held assets don’t count.
- real estate is excluded. Almost all states deny the transfer of real estate to heirs via a small estate affidavit.
- there are waiting periods after the date of death. Almost all states require you to wait some amount of time, generally 30-45 days, before the affidavit can be obtained.
- your executor or proxy will have to get their signature on the affidavit notarized.
There’s an additional hiccup with small estate affidavits. During the normal probate process of a well, the probate court determines if there are creditors owed anything for the deceased’s outstanding deaths and makes sure they get paid.
Because there’s no parallel process with small estate affidavits, the individual filling out the affidavit generally has to report any known debts and take responsibility for them. This is why many people who could avoid the costs and effort that probate entails don’t seek this alternative.
It can also just be a bother. Earlier this year, I found that one of my clients was receiving mail at her address regarding two sets of stock holdings in the name of her deceased father. Although he had a will for which my client was the executor, by the time he died (about five years earlier), the family had not known/felt that he had any assets making the probate process with it. He’d arranged for joint ownership of bank accounts, and no longer owned property, as he was living in a nursing home. At the time of his death, the two stock holdings weren’t at the forefront of anyone’s mind.
Had my client’s father named her (or anyone) as a beneficiary for those stock holdings, she could easily have transferred the funds by supplying a copy of the death certificate. However, because he had never named a beneficiary, my client had to jump through several hoops in order to secure (and pay for) a small estate affidavit, submit it to the stock transfer agent, transfer the account ownership to her name, and finally arrange to sell the stock and receive the proceeds. It took time and effort (for both of us) and money just to ensure a transfer of assets reflecting what his will had originally stated — than anything of his was to go to his daughter.
As you can see, not planning ahead can be a headache for loved ones left behind.
WHY YOU WANT TO AVOID PROBATE
I don’t mean to scare you. The emotional weight surrounding death, either of a loved one or of all of our eventual shuffling off this mortal coil, is heavy. Rather than add the unwanted (and unexpected) weight of the financial and legal aspects of passing, it’s better to get to know and understand the big picture so that you can take actions early enough to smooth the entire process.
So, why avoid probate or at least lessen the complexity?
Lower Costs
Probate can be pricey!
Attorney fees, executor fees, appraiser fees and notary fees all add up. Executors can’t always be expected to donate all of the time necessary to accomplish probate tasks. And, sad to say, courts don’t run on good vibes. If you go through probate, you’ll likely have to shell out for:
- Filing fees — While they vary by state and county, most initial filings costs between $200 and $500 for a standard probate petition filing.
- Attorney fees — Probate attorneys generally charge hourly fees, and an “easy” probate may take 30+ hours at anywhere from $200-$500/hour; alternatively, attorneys may have flat package fees for uncomplicated probate. Note, however, some states have statutes governing attorney fees as a percentage of the estate’s gross value. For example, in California:
- 4% on the first $100,000
- 3% on the next $100,000
- 2% on the next $800,000, and
- 1% on the next $9 million!
- Executor fees — Executors have a right to compensation. While family members may choose note to charge the estate for their labor as executors, they have the right to do so. Plus, in states that have statutory attorney fees for probate, executors are due equivalent payment as a percentage of the estate’s gross value.
- Appraiser fees — In order to determine the fair market value of assets, appraisers bring their expertise to the valuation of everything from real estate and businesses to jewelry, antiques, artwork, and collectibles. And appraisals are usually required as part of the formal inventory of an estate’s holdings.
- Accountant fees — If an estate generates income (like from rent, dividends, interest, or business holdings), someone has to prepare the the taxes!
- Notice and publication costs — Executors incur costs for mailing formal notices to creditors and publishing notices to creditors.
- Certified copies of court orders — While these are small charges, generally from $5-$25 per copy, the executor will need several copies to show title companies, banks, transfer agents, and other financial institutions.
The more fees there are, the less value remains in an estate. If you’re Scrooge McDuck with oodles of gold, it may not make a material difference, but for most people, keeping costs down is essential.
Why let an estate’s value be eaten up and depleted by fees you can avoid?
Save Time
Even in the best of times, probate can take months — sometimes years — to work its way through the courts. During the early COVID pandemic, courts were closed, and once they re-opened, with so many employees working from home without access to physical documents, the process was extended.
