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Paper Doll’s Ultimate Guide to Clutter-Free Experiential Gifts: Educational
THE PSYCHOLOGY OF EXPERIENTIAL GIFTS
What’s the best tangible holiday present you ever received? Hold that thought. Now, what’s best experiential gift?
If your biggest sense of delight came from a gift you got as a child, most of your gifts were probably tangible. When we’re little, our frames are reference are smaller, and our wished-for things take up a large proportion of our hopes and dreams: a bicycle, a dollhouse, a magic set. You probably remember getting stuff.
If the holiday gift came in adulthood, however, there may be a few special tangible gifts you recall, but I’d bet you’d be hard-pressed to talk about the gifts you received in 2021, or 2017, or a decade ago. Tangible gifts recede in our memories; gadgets get replaced by updates, clothing wears out, books and music gets consumed and blended in among our possessions. But experiential gifts, in part because our experiences are unique to us and are also separate from our everyday lives, live on in our memories.
Experiential gifts are not only more memorable, they are also more satisfying than tangible ones, overall. Research from a variety of sources, including Thomas Gilovich, the Irene Blecker Rosenfeld Professor of Psychology at Cornell University, found that enjoyment received from experiential purchases far exceeds that of tangible items.
The anticipatory aspect is part of it. When we decide to do something, we start thinking about what we will be experiencing. Thus, our imaginations fill in the details in a way that makes thinking about tangible items pale in comparison. Most research has followed this with regard to the things we buy for ourselves, but when we get experiential gifts, they are endowed with the same anticipatory delight between when we get them and when we can use them. The gifts we give should have the same power to stir imagination in our recipients between when they unwrap their presents and when they get to use them.
There’s also a reflective or retrospective aspect that makes experiential gifts more powerful. While we shouldn’t compare the gifts we get to what our friends and loved ones gets, comparison is natural. My iPhone 14 to your Google Pixel; my air fryer to your InstaPot.
If what I have is inferior to what you have in even one aspect, it it may decrease the delight I feel about what I received, even if I loved mine before comparing it with yours. And if mine is better than yours, well, the excitement doesn’t last. It’s just a thing. Moreover, very few tangible things retain their charm after weeks or months or years. (We’ve talked about the concept of the hedonic treadmill before, with regard to Diderot’s dressing gown in Toxic Productivity Part 2: How to Change Your Mindset. Basically, we get used to stuff.)
Conversely, it’s practically impossible to compare different experiences (yours vs. someone else’s) because there are so many relative differences. My family’s hour in an escape room is going to be completely different from the hour your family spent in one, even if it was at the same location following the same clues and scripts.
At most, you can compare elements of your memories (of the escape room clues, of locations in your trip to Italy, with someone else’s memories of their experiences, but you’re far less likely to compare and feel your own experience to be unfavorable unless your trip was a catastrophe. (Fell into a volcano? Well, at least you get to sell the movie rights!) Experiences, like the individuals who do the experiencing, are unique.
Today, we’re going to look at a specific kind of experiential gifts — gifts of learning, which involve both learning how to do things and learning for the sheer joy of knowledge.
GIFTS OF EDUCATION
The opportunity to learn something new is a gift that keeps on giving. Outside of the formal education of high school or college, we rarely get permission to be a “beginner” in a subject, and the stakes are so much lower because we need not worry about our permanent record. Paper Doll didn’t study Italian or learn how to ballroom dance, two courses readily available at my university, out of a fear of failure. But as an adult, the stakes for “failure” are much lower if there are no grades or rankings.
Learn By Doing
We’ll begin with participatory educational gifts that let you learn by doing. Consider these gifts for your friends and loved ones.
- Music lessons — Whether your recipient wants to pick up where they left off in middle school and learn the flute without being forced to participate in the marching band, or learn guitar for the first time to play a favorite song, learning to play an instrument has been found to improve patience, memory, and self-confidence, among other benefits.
- Singing lessons — Your bestie may want to get up on stage or just feel more confident singing in the shower, but vocal lessons have been proven to improve posture, boost concentration, and even reduce sleep apnea.
- Dance classes — It doesn’t matter whether you want master the TikTok dances like Lizzo’s About Damned Time or Meghan Trainor’s Made You Look; dancing isn’t just for tots in tutus and hip GenZ kids. From ballroom to ballet, tap to jazz, if you know someone who loves to dance and wants to master some skills, a package of classes from a dance studio may make your giftee twirl!
- Physical education classes — This isn’t about passing that Presidential Physical Fitness Test. (Oh, how I hated that!) And obviously you don’t want to body shame a loved one into working out.
However, if your BFF wants to get leaner or stronger, you can gift several months of an in-person gym membership or a package of online on-demand classes, like at Obé Fitness, Barre3, ClassPass, Alo Moves, and Peleton.
From aerobics and bootcamp to Pilates and Peleton to yoga and Zumba, you can find classes that work for your recipient. Or maybe your bestie would prefer to have private fitness coaching sessions. (You can even secure gifts of session with online personal trainers, such as with Future.)
- Self-Defense Classes — This may seem like a downer; nobody wants to be reminded that the world isn’t safe. But there are so many other benefits to learning self-defense methods, from improved self-confidence and self-respect to better balance and quicker reflexes!
- Horseback riding — Horseback riding has been incorporated into some types of therapy because of a variety physical benefits (improved core strength, balance, and coordination) and mental ones (reduced anxiety, increased compassion, and relaxation). If your loved one shouts “Horsie!” any time you pass a horse while driving and can’t pass up a repeat viewing of National Velvet, consider riding lessons as a gift.
- Driver’s education — For teens or adults, a package of driving lessons can help give the twin gifts of safe driving skills and confidence. As a bonus, many 55+ drivers can find their car insurance rates reduced if they take safe driving or defensive driving classes.
- Language lessons — Learning a language may initially seem like a purely intellectual pursuit, but it’s definitely a learn-by-doing experience. Your mouth has to move in different (dare I say, “foreign”) ways, and learning a language can be a full-body experience. (You really have to throw yourself into listening, speaking, reading, and writing in a different language, and you may find yourself walking and gesturing in line with the language you learn!)
If you’ve been reading Paper Doll for a while, you know that I’ve been studying Italian since 2018. So far, I’ve been happy with the free lessons via Duolingo. In fact, I recently hit a milestone!
However, Duo (as the cool kids call it) has a paid “Super” (formerly “Plus”) subscription with advanced features for $6.99/month.
Other options for giving online language learning subscriptions include Pimsleur, Rosetta Stone, Mango, Babbel, and Memrise. If you think your recipient would prefer more structured, in-person classes, you could pay for a local university or community college class. Another alternative, especially if your giftee would like to refresh long-lost language skills, might be a package of lessons with a language tutor.