Even in normal times, during certain seasons the courts slow down as staffers are on vacation and during holidays. It’s not uncommon for it to take months just to get a probate court hearing date in large metropolitan locations.
In addition to court backlogs, probate can be slowed by other factors, like:
- Mandatory creditor notice periods — States requires executors to notify any creditors and potential creditors and provide a window (often 3-6 months) in which to file claims against the estate. (Creditors, like credit card companies, are easy to notify. Other potential creditors may be unknown, so it’s common to post in the classifieds of Penny Saver newspapers, even almost nobody reads them.) Even if the estate doesn’t have any debts, that notice period is obligatory, and the executor can’t distribute any assets until the window closes. The process is really complicated and varies by state, debt type, and method, so if you’re eager to learn more take a peek at Probate Notice to Creditors and Claim Deadlines by State, and then maybe take an aspirin.
- Sales of real estate and other property required by a will or to satisfy debts — And it’s not just the sale. A property first needs to be appraised, and then it may need to be maintained/remodeled/made “safe for habitation.” If the property wasn’t covered by insurance at the time of death, it must get covered before the property can be sold. Except if the will didn’t grant the executor the authority to sell the property, the whole process could require the court’s approval, and that means scheduling (and then waiting, and then having) another hearing, just to be allowed to accomplish these tasks. And then someone has to be willing to purchase the property! Oy! (Where’s that aspirin?)
- Tax preparation and filings — Depending on the size of the estate, a federal estate tax return using Form 706 (including schedules A through W!) might be due 9 months after the person dies. And if the estate, itself, earned any income during that period (like from investment dividends, rental income, or a business), then the estate may have to file a federal income tax return. Plus, some states have their own estate tax and inheritance tax, so preparing returns and waiting for government entities to process them can takes several months depending on how complex the tax situation is.
- Contested wills — You’ve seen the ripped-from-the-headline cable movies. You’ve heard the gossipy stories. Everything seems like it’s going along smoothly and then someone objects to the will. It can be a creditor, an heir, or mysterious “other” and they might challenge whether the will is valid at all. Siblings argue that Grandma had no mental capacity to make the will or that another individual used “undue influence” to get a will revised. Sometimes, someone argues that an old will is real and a newly-found one is not (or vice versa). It can takes years for contested wills to complete probate!
Where you live can also determine how quickly the probate process goes. In the United States, probate takes an average of 9-24 months; if the deceased had no will, the process generally takes 2-4 extra months, although it can be longer. In Florida and Texas, probate may be completed in six months to a year; in New York and California, 1-2 years is more common.
Chart: Catalina Structured Funding, “How Long Does Probate Take? State-by-State Timelines for 2026,” https://www.catalinastructuredfunding.com/blog/how-long-does-probate-take
The longer probate takes, the longer the delay before assets can be distributed to beneficiaries. Doesn’t it make sense to avoid or at least minimize the probate process?
Ensure Family Privacy
Did you know that probate proceedings are a matter of public record?
That means anyone, from your ex-mother-in-law to Gladys Kravitz can access the details of your estate holdings and know who the recipients of assets are. Maybe you’d rather the world didn’t know that Cousin Floyd left you stock in Playboy Enterprises. When you avoid probate, you get to maintain your family’s privacy.
Reduce Stress
Grief is difficult and unwieldy. When families are in mourning, loved ones feel surges of grief at unexpected times; it’s why you feel “waves” of grief, and why it’s important to keep from being pulled under.
Why add to the emotional pain of loss with a complex and lengthy probate period when you can make inheriting many of the assets easy?
Next time, we’ll explore the specific ways you can avoid probate, or at least limit the process, labor, and costs.
In general, there are three main categories of ways to avoid probate:
- Own property jointly
- Create (and then fill and fund) revokable living trusts
- Arrange for beneficiaries (through Payable-on-Death/Transfer-on-Death assignments)
That last bullet may seem like something you only do with life insurance or retirement accounts, but there are easy, no- and low-cost ways to transfer ownership of everything from bank accounts to stock holdings, and even cars and houses, and we’ll walk through them all.
As we go through this series, we’ll also look at how to organize information about your assets to make the probate process (or avoiding the probate process) so much easier for you and your loved ones.
26 Ways to Celebrate GO Month to Get More Organized and Productive

Happy New Year! Happy GO Month!
Each January is Get Organized & Be Productive (GO) Month. Back in 2005, NAPO (then called the National Association of Professional Organizers) proclaimed the first Get Organized Month, as a national public awareness campaign about organizing and our profession.

A decade later, the month was expanded to incorporate productivity, just two years before we officially became the National Association of Productivity & Organizing Professionals. Our purpose remains the same. All of us — professional organizers, productivity specialists, declutterers, coaches, etc. — celebrate how we improve the lives of our clients by creating environments and developing skills to support productivity, health, and well-being.
Practitioners like Paper Doll are here to help you create systems and skills, improve your homes, workspaces, and attitudes, and live your best, most productive life.
For more great organizing and productivity tips during GO Month, you can also follow NAPO’s Social Media Accounts:
Today’s post offers some 26 ice cream samples of organizing and productivity tactics to make 2026 a little easier.
ORGANIZE YOUR PAPER IN 2026
1) Create a Tax Prep Folder
April 15th will be here before you know it. From now through February, you’ll receive tax documents (1099s, 1098s, W2s) in the mail. You may also get emails reminding you to log in to brokerage and other accounts to download your important tax documents.
Don’t wait until the last minute to gather these items. It’s not just good organizing advice, but helpful financial advice, too, because the sooner you get your important tax documents together, the faster you (or your accountant) can get you your refund, or at worst, let you prepare for the size of your tax bite.
Your tax prep folder doesn’t have to be fancy; a plain tabbed folder kept at the front of your financial files section should suffice. However, if you’re dealing with a lot of documents, you might prefer a dedicated accordion-style folder like the Smead All-in-One Income Tax Organizer.
2) Roll Out the Red Carpet for Your VIPs
Make 2026 the year that you get your affairs in order. Estate documents and other essential paperwork must be created, obviously, but also reviewed and updated on a periodic basis.
As I’ve said before, this aspect of organizing may be boring (if you aren’t a professional organizer), but boring is good! If your VIPs are boring, it means that you and your family won’t ever experience any ugly surprises during difficult times, like when someone is in the hospital, when there’s been a death in the family, or even when dealing with the aftermath of a natural disaster.
Start by reading these from-the-vault posts to figure out your next steps.
- How to Replace and Organize 7 Essential Government Documents
- How to Create, Organize, and Safeguard 5 Essential Legal and Estate Documents
- The Professor and Mary Ann: 8 Other Essential Documents You Need To Create
- Paper Doll’s Ultimate Guide to Organizing Yourself to Get a REAL ID
- Paper Doll’s Ultimate Guide to Getting a Document Notarized
- Paper Doll’s Ultimate Guide to Legally Changing Your Name
- A New VIP: A Form You Didn’t Know You Needed
Then list documents you already have (and their locations) and identify what you need to create, and then plan meetings with your family and a trusted advisor to set things in motion.
3) Declutter and Preserve Your Family Photos and Memorabilia
Two years ago, a beloved client passed away, and I’ve been working with his son to go through more than a century of photos, from passed-down black-and-white picures of ancestors on both sides of the family to lighthearted snapshots and travelogues from the gentleman’s young military years. We review prints and slides, as well as delicate (and crumbling) correspondence.
Do you have print photos that would be lost in case of a fire or flood because you don’t have the negatives (or store them with the photos)? Would digital photos on your phone be lost if your phone got smushed or stolen? You need backup!
I’m not suggesting you do this every day in January, but make a plan. What if you spent an hour every Sunday morning sorting through photos? Could you invite a family member or friend to help you consider what to keep and what categories to use?
Contact a NAPO member who specializes in organizing photos, or visit The Photo Managers to find experts who can help you safeguard your photo history.
While I’m on the subject, I absolutely have to recommend, yet again, my colleague Hazel Thornton‘s What’s a Photo Without the Story? How to Create Your Family Legacy.