- Cooking classes — Whether your recipient is a post-college cooking novice or a veteran who wants to learn to specialize in a particular cuisine, there are so many great cooking class options. Just type “cooking classes” and the name of your recipient’s city into a search engine to find classes taught at local restaurants, culinary schools, community colleges, and cooking supply stores.
Other in-person options include:
Eataly — With locations in Boston, Chicago, Dallas, Las Vegas, Los Angeles, New York City, and Silicon Valley, these Italian marketplace/restaurants have classes and special events ranging from cooking classes for adults and kids to market tours (to learn where the experts go), from butcher to baker.
Sur La Table, maker of fine cookware, offers both in-store classes as well as a variety of affordably-priced online courses (beginning at $29/household). Experts teach the live 90-120 minute classes, offered via password-protected Zoom sessions, so your giftee (and any other family members hanging out in the kitchen) can ask questions as they follow along step-by-step.
From Thai stir-fried dumplings to homemade tiramisu, they’ve got you covered.
Creampuff Snow People. ©Sur La Table
Goldbelly Live! Cook-Alongs help you send a combination gift of food and education. You purchase a Goldbelly meal kit and the Live! (via Zoom) cook-along group classes are included. The ingredients arrive the day prior to your class, and you can learn how to make pizza to dumplings to cookies, class-and-kit combos tend to range from $99 to $159.
Unfortunately, it looks like all the current classes are sold out, but take a peek at the video to get a sense of what might make a great upcoming gift.
Would your recipients prefer more intimate cooking class experiences? Buy a gift card (from $100+) from The Chef & the Dish‘s to give private classes with “white glove service” taught by chefs around the world. Your giftee books a class, and a Kitchen Assistant makes contact to host a personal Kitchen Prep Session to check the camera settings, review the shopping list, and answer pre-class questions.
Recipients can pick from 100+ courses covering a variety of cuisines: American Basque Country, Brazilian, Canary Island, Caribbean, Dominican, Eastern European, Hungarian, Indian, Italian, Japanese Mediterranean, Mexican, Moroccan, Peruvian, South African, Spanish, Thai, Turkish, and Tuscan. (There are also group classes, if your recipient prefers that kind of conviviality.) See it in action!
One of my favorite finds is League of Kitchens, which features immigrant women from around the world who are experienced home cooks rather than restaurant chefs. League of Kitchens describes itself as is a “culinary dream-team of women from around the world who will welcome you into their homes, teach you their family recipes, and inspire you with their personal stories.”
League of Kitchens’ online cooking classes include an interactive cooking instruction session, a virtual dinner party, a packet with the instructor’s family recipes, and a video recording of the class. (For New York City-based learners, there are also in-person immersion cooking classes in the instructors’ homes, featuring lessons as well as a light lunch and beverage.)
International cuisines represented include Afghan, Argentinian, Bengali, Greek (nomnomnom), Indonesian, Japanese, Lebanese, Mexican, Nepali, Persian, Russian, and Uzbek. Classes are $60/device, and you can buy gift cards so your besties can pick the cooking course of their choice.
This is just the beginning; the internet is full of intriguing cooking classes; review the courses for your recipient’s tastes and check the reviews. Other options:
Cozymeal offers live vegetarian, vegan, pescatarian, and other healthy-option cooking classes for $29; you can buy a gift card in increments of $50+.
Traveling Spoon is an option if your giftees like to travel abroad and would like to have a cooking lesson with a home cook wherever they journey. Options include in-home meals, cooking classes, and half-day market visits. You pick the gift card, they pick the location.
Speaking of travel, if your giftee likes to eat but (like Paper Doll) isn’t that enamored of cooking, another educational option might be gifting a food tour. Depending on the tour, one might learn the historical or cultural significance of different types of foods or dining experiences.
To find tours to give as gifts, use your favorite search engine and type in the recipients’ hometowns or wherever they tend to travel (i.e., where their parents, in-laws, or adult children live). Alternatively, for food tour ideas around the world, check out:
- 10 Best Food Tours in the USA
- 25 Best Food Tours in the United States
- 20 of the Best Food Tours Around the World
Similarly, winery and brewery tours might be just the surprise your recipients might enjoy to learn about their favorite adult beverages.
Learn for the Delight of Learning
Not all gifts of learning center around about doing. Sometimes, people just want to absorb knowledge, whether it’s about literature, music, and the arts, or about how the world has come to be the way it is.
The Great Courses is a perfect place to start, because there’s an absolute buffet of options, from history, literature, and language, to economics and finance, to philosophy and religion, to science and mathematics, and so much more.
Your recipients can take a (virtual) grand tour of England, Scotland, and Wales, or get tips on how to train a dog; they can get a handle on Norse Mythology or understand the Federalist Papers; there are even language classes for those wanting to learn Spanish, Japanese, Italian, and more. The 2022 Great Courses Gift-Giving Guide is full of (currently) discounted course offerings — 537 of them!
The Great Courses’ Wondrium YouTube channel provides playlists of video equivalents of free “ice cream samples” of various classes. Peruse them to spark ideas for which of your people would like which classes.
Courses are offered on online as “instant” audio or video (and on DVD!), and are priced anywhere from $29.95 upward. You can purchase a specific course for a gift, or buy a gift certificate so your giftees can choose what they like best.
Master Class is the ultimate option if you want to give a gift that’s educational but less academic. I’m sure you’ve seen the ads everywhere you go online, but in case you’re unfamiliar, MasterClass is a streaming platform where you (or, y’know, your recipients) can watch or listen to hundreds of video lessons taught by 100+ of the world’s best in their fields.
Master Class content is less like sitting in a classroom and more like being mentored by recognized experts. From business and leadership to filmmaking, screenwriting, and acting, to a melange of photography, cooking, music, sports, science and technology, and government, it’s all there.
Even within categories, there’s lots of variety. Does your recipient like music? Master Class has courses taught by Yo-Yo Ma, Big Nas, and Metallica. (Yes, really.) Bill Nye teaches Science and Problem Solving, Malala instructs on how to create change, and Gloria Steinem and colleagues present the evolution of feminism.
Melinda Gates teaches a course for using your powers (and money, one imagines) for good. From Indian cooking to how to think like an FBI profiler to courses on creating an athlete’s mindset to buying and selling real estate, your recipient will never get bored. From Neil Gaiman to Neil deGrasse Tyson, and from Jane Goodall to Christina Aguilera (and seriously, watch both those links to see how similarly these women begin their videos!), there should be something here your giftee will find compelling.
Master Class offers three annual plans: Standard, Plus, or Premium (at $15, $20, and $23/month, respectively, billed annually, though right now they’re offering a $180, 2-for-1 holiday special — buy an annual membership for yourself and get one free to give as a gift). The main difference is the number of devices one can be using simultaneously (1, 2, or 6, respectively), and if using the Standard plan, you can’t download the courses for offline viewing.
Gifts of learning are one kind of experiential gift; next week we’ll round out the gift advice with other alternative types of clutter-free presents that allow your recipients to have memorable, appealing experiences.
Meanwhile, please share in the comments about your favorite thing to learn. What kind of classes or learning experiences have you received, or would you like to get, as a gift?
Calm Cooking Chaos (Part 3): Organize With Recipe Apps
Recipes aren’t just recipes. They’re guidebooks to health. Remembrances of family legacies. Step-by-step guidelines for bringing people together. The fact that most people’s recipes are messy and scattered from cookbooks to index cards to clippings (and online) reflects modern life. Families are scattered across time zones; people’s schedules are filled to the brim. Bringing order to recipe collections and cooking plans helps bring order to your life.
Bringing order to recipe collections and cooking plans helps bring order to your life. Share on XIn the last two posts, we looked at how to organize recipes from a number of perspectives.
Calm Cooking Chaos (Part 1): Organize Your Paper Recipes covered paring down recipe excess and creating a tangible binder (or set of binders) to organize and keep track of all of your important recipes, divided by categories. This method is approachable and designed for any skill level.
Calm Cooking Chaos (Part 2): Organize Your Recipes Digitally looked at three methods for digitally organizing recipes, from how to get them into digital form to how to make sense of them once you do. We looked at organizing through creating computer files, using Evernote to finesse the system with notes, notebooks, and tags (and ramp up the system with amazing Boolian search power), and employing Pinterest to organize visually.
APPS FOR ORGANIZING YOUR RECIPES DIGITALLY
The previously mentioned systems, and especially Evernote, aren’t designed for cooks, so specialized apps have been developed to bridge the gap and help collate and organize recipes specifically.
As has been firmly established, Paper Doll is not a cook but an organizer. So, the following post is not a review of apps, but is merely informational. (If you burn the Thanksgiving pie because an app had a wonky public-facing recipe (or because you set your oven to 500°, that’s not on me.)
When trying to assist my clients in organizing their recipes, we first downsize and collate to make sure we know what’s important to them; the very last step is storing recipes, whether on paper or digitally. My clients have different needs, and have chosen different apps, each with their own merits and demerits.
Make sure you take into account ease of use, ability to clip recipes and/or import them or create your own, and the granularity of the search function in any prospective app selection.
Meal-planning functions or one-click shopping list may be important to you, or you might hunger for a social recipe-sharing aspect. Caveat cibus praeparator (which was the closest I could get to the cook equivalent of “caveat emptor” — it directly translates as “food preparer beware”).
Paprika Recipe Manager
Paprika Recipe Manager is a classic in this field. Paprika lets you add your own recipes via uploading from your camera, but it’s really designed to let you capture recipes you find online (like through Google, on blogs you read, from recipe sites, etc.). Add the bookmarklet to your browser and click (much like the Evernote Web Clipper we discussed last week), or navigate to the web page you want from within Paprika’s browser and find the recipe you want.
In general, you’re capturing recipes with one click. Once you’ve added a recipe to your Paprika account, it uploads to the cloud, auto-formats the recipe, and syncs automatically across your devices, so if you add a recipe to your phone while scrolling in the grocery line, you’ll be able to pull it up from your tablet in your kitchen. Once uploaded, the recipes can be sorted by category and searched.
Paprika can also help you generate smart grocery lists based on the recipes you save; the app intuits where individual ingredients can be found and sorts and assigns them to specific aisles (Produce, Dairy, Canned & Jarred, etc.). If you’ve got the same ingredients in multiple recipes you tell Paprika you’ll be making, it will combine them so you’d know you need 6 eggs across three recipes, or two apples for two different meals.
Paprika has interactive features to help you keep your place in a recipe — tap to highlight a step or cross off a now-used ingredient. Paprika can also help you scale ingredients for different number or size servings, convert measurements to metric (and back), and set timers.
Paprika has platform-specific apps ranging from $4.99 (mobile) to $29.99 (computer); each app is sold separately, which can get pricey. However, all versions are on sale now through the end of November 2022 for 40%-50% off: iOS ($2.99) and Android for mobile, and Mac ($14.99) and Windows ($14.99) for computers.
Users have noted that the different versions of Paprika excel at different things. So, when you want to save one of your own recipes or capture from online, it’s somewhat easier on a computer; however, for grocery shopping, you’re obviously going to want to access the app on a mobile device. For cooking, itself, you’ll likely want the largest text possible and not want to have to hold your phone, so using a tablet may split the difference.
Paprika works best when you’re using its built-in browser, so bear in mind that if you’ve tricked out Chrome or Safari with extensions and share buttons galore, you’ll have to remember to switch to Paprika to surf recipe sites. Otherwise, you’ll have to copy a link from your regular browser and paste it into Paprika to capture it. Your comfort level will depend on how much you usually personalize your tech.
Big Oven Recipes & Meal Planner
Big Oven — Around since 2003, this platform has all the standard features you might seek. Upload your own scanned recipes, copy and paste a recipe from a text document, type your recipe in Big Oven’s simple form, or clip online recipes with the Big Oven Clipper bookmarklet.
Use up leftovers by typing in three ingredients you have on hand in your pantry, fridge, or freezer, and Big Oven yields screens of recipe options (with photos and titles) as static recipes or videos. You can even narrow it from all of the sites’ recipes to just from your own collection, or toggle categories like main dishes, desserts, side dishes, soups and stews, salads, etc. I entered cheese, butter, and eggs and then filtered for appetizers and got more than my fair share of pages of mouth-watering options.
Big Oven has over one million recipes already uploaded from more than 3000 food bloggers and worldwide websites (with attribution and permission — Big Oven takes copyright seriously). They’re divided by searchable categories including courses (breakfast, dinner, etc.), collections (low-carb, vegan, vegetarian, gluten-free, dairy-free, keto, low-sodium, easy weeknight dinners, make-ahead recipes, and yes, my favorite, a whole collection for grilled cheese!), and editorial content, as well as a search by ingredients.
It also has meal planner and grocery list functions.
Use Big Oven in your browser on your computer, or download the iOS or Android apps. Big Oven’s basic membership is free, and includes the million+ recipes and search, the grocery list function, the Leftovers tool, and access via web, mobile, and tablet. However, you can only save up to 200 recipes; for more, plus advanced organization and nutrition tools, there’s a Pro version ($2.99/month or $24.99/year).