In Digital Disaster Prep: How to Organize Your Tech Info Before You Need It earlier this year, I walked readers through all sorts of information you need to know before something goes wrong with your tech. Do you know where to find your:
- IP Address
- Network and router information
- ISP contact information
- Device Identifiers
- Operating system license keys
- Software and game activation codes
Your household probably added some hardware and software goodies this holiday season. This is the perfect time for you to read the post and start logging all of your essential tech information.
ORGANIZE YOUR TIME IN 2026
10) Track Your Time to Figure Out Where Your Time Is Going
Set yourself, and your calendar, free.
14) Pick a Problem-Solving Day
Theming your days can make you more productive because you don’t have to keep switching tasks. Marketing Mondays or Financial Fridays let you schedule a block of similarly-themed tasks so you can focus and get into “flow.”
I encourage clients to pick one day of the week for problem-solving. Block a few hours on a specific day for sitting on the phone and asking, repeatedly, for someone to escalate your call. This is the day you set aside for time to get help on whatever is making your computer do THAT THING.
Knowing that you have a slot firmly in place will allow you to worry less about getting problematic or frustrating things accomplished, and because there’s one place in your schedule for solving problems, you will be able to focus when that day arrives.
Meet Your Organizing Elves: The Pros Who Help Get Your Life in Order

Recently, at the end of a session, my client joked that I was her own Santa’s elf. We laughed, but her description is not that far from the truth.
YOU AND SANTA BOTH NEED ORGANIZATIONAL SUPPORT
Santa’s elves (and Mrs. Claus and the reindeer, of course) help keep Santa from becoming overwhelmed. After all, Santa is basically running a multi-national corporation.
Certainly, he has to control the means of production for his factory. Can you imagine how much paperwork (and how many computer files) it takes to source, order, acquire, and unpack the resources before the toyshop starts making the toys?
But our friend Kris Kringle also manages a customer base of upward of two billion children (the current number of the world’s newborns through fourteen-year-olds), not even counting all the people for whom the magic of the holidays involves believing in Santa. I’m sure, at some point in the late 20th-century, Santa had to learn how to manage a computer database and CRM system to keep straight not only who was on the nice vs. naughty lists, but track them as their behavior meandered from one to the other and back again.
Due to non-compete clauses, nobody’s ever ascertained whether Santa has only one sleigh or a huge fleet with one for each of the 24 time zones to which he delivers. Nonetheless, keeping up with the vehicle maintenance and registration requirements in 195 nations must be quite the task!
Time management is a huge headache, too. Not only do those requests for toys and bikes and little red wagons (and all the modern digital doodads) need to be filled, wrapped, and packed onto the sleigh, but timing all of these deliveries in one night, with no respite for bad weather or reindeer infighting, has to be wearying.
It’s a good thing Santa has his elves.
My clients often feel the same oppressive weights upon them, even if they don’t necessarily have the same international fame as the guy in the big red suit. Whether you need to deal with organizing and productivity pitfalls at home or at work, in your computer or your kitchen, your closet or your warehouse, there are professionals who can give you support.
Perhaps between preparing for Thanksgiving and the winter holidays, entertaining company, trying to make headway on languishing projects with end-of-year deadlines, and figuring out how to make space for everything coming in (to your home, to your schedule, and to your life), you have realized that you could use a little elf-like magic as you go into next year.
Today’s post is a chance for you to get to know all of the organizational (and organizing-adjacent) experts who can help you reduce overwhelm, coach your decision-making, and bring subject-matter expertise to help you overcome obstacles (whether tangible, temporal, or cognitive) so you can be your best self.
(Heh. Maybe that should be my holiday marketing campaign: I’ll be my best elf so you can be your best self.)
PROFESSIONAL ORGANIZERS AND PRODUCTIVITY SPECIALISTS
We professional organizers and productivity gurus didn’t all start out and orderly elves. Paper Doll was a television executive. Many, many of my colleagues were teachers. Some were attorneys, social workers, hoteliers, accountants, designers, and so many other types of professionals.
Sometimes, we felt like we were on the Island of Misfit Toys, but almost as if by holiday magic, we all found where we truly belong. And yes, we know that not all elves are always so lucky to find their fit right away.
NAPO

Longtime readers of Paper Doll are already familiar with the concept of professional organizers, but many people are surprised by the variety of services we provide.
If you think a professional organizer is just about moving the stuff around, I’ve got a surprise for you. As I tell my clients, “Housekeeping is about the stuff; professional organizing is about the person who owns (and uses, and maintains) the stuff.”
Housekeeping is about the stuff; professional organizing is about the person who owns (and uses, and maintains) the stuff. Share on XAmong the professionals in the National Association of Productivity and Organizing Professionals (NAPO), there are plenty of generalists. In just the past few weeks, I’ve:
- helped a client pare down a collection of family photos and slides ranging from the late 1800s to the 1970s
- organized holiday charitable requests, identified the client’s philanthropic priorities, and oversaw the donation process
- supported a client with cognitive decline to maintain daily productivity
- decluttered and downsized: cleaning supplies in kitchen cabinets, books and décor from bookshelves, a wardrobe that largely no longer served a client’s physique or style, and more
- assisted clients in accessing funds by searching for unclaimed property, organizing supporting documentation for class action suits, and submitting claims for health insurance
- reworked a client’s overly-ambitious December schedule so that she actually had time to enjoy the holidays.
Although I do specialize in paper and information management and productivity coaching, my in-person clients seek my help for solving all manner of organizing-related mysteries and kerfuffles in their lives, and it’s the same for my colleagues.
Some professional organizers specialize in particular types of clients:
- people with chronic disorganization or hoarding disorders
- individuals with brain-based conditions ranging from ADHD and autism to traumatic brain injuries to dementia
- people with physical disabilities
- seniors
- new parents
- children
- older students
- solopreneurs and small business professionals
Others in our field focus on particular types of spaces for downsizing, clutter control, and organizing in:
- kitchens
- closets
- living spaces (main and guest bedrooms, living rooms, bathrooms)
- home offices
- playrooms
- basements
- attics
- storage units
- work spaces (like professional kitchens, law offices, physicians offices, science labs, theaters, etc.)
We also specialist in particularly kinds of services that cross the “who” and “where” categories, like:
- time management coaching
- paper management
- digital organizing
- organizing and managing photographs and memorabilia
- financial organizing, including bill-paying, budgeting assistance, and bookkeeping
- estate management
- medical history management
- household management
- eco-organizing
- home inventorying
- home staging
- yard/garage/estate sale management
- packing and unpacking for moves
- space planning and design
This doesn’t even begin to take into account the services some professional organizers provide to businesses, including: business automation, corporate operations, event planning, records management, technology training, and more.
Basically, are overwhelmed by it, exhausted by it, stymied by it? Do you “just” need someone to come in and do it (or teach you how to do it — or how to do it better)? If it takes less time and you can focus on what’s important to you — then organizing and productivity specialists can help.
To find a professional organizer, visit the NAPO directory directly, or navigate from NAPO’s front page to the Find a Pro menu at the top. Search geographically or within a radius from your zip code, pick the business and/or residential specialties in which you need assistance, and review the list of my colleagues provided.
And don’t forget, much of the work we do with and for our clients can be done virtually, so you can pick that option from the specialty drop-down if you’re open to getting help from afar.
NAPO members represent thousands of separate professionals, coming together to gain continuing education and support one another so that we can support our clients.
Certification, Certificates, and Skills
When the NAPO directory provides you with names to peruse, you may see some additional notes.

Certified Professional Organizers (CPOs) are those of us who have attained credentials reflecting specific standards. That originally included 1500 hours (now 1000 hours) of paid client-centric work prior to sitting for a comprehensive exam (among other requirements), adhering to the BCPO Code of Ethics for Certified Professional Organizers, and obtaining continuing education in a variety of subjects during a three-year certification period.
For more about certification, you can check out the “What is a Certified Professional Organizer” tab here on my website, including my article, In Checkbooks And Underwear Drawers: What Certified Professional Organizers Offer Our Clients.