Pestle
Pestle feels like the most modern, high-tech version of all of the apps in this list, but it’s iOS-only, so if you’re Android or prefer to handle your recipes on your computer, it’s not for you. It’s also designed more for collecting and organizing recipes from the web than from your own collection.
When you identify a recipe you want, Pestle scan the recipe for ingredients, steps, nutritional information, etc., and save the information for you. Then Pestle turns the recipe into a step-by-step guide, so cooks who ordinarily get overwhelmed and keep losing don’t need to worry.
Pestle lets you tap the screen to start an unlimited number of timers (good for holiday cooking!). Cooler still, you don’t have to touch your device at all — just say “Next”, and Pestle moves the recipe to the next step for you.
Via Apple’s SharePlay, Pestle also gives you the opportunity to cook along with anyone else, anywhere. Get on FaceTime, start cooking with Pestle, and the steps synchronize between you and your cooking buddy. Click Next on your screen, and it moves to the next step for both of you!
The Pestle Household function allows you to share both recipes and meal plans with anyone designated as friends or family, so when you save a recipe to your device, it shows up at their end, too!
The app also does scaling and conversion calculations, so if you need to change servings from 4 people to a dozen, Pestle does the math. It will convert Imperial measurements (that’s what we Americans use, even though we don’t have royalty) to metric (and vice versa).
Dish Dish
Dish Dish helps you clip recipes from cooking sites using its recipe import tool or type your recipes in, and then arrange them into collections or cookbooks. Users can search their recipes, tag them, and choose a preferred level of privacy.
Opt to keep collections private or share them with the Dish Dish community (or just with Dish Dish friends); you can also share your recipes selectively via email or on social media. There’s also a social aspect on Dish Dish, letting you comment on other users’ recipes.
The recipe search lets you sort and search by category (everything from food type, like beef or eggs or fruit, to meal type, like main dish or breakfast), by cuisine (almost A-Z, from African to Vietnamese), or by tags you’ve selected. Note, unlike the Evernote tagging we discussed last week, you must choose pre-existing tags in the system, like for specific events or holidays (Thanksgiving, baby showers), special needs (cancer care, diabetes-friendly, low cholesterol), or gadget (convection oven, slow cooker).
Avail yourself of their huge substitutions list in case you get halfway through a recipe and find you’re missing something fairly vital. For math-phobic folks, Dish Dish will recalculate ingredient measurements with one click — just enter the number of servings you want.
Dish Dish works on the web or in mobile apps; the apps are free, as is the basic membership, which lets you add recipes, tag/organize/search, connect with friends, and view both public and friends’ recipes. There are also two levels of paid membership with additional features: Private ($19/year) gets you unlimited recipe sharing, the shopping list, a menu planner, and friend’s recipes, while Private Pro ($29.99) has private recipe sharing and unlimited recipe sharing.
Dish Dish’s allegedly also has concierge service (mentioned on their promotional video, but I couldn’t find it on the site), whereby you can send 30 recipes to them to input for you.
Personally, I found the site to be a bit buggy, and was disappointed by the lack of photos in a lot of the public recipes. I also noticed that many of the recipes are incomplete beyond the ingredients and instructions, so the fields for prep time or cook time may be blank.
Recipe Box
Recipe Box works on the web via your browser or an iOS-only app (sorry, Android, Chrome, and Firefox folks) and is designed more for the person whose recipes are all over the internet (whether privately saved or public-facing). Save the URL of any recipe you find online to get just the recipe, but none of the background stories, ads, or the rest of what surrounds the recipe so you can focus on the cooking.
Add a recipe to your collection in one of two ways: either copy the URL of a recipe (from an article, blog post, Evernote, Pinterest, etc.), launch the app, and select “Import URL,” or use the Share Extension from your browser.
To organize your collection, just add a “category” to whatever recipe you’ve saved; then choose from their tags or create your own. Search to browse all recipes or within categories (breakfast, lunch, dinner; keto, vegetarian; Asian, Indian, Italian, Mexican, etc.). In addition to any recipes you add yourself, the site is packed with recipes from a variety of blogs and sites, like the Food Network and other recipe management sites (like Big Oven).
As with most platforms, Recipe Box has cloud sync, so if you’ve saved a recipe through your phone, it’ll show up in your account when you log in via your computer, and vice versa.
On the plus side, Recipe Box is free. However, it lacks many of the functions (shopping lists, meal planning, substitution lists, calculations) other recipe management tools have.
ChefTap
ChefTap can be bare bones or as fancy a recipe management tool as you want, depending on which version you select. It syncs in the cloud and can be used online or off, but you must use the mobile app (Android or iOS) to register for an account. (The web app is downloadable at no cost from Amazon.)
Add recipes in a variety of ways: use ChefTap’s built-in browser to open recipe sites and then import recipes (meaning you can’t use your preferred browser as you surf), import recipes from text files, paste a URL from an online recipe site, or type in one of your own recipes manually. (Of which, more later.)
To keep your recipes organized, avail yourself of tags, favorites, sorting by category, and searching.
With ChefTap’s free account, store up to 100 recipes and manually enter or edit recipes and add photos. Manual entry is fine for copying your personal recipes, but if you want to manually save online recipes, you’ll have to copy and paste content into each of pre-existing fields. The Free version only lets you sync your mobile with your web account every ten days, which seems a bit risky.
However, if you want to save more recipes, create smart grocery lists, access the menu planning feature, get unlimited syncing or use the web clipping feature, you’ll need a Pro account. The Pro version also has a “recipe cloning” feature that allows you to take a pre-existing recipe and duplicate and modify it so you can keep both versions. The Pro version costs $19.99/year.
Even More Recipes Organizing Apps & Platforms
With so many apps and sites in this field, this could be a month-long series all on its own. Here’s a short list of other recipe organizing platforms you may want to consider.
OrganizEat — Snap a photo of a handwritten recipe or cookbook page, type into freeform fields, or import an online recipe with one click, then categorize in folders and tag to help you find what you want when you want it. It syncs across all devices, works on iOS, Android, and on the web on Chrome, Edge, and Safari. (Check out the tutorials.) Fun feature: Cooking Mode on your mobile device keeps the recipe full-screen and won’t let your device go dark if you haven’t touched it in a while. Play around with the basics for free but features are limited; the iOS/computer subscription upgrade is $3.33/month or $39.99/year; the beta Android version is $27.99.