Specialist Certificates — In addition to the deep and wide subject matter expertise needed for certification, NAPO members may also hold certificates in specialized subjects, including:
- Brain-based conditions
- Household management
- Life transitions

- Move management and home staging
- Residential Organizing
- Team productivity
- Work productivity
Institute for Challenging Disorganization
Founded in 1990 by my colleague Judith Kolberg and originally called the National Study Group on Chronic Disorganization, the Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD) has as its mission to provide organizing professionals and the public with education and helpful strategies, and conduct research, regarding chronic disorganization.
Membership in NAPO and subscribership in ICD often overlap, and professionals in our field may obtain a variety of ICD specialist certificates related to chronic disorganization, hoarding disorders, and other related conditions.
Other Organizing and Productivity Associations
There are helpful organizing elves everywhere!
Outside of the United States, there’s an ever-growing universe of organizing and productivity professionals.

For our colleagues to the north, Professional Organizers in Canada (POC) has a similar search engine to NAPO’s. At their Find An Organizer page, you can specify services areas and specialties as well as languages spoken. (You didn’t think Santa’s elves spoke only English, right?)
NAPO, ICD, and POC do not stand alone. We have colleagues around the world as part of the International Federation of Professional Organizing Associations, including:
- Associaçāo Nacional de Profissionais de Organizaçāo e Produtividade (ANPOP, in Brazil)
- Association of Professional Organizers of Spain (AOPE)
- Association of Professional Declutterers and Organisers (APDO, in the UK)
- L’Associazione Professional Organizers Italia (APOI, the site at which Paper Doll supplements her Duolingo Italian practice by trying to discern meaning)
- Chinese Association of Life Organizers (CALO)
- Finnish Association of Professional organizers (FAPO)
- Federation Francophone des Professionnels de l’Organisation (FFPO, in France)
- Hong Kong Association of Professional Organizers (HAPO)
- Heart Home and Space Organizer (HHS, in Taiwan)
- Japanese Association of Life Organizers (JALO, not to be confused with Ja-Lo AKA: Jennifer Lopez)
- Korean Association of Professional Organizers (KAPO)
- National Association of Black Professional Organizers (NABPO, headquartered in Atlanta)
- Nederlandse Beroepsvereniging van Professional Organizers (NBPO, in the Netherlands)
- Swedish Association of Professional Organizers (SBPO)
Several times a month, I am asked by friends, former classmates, clients, and random acquaintances to provide referrals and recommendations for professional organizers to help people’s loved ones, whether across the continent or across the world. It’s heartening to know that I have colleagues in so many places, ready to help those who are seeking a little more space or serenity.
OTHER ORGANIZING-RELATED PROFESSIONAL ELVES
In addition to ICD and POC, and the National Association of Black Professional Organizers (NABPO) referenced above, NAPO has other affiliate organizations.
Daily Money Managers
Santa has to deal with financial transactions in 180 different worldwide currencies. Your finances may not be so complex, but whatever your needs, whether to help Grandma keep up with her retirement investments or to just make sure the bills get paid on time, the American Association of Daily Money Managers (AADMM) has financial organizing professionals to assist you.
Daily Money Managers (DMM) offer a wide variety of personal financial services to individuals and families, and manages financial tasks including bill-paying and oversight, budgeting, and record keeping. Some serve as fiduciaries for clients who are incapacitated.
Aging/Geriatric Care Professionals
Santa and Mrs. C. aren’t exactly spring chickens, and like all of us, may someday need support.
The professionals in Aging Life Care Association (ALCA) specialize in aging and disability issues while ensuring client “safety, continuity, and dignity.” As experts in health and human services, they can assist and advocate for families caring for older adult relatives or individuals with disabilities. They can partner with professional organizers and senior move managers whenever clients and their families are going through major life transitions — whether they’re downsizing so family members can age in place or to help them relocate to other living situations.
Photo Organizers
Many NAPO professional organizers are comfortable helping their clients organize their photos or find solutions for digitizing them. But The Photo Managers (formerly the Association of Personal Photo Organizers) use their passion for photo collections and personal storytelling to assist clients with culling, organizing, and digitizing photos, as well converting older media to newer formats and sharing pictures.