Copy Me That — This free platform is a recipe clipper that lets you edit and tweak what you’ve captured. Organize recipes into with collections and then search, filter, print, email, and share via text or social sites. If you upgrade to premium, you can also scale your recipes for more servings. Shopping list and meal planner features are included, and it runs in any browser or via iOS or Android apps, and then syncs across devices.
Mela — This award-wining iOS/Mac-only platform is a hybrid recipe organizing app and RSS reader. Scan recipes from a book or clips from Mela’s own in-app browser to build your personal collection, and subscribe to your favorite recipe blogs from within Mela. The Cook Mode highlights only the step you’re currently on and dims the others; it also lets you cook multiple recipes concurrently, like on Thanksgiving! There’s also a meal planning calendar, grocery lists, and timers.
Recipe Sage — Collect, organize, and keep recipes, perform drag-and-drop meal planning, and develop a shopping list with this free, open-source (with donations accepted) personal recipe platform. There’s a powerful search and you can tag recipes to filter to your needs and preferences. It works on the web as well as Web, IOS, and Android.
Whisk — Save online recipes using the app’s mobile share extension in Chrome, scan and digitize your physical recipes with your phone’s camera, input your own recipes with the recipe builder, or collect recipes from the member community. Then customize recipes with edits or substitutions. Organize with collections, then search by ingredient or recipe name, and filter by cuisine or dietary needs. Whisk also lets you drag and drop meal plans, create instant shopping lists, and share with friends. Whisk is available for iOS or Android, and is free.
APPS FOR LETTING THE WORLD ORGANIZE RECIPES FOR YOU
Not all people who cook, or who would like to cook, have their own robust recipe collections. Some people are happy to let the internet or apps make arrangements for them. Think of it like a library and card catalog and interlibrary loan; instead of feeling like you have to have all the books in your own house, you can acquire what you want to read from the library.
So, you don’t need an app. Just Google! Type the ingredients you have on hand into Google. For example, if you type “bread butter cheese” into Google, it will yield a variety of recipes, mostly for grilled cheese sandwiches (yum!) using those ingredients. They’ll be divided into sections by recipe type: photos, videos, and text.
If you have a Google assistant, like Home or Nest, or Alexa on your phone, you can say “Hey, Google, find me a lasagna recipe,” which will yield oodles of gooey options. Continue with commands as shown in this video to have recipes read to you, step-by-step.
There’s also Kitchn’s Recipe Box — Sometimes, you want the equivalent of a bookmark for your favorite sites without having to actually use your browser’s bookmarks or saving to a notes app. Imagine you’re on the Kitchn website, perhaps perusing this Sirniki (cheese pancake) recipe. (Paper Mommy simply calls “cheese patties.” Delish!)
Reading a recipe? Comment or click a button to take you past the backstory (because some people apparently hate the stories on recipe sites). Or, click “Save to My Recipes” and anytime you visit Kitchn, visit your account and look at the recipes you’ve saved in your Kitchn Recipe Box.
APP FOR INDEXING YOUR RECIPES
Eat Your Books is a different sort of app/platform altogether. I first wrote about it back in 2011 in Paper Doll Suggests That You Eat Your Books (To Organize Your Recipes), and most of that is apt, but it’s grown a lot since then.
Eat Your Books doesn’t have recipes on the site. Rather, it indexes a bazillion recipes (well, more than a third of a million) from 160,000+ cookbooks, as wells as blogs, magazines and websites, into a massive library database, with recipes listed and searchable by title, author, ingredient, and even ISBN (if they come from cookbooks).
Search for “polenta” or “kale” or “cheese.” Further filter by recipe type (from books, magazine, or online; video recipes; occasions, ethnicities, courses; and much more.) You can then sort recipes alphabetically, by author, by publication date, by PR buzz, by rating, or even by how recently it was added.
I filtered for “cheese” and “Thanksgiving” and “appetizers” and got offerings like these, below. Yum.
From the perspective of indexing your own cookbooks, imagine you know you have a recipe for a special casserole or icebox cake, but not enough time to search to find the right page in the right cookbook for your spouse’s fave.
Once you’ve created your own Eat Your Books bookshelf, you can search and filter what you seek in the same way as with the library, but from your personal collection, then know to walk to your bookshelf, pluck the right book and go to the right page, and get on with cooking. (You can also add recipes from Eat Your Books’ online library to your own bookshelf.)
Non-members can search the site to get some familiarity, but registering for a free Eat Your Books membership lets you save up to five books and five magazines to your virtual bookshelf, index online and personal recipes, and use the search functionality. Free members can also request that books be indexed by the Eat Your Books team, build grocery lists, add notes for recipes and books, enter contests, and socialize on the community forum.
A Premium membership is $3/month or $30/year. (I got a lifetime membership back in 2011 when I researched that old post, but sadly, those are no longer available.) At the Premium level, you get everything in a free membership, plus the ability to add and index an unlimited number of cookbooks and magazines to your bookshelf. (No, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still pare down your cookbook collection! Don’t try to be sneaky! Paper Doll is watching.)
If literally any recipe in any book or magazine in your house (assuming you’ve added it to the virtual bookshelf) is indexed, Eat Your Books will tell you where to look. No more eating your heart out, searching for recipes. Instead, you can eat cheese. Or, y’know, whatever you like best.
I hope this three-post series for organizing your recipes has given you plenty of ideas and inspiration as we enter the season of celebratory eating,
From the entire Paper Doll team (OK, from me and Paper Mommy), may you have a happy, healthy, delicious, and organized Thanksgiving.
Readers, I am thankful for you!
Calm Cooking Chaos (Part 2): Organize Your Recipes Digitally
We’re now one week closer to “Recipe Season,” which spans from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Day. Whether you’re aiming to replicate everyone’s favorite tried-and-true or you’re looking to discover (or invent) a recipe to dazzle the tastebuds, it all begins with organization.
Last week, in Calm Cooking Chaos (Part 1): Organize Your Paper Recipes, we covered how to gather your paper recipe collection (from cookbooks, magazines, clippings, family scribblings, and note cards), sort them, downsize, and create a recipe binder.
BUT FIRST, WHY NOT FILE FOLDERS?
Before moving on to digital recipes, I’d like to note why I focused on binders but ignored recipe files using the same categories. Given that, as Paper Doll, I’ve brought you 15 years of pro file folder posts, a few readers wondered about this omission.
The truth is, as great as file folders are for most reference categories (including financial, legal, medical, household, and personal papers), recipes in file folders tend to be more easily forgotten. In two decades of testing recipe filing with clients, I’ve noticed that paper recipes organized in binders tend to be flipped through and used more frequently, while file folders of recipes, sorted and categorized in the same manner, tend to be ignored and often forgotten.
There’s a serendipity to opening a binder (much like a cookbook) and flipping the pages, happening upon something sumptuous — something that just doesn’t exist when having to turn floppy magazine or newspaper clippings, one-by-one, in a file folder, carefully assuring that the whole pile doesn’t fall off your lap. Recipes encased in sheet protectors, clipped into binders, are both more functional and more given to yielding inspiration.
Cooks are also more likely to stop to consider whether a new recipe is deserving of joining a binder, whereas someone using a filing system might just throw a new clipping into a folder, leading to another build-up of never-used recipes. If file folders work for you, embrace them, but I’m on Team Recipe Binder.
Now, on to the digital discussion.
PAPER VS. DIGITAL RECIPES?
Before we look at how to create a digital recipe collection, it’s important to understand why you might choose to stick with a paper system, move to digital, or embrace a hybrid approach. In part, it depends on what format of recipes you already have. If most are in hardcover cookbooks, the effort to organize individual recipes is different from what it would be if you mostly have loose clippings or even random digital versions.
Advantages using a paper recipe collection:
- No learning curve — If your recipes are already on paper, you can sort and organize them quickly and easily in your physical space without needing any new skills. Let’s face it, if you can play Gin Rummy or parcel out the mail to the right person in your household, you can sort your paper recipes and organize them (as described in last week’s post). Conversely, organizing recipes digitally will require you to use basic computer or smartphone skills; if you don’t already have those skills or don’t want to learn them, paper might be better for you, at least for now.
- No technology required, Part 1 —You don’t have to keep a digital tool (computer, phone, or tablet) in your cooking space, where things can get wet and/or sticky.
- No technology required, Part 2 — Cooks whose recipe collections are solely on paper aren’t dependent upon electricity, internet, or Wi-Fi. If you tend to cook in a rustic old cabin, or your home is far from cell towers or internet service, paper might be better for you than digital.
- Nostalgia makes some meals taste better — There’s a sense of warm wistfulness when you cook with a recipe card written by your great-grandmother. If that means something to you, you may not get as excited about organizing your recipes digitally.
Moving from a paper recipe collection to one that is all digital has a different set of advantages:
- Digital recipes are accessible from anywhere — If you visit your adult children across the country, you can pull up your child’s favorite cake recipe and share it with their spouse in a matter of seconds. (Do not malign the spouse’s cooking skills. That’s a no-no!)
- You can share digital recipes easily — If someone wants to try making your favorite recipe, there’s no hand-copying or searching for a scanner. Opt for texting, tweeting, or (if you’re in the same space and both iOS users) Airdrop.
- You can eliminate all the recipe clutter from your home once you go digital — So many of my clients are eager to downsize in retirement but are overwhelmed by how they’ll fit their cookbook collection and piles of recipes in a much smaller kitchen space. Going digital means they don’t have to worry.
- Recipes won’t get misplaced, Part 1 — With a paper system, there’s always a chance for human error and sliding a recipe back into the wrong space, but if your recipes are on the computer or in the cloud, they’re backed up. (You do regularly and automatically back up your computer, right? If not, be sure to check out Paper Doll’s Ultimate Stress-Free Backup Plan.)
- Recipes won’t get misplaced, Part 2 — Search is magical. Whether you’re doing a simple search of your computer or a fancy-pants Boolian search with lots of “this ingredient AND that ingredient BUT NOT this other ingredient” options, digitizing your recipes makes it easier to find what you want.
- You can add/create recipes in more ways (again, without clutter) — There are so many ways to add recipes to your digital collection through various digital capturing methods:
- Photograph or scan the recipe via an app
- Use a traditional scanner
- Use the Web Clipper in Evernote (of which, more later) or a similar capture method in a recipe-specific app.
- Accept a shared recipe via Airdrop, email, or texting to get it into your digital space and then move it where you want it to live.
- Type a recipe from scratch (or even handwrite it into your phone or tablet with a stylus or Apple pencil). This works whether you’re copying an old recipe or creating a new one.
- Dictate the recipe into your computer or mobile device using the built-in dictation system.
What about a hybrid system?
There’s no reason that you have to choose between paper and digital recipes. If you’re feeling iffy about a move to a digital collection, but are overwhelmed by all of the paper recipes you have right now, explore baby steps toward getting comfortable going digital.
For example, you could keep your cookbooks, but start transitioning your clippings and loose recipes to a digital system. Or, you could begin a practice of backing up all of the family favorite recipes to digital so that all of your adult children (or grandchildren) can impress their friends and make those beloved dishes year-round, not only when you’re all together. (Trust me, a recipe will be just as delicious even if it’s not limited to once a year.)
YOU COULD START WITH A BASIC DIGITAL RECIPE FOLDER SYSTEM
In a comment on last week’s post, my colleague Sabrina Quairoli mentioned her approach:
Some years ago, I decided to get rid of my paper binders and go digital with those recipes. I scanned them using the Tinyscanner app and saved them in a folder by the recipe’s name. It works great, and I still pull from these recipes every so often.
A digital recipe filing system like Sabrina’s is similar to a recipe binder or file folder system. It allows you to “file” your recipes into digital folders by category, such as “meat entrées” or “desserts” with little muss or fuss. Whatever category you might have in a tangible system can work in a digital one.
Whether your recipe files are on your computer or in a cloud-based system like Google Drive, you get to create basic categories, and then use the search function to find recipes by keywords in their names as well as content in the saved files, dates created/modified, and so on, as with all computer files. The learning curve here is low; anyone who already saves files and knows how to search them can use this method.
UPGRADE AND ORGANIZE YOUR RECIPES WITH EVERNOTE
As an Evernote Certified Expert, this upgrade is my favorite option to recommend to clients who are tech-inclined. There’s a slightly steeper learning curve (but you can build up to mastery, starting with skills you already have).
Evernote is a step-up for cooks who already have recipes in any digital format, like Word or Google docs stored on their computers or in cloud accounts, as well as recipes in any kind of digital note app, photo app, or scanned files. But with Evernote, you have some extra advantages over other digital systems.
Capture
Cooks can use all of the methods I described above (scan, type, record, etc.) to get a recipe into Evernote, but the platform has some additional goodies:
- Record recipes verbally — If the elder chef in the family isn’t much for writing down the ingredient measurements or instructions, you can just tap and record as they cook, creating a legacy recording of what they’re saying and any questions or observances you make as they work. This is a fun, interesting alternative to using the dictation function.
- YouTube — Evernote has a nifty feature where, if you put a YouTube link into a note, instead of just being able to see and click the link, the entire video appears. If you’ve got a favorite recipe you’ve watched on a YouTube cooking channel, you can capture and watch the entire video right from your note, then type as you watch to add ingredients (so you can make a shopping list) and note any vital instructions.