OTHER MONEY ELVES
Every year, I learn about new types of professionals who can help me help my clients overcome the obstacles that clutter their daily lives. These include:
Claims Assistance Professionals
As I discussed in Organize and Lower Your Medical Bills: Spot Errors, Negotiate Costs, and Save Money, there are a variety of medical billing specialists, medical cost advocates, and patient advocates. In addition, if you’re drowning in medical claim paperwork that makes no sense, or you’re getting the runaround from the insurance company, you may want to reach out to a claims assistance professionals through The Alliance of Claims Assistance Professionals.
Financial Advisors
Knowing what to do with your money can be confusing, and it’s scary to wonder whether the advice you’re being given is good for you, or just good for an advisor taking a percentage of what you earn.
Before considering hiring a financial advisor, talk to the elves in your life: your family members, friends, and colleagues who seem to handle their dollars with sense. I am neither a fiduciary nor a money maven, but I do recommend that if you’re seeking help with building your financial future, you should find a fee-only financial planner. That’s someone you pay a flat fee, rather than a percentage, to provide you with advice.
The National Association of Personal Financial Advisors (NAPFA) is a great first start. You can also find Certified Financial Planners via the location search at PlannerSearch.org.
Appraisers
A professional organizer can help you divide the wheat from the chaff when you’re figuring out what to donate and what to keep; we’ll hold your hands when we tell you that your collection of mini Beanie Babies you got at McDonalds will not fund your retirement. We may help you research the provenance and potential value of what you own. But no organizing professional is going to tell you for certain whether that piece of furniture or jewelry or coin collection is worth. For that, you need an appraiser.
An art appraiser is not a stamp appraiser; fields of specialty range from wine to textiles, furniture to musical instruments, coins to fine art to books. Start with an accredited appraisal association like:
to find the experts that can help you understand the value of your property and make wise decisions regarding what to do with what you own.
Certified Divorce Financial Analyst
Paper Doll hopes you never have to deal with a divorce (unless it’s something that will make your life better). However, I’ve worked with enough clients going through the divorce process to know that attorneys don’t have the bandwidth to deal with some of the intricacies of the financial situation.
Certified Divorce Financial Analysts are professionals who can help you figure out the complex financial aspects of your divorce. This may help you secure an equitable share of marital assets in order to plan your financial future.
If you or someone you know needs support in this area, start with the Institute for Divorce Financial Analysts.
OTHER HOUSE ELVES
When you hear house elves, you probably think of Harry Potter. As a GenXer who grew up near Canada, I start daydreaming about house hippos.
But I digress.
In addition to the residential professional organizer services covered by NAPO and her sister organizations, there is some crossover into home relocation specialties.
Senior Move Managers
The National Association of Senior and Specialty Move Managers is made up of relocation specialists. They’re focused on strategies for helping older adults (and their families) with the relocation process, including downsizing, as well as packing and unpacking, and assisting with logistics.
Home Stagers
In the olden days, when you wanted to sell your house, you hired a real estate agent. They told you to clean the house and pop a sheet of cookies in the oven to make things smell nice. Over the last few decades, however, home staging — literally staging your home to make it possible for prospective buyers to imagine themselves living there — has become a big deal.
Staging can involve removing objects that are overly personal or reflect particular belief systems, subtracting or adding furniture or décor to create a particular aesthetic, and generally working to show a house off in the best light.
As with senior move managers, you will likely find some crossover between NAPO/IFPOA professionals, but to find a home stager in your area, start with the Real Estate Staging Association and the America Society of Home Stagers and Redesigners.
Obviously, your organization and productivity needs are complicated, and by talking about elves, I am not entirely making light of anyone’s struggles.
Sometimes you just need a handy-person to help you lift and carry things to the attic or out to the curb; however, most of the time, a professional organizer or productivity specialist is the ideal person to guide you through the myriad decisions to make to move your life in the direction you want.
And when the real obstacles are not the things, but ourselves, and special services are needed, there are ADHD coaches, life coaches — even decision-making coaches — and mental health professionals! We professional organizers recognize that while we have unique skills, working collaboratively with other experts is often the best way to deliver excellence and help our mutual clients reach their goals.
Today’s post is a reminder that whatever is causing clutter in your space, your schedule, your finances, or your mind, you’re not alone. Reaching out to experts is a gift you can give a loved one — or yourself.
I suspect Santa would approve.












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