- Autocapture — If you’re not so adept at taking close-up photos or scanning with your phone’s camera, Evernote has you covered. You can set your in-app camera to Auto mode, then hold the phone steady over any recipe or card so that the edges of the paper are visible inside the frame. Evernote’s camera will automatically detect, focus, and take a great snapshot of your recipe. (See below. Note: there’s no audio.)
- Web Clipper — Customize how you capture a recipe. One of the nifty things about the web clipper (available on all the major browsers, like Chrome, Safari, Internet Explorer 7+, Firefox, Opera, Microsoft Edge for Windows 10+) is that you can choose how much of a page you want.
Have you noticed how much extraneous material is on some web pages, especially those with recipes, like ads, pop-ups, navigation panels, etc.? The Evernote Web Clipper lets you choose how you want a page clipped. There’s Article (the main section of the page), Simplified Article (which removes ads, formatting, and layouts), Full Page (a copy of everything in the window, Bookmark (a link with a thumbnail photo), and PDF.
- Create your own recipes as new notes — In addition to all of the creative methods, there’s also the standard one of typing your recipe in. Initially, I was going to tell you that Evernote has stellar templates — just create a new note, give it a title, and instead of writing in the body of the note, click “Open Gallery” to select a template.
But I was surprised to learn that right now, there are no recipe templates (although there is one for menu planning). As I started writing this post, I texted my colleague Kimberly Purcell, whose entire business, Amethyst Productivity, focuses on Evernote training.
Kimberly is a foodie and cook (and her husband is even a professional chef!), so I turned to her the other day and challenged her to design a recipe template for the new section of templates created by Evernote Experts. So, if you’re an Evernote user already, when that template pops up someday soon, you’ll know how it got there!
Annotate and Add Materials
Evernote’s Web Clipper also lets you capture selected areas of a web page, which is great for those times when a site has multiple recipes on a page and you just want to capture that gorgeous Icebox Cake and not those Brussels Sprouts. You can change formatting (bold, italics, underline), font, and size of anything you input yourself, and you can choose highlight colors.
- Customized Clips let you annotate your captured recipes. Evernote has annotation tools to let you add shapes, colors, and stamps (with text) to let you tweak a recipe you capture. You can annotate recipes whether you clip them with the Web Clipper or capture them through scanning, photos, or any other method.
- Add your own photos and comments to your recipe collection. — Not only can you save the photo from a cookbook, print, or online recipe, but you can add your own photos of how you’ve created, plated, and garnished a recipe. Then, whether you include text or annotation via Evernote’s tools, you can add your own notes to recipes you’ve acquired to say how you’ve tweaked it for your preferences, keeping the original and updates all visible but without clutter.
Tag Recipes to Increase Search Capabilities
The basic format of Evernote is to create notes and then related notes can be grouped into notebooks. However, there’s an additional system that allows you to create tags, like little sticky-note tabs, to connect recipes with important information.
So, you might have notebooks with all the general categories (appetizers, salads, entrées, desserts, etc.) we discussed last time. But then you can create much more granular notations with simple tags to label, and later find, any or all elements:
Cuisine/Ethnicity: Italian, Indian, Mexican, Chinese, Mediterranean, etc.
Diet Type: vegetarian, vegan, low-sodium, low carb, gluten-free, high protein/keto, kosher, halal, etc.
Meal experience: breakfast, brunch, lunch, dinner, dessert, sides, appetizers, beverages
Main ingredient: eggs, pasta, fish, chicken, beef, cheese, chocolate, etc.
Prep or Cooking Time (or separate tags for each): 10minutePrep, 30minutesPrep, 45MinuteCook, etc.
Cooking method (gadget or method): oven, stovetop, toaster oven, grill, crock pot, air fryer, Instant Pot, etc., or bake, fry, roast, slow cook, sheet pan, etc.
Holiday or seasonal item tags: Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, New Year’s, SuperBowl, picnics, barbecues, autumn soups, winter casseroles, etc.
Recipe origin — You might put the name of a cookbook or magazine, the name of the person who gave you the recipe, or note whether it’s a family legacy (on your side or your spouse’s side) recipe.
Family-specific tags — Whether someone loves or hates a recipe (or an ingredient) or is allergic, you can create whatever tags you like to quickly add or eliminate a recipe from a search.
Tagging is easy. Just click the tag icon when you create a recipe note; if you’re clipping a recipe with the Web Clipper, you’ll be offered a field to type tags. As you type, if you’ve already created a tag, it will auto-populate the field (just like when you type on Google).
Notes About Evernote Search
Organizational structure is always important. That said, whatever system you use, digital organization can be about more than hierarchy and structure because of the availability of search, and Evernote’s search is powerful. Beyond looking in a specific notebook, you can:
- Use search if you can’t remember the exact recipe, but you know you have one that uses kale and cod, or chocolate and heavy cream.
- Use the optical character recognition aspect of Evernote’s search text in photos or scans of handwritten recipes. Seriously, if you scan in a photo, search can read and find text in the photo. As for handwriting, it does a better job with printing than cursive, but I’m impressed it can read my writing.
- Use a combinations of tags to search for dinner recipes with a main ingredient of fish, made with a sheet pan, that you can finish in 20 minutes, and which does not include garlic. Or a kosher recipe for brunch that uses salmon and dill. Boolian search is mindblowing!
As you know from last week’s post, Paper Doll is not much of a cook, but the leader of the Evernote Certified Expert, Brittany Naylor team does cook. Last year, she was interviewed by fellow Expert Vlad Campos on a few Evernote-related subjects, and provided a peek into her own digital recipe collection, talking about how to Create A Smart and Beautiful Recipe Book on Evernote.
CONSIDER PINTEREST IF YOU PREFER VISUAL RECIPE ORGANIZATION
Not everyone wants to reinvent the recipe wheel. If most of your recipes come from food websites, recipe blogs, or social media, you can use Pinterest to save your recipes, as well as to search for recipes from within Pinterest (pinned by other users) that fit your interests. And then you can save other people’s recipes to your boards, too.
You’ll need to set up a Pinterest account, and then create boards for your overarching categories (like Dinners or beef recipes or cookies). If you’ve never used it, you can click on my Pinterest page to see all of the organizing (and other) boards I’ve created.
When you see a recipe you like on the web, simply click the “Pin” icon that hovers over most photos on the web, or use the share option on your mobile device or the pinning applet in your browser.
Beyond boards, Pinterest has no complex structure, and your ability to provide keywords or tags is limited to the little comment field at the bottom of your pinned item. Think of it as the digital equivalent of clipping a recipe from a magazine, pinning it to a cork board, and writing a note in the margin.
So, you can’t be as granular or creative with tagging as you could be with Evernote, but if you prefer simplicity and a search as familiar as Google’s, Pinterest might be your preference.
APPS FOR ORGANIZING RECIPES DIGITALLY (PREVIEW)
The above methods all use digital platforms that already exist for other purposes — computer files, Evernote notes, Pinterest pins — to organize the recipes you already have and the ones you want to collect in the future. But what if you want a system that was specifically developed for organizing recipes?
As you may have guessed, there’s an app for that.
Actually, there are dozens of apps for that. Next week, in the final installment of this recipe-oriented series, we’ll look at a number of recipe organizing apps — some that are famous and have been around for a long time, others that new but gathering steam. (And no, that wasn’t a cooking pun, unless you enjoyed it.)
We’ll even revisit a fabulous app that helps you to index, discover, and organize your recipes with a bit of a social aspect.
So, be sure to put next week’s post on your colander calendar. Until then, keep planning your Thanksgiving week meals, and please let me know in the comments if you have a preferred method for organizing your recipes digitally.
Calm Cooking Chaos (Part 1): Organize Your Paper Recipes
The flip of the calendar page to November doesn’t just bring darker evenings and colder weather. The minute the Halloween candy left the store shelves, it was replaced with holiday ingredients. Minutes ago it was barely autumn and now we’re mere weeks from Thanksgiving, and you know what’s right around the corner after Turkey Day!
There’s never so much of a resurgence in interest in recipes — and recipe organizing — as during the approach of the holiday season. Clients start calling with a twinge of trepidation in their voices.
They’ve got decades of acquired cookbooks, recipe boxes filled with handwritten index cards, and mountains of recipes culled from magazines or printed from the internet. The desire to create a perfect family holiday is weighed down by the stress of recipe clutter.
And with some families, there’s a desire to create a culinary legacy, a way to pass down the favorite meals prepared for special times. For example this recent Washington Post piece, A Holocaust Survivor, A Rescued Family Cookbook, and the Taste of Home, reminds us of how important it is to be able to bring alive the favorite tastes of childhood.
THE COOK CONTINUUM
You might think this is only a problem for people who suffer with general household clutter, but I assure you recipe clutter is a problem all along the culinary continuum, from people who rely on PB&J skills (that would be Paper Doll) to lifelong cooks to professional chefs, and the existence of recipe clutter may or may not correlate with any other clutter in the home.
We answer the age old question: Is it safe to you use your oven as a closet like Carrie Bradshaw did or nah? https://t.co/BxYQ2vATB2 pic.twitter.com/0sU8QDWqMt
— Reviewed (@reviewed) July 21, 2018
Sex and the City‘s Carrie Bradshaw famously kept her sweaters in the oven. Similarly, to Paper Mommy‘s distress, I’m really not inclined to cook, and if it requires more than boiling pasta and drizzling it with olive oil, I’m not going to do it. There’s only one “special” recipe I make when called upon to bring something to a potluck, Hello Dollies (also known as Magic Cookie Bars), the recipe for which has lived under a succession of magnets on my fridge for several decades.
But that doesn’t mean I don’t have cookbooks or even individual recipes. I do, but they’re organized and out of the way.
But even for non-cooks, cookbooks and loose recipes represent potential. Those glossy photos enchant us. We can imagine ourselves as Julia or Nigella or Ina, whipping up something fabulous.
For the same reason we read fashion magazines and follow tips on “how to turn a daytime look into an evening look” when our evening “look” is actually leggings and an oversized sweatshirt, we non-cooks collect recipes because they represent an imagined lifestyle.
Whether we’re the ones whipping up healthy and visually stunning recipes to delight our families and friends, or we imagine our butler Jeeves taking our recipe collection in hand, recipes seem like a more reasonable fantasy than jetting off to Paris or Madrid.
For those who actually do cook, whether a little or a lot, recipe clutter tends to expand over time. If you’re a good cook, people give you cookbooks as gifts. If you’re a good eater, people press their lovingly handwritten recipes into your palms at the end of dinner parties, believing their secret sauce will help you achieve your greatest dreams.
So no wonder, between our own inclinations to gather potentially delicious and delightful recipes and others’ penchants for sharing the magic with us, we all end up with more recipes than we will ever make, and that leads to clutter.
HOW TO PARE DOWN A COOKBOOK COLLECTION
Is your family food headquarters littered with clipped and copied recipes, cooking magazines, regular and diet-related cookbooks, and other detritus from the pandemic sourdough wars? It’s not just you. Kitchen clutter is often a sticky mess, preventing us from ever finding the perfect recipe when we want or need it.
The toys and clothes that surround us may no longer be age-, size-, or lifestyle-appropriate. Similarly, we can outgrow cookbooks, diets, and recipes that once fit us so well. You have probably accepted that it’s time to (amicably) part with Macrobiotics for a Groovy Life or 172 Ways To Lose Weight With Grapefruit.
Find all the tendrils of your sprawling cookbook collection.
Most people tend to treat their cookbooks as a separate entity from the rest of their personal libraries. They are content to keep their fiction and reference books on bookcases and shelves in their living rooms, family rooms, and bedrooms, in their reading nooks and wherever they cozy up to read.
But herein lies the first problem. If your cookbooks are far from where you cook, you’ll probably never use them. It’s not like there are miles between your living room and kitchen counter, but if your cookbooks are on the bookshelves two rooms over, unless you’re diligent about creating new menus, you’ll probably forget that you even have the cookbooks.
Conversely, if you follow the general organizing practice of keeping possessions where you use them and your cookbooks are in or near your kitchen, you’ve probably got sticky, sauce-stained, powdered sugar-covered pages piled on spare chairs and kitchen counters and inside cabinets. No matter how excited people are to cook, and then eat, their creations, most people aren’t that excited about tidying up.
Cookbook Photo by Alfred Kenneally on Unsplash
Even if we organizers persuade clients that dinner isn’t done until the dishes are washed and the leftovers are put away, that final step of wiping down spattered cookbooks and putting them back into the collection tends to be a bridge too far.
So, meet your cookbooks where they are. If there are too many to deal with all at once, start with the ones that constitute clutter, that live where they’ve been dropped, in and near the kitchen, and once you’ve reviewed them, then move on to making determinations about the ones that are tidily living (if forgotten) on your bookshelves.
Take one book at a time and ask yourself some important questions.
Have you ever used a recipe from this cookbook?
If you received a cookbook as a holiday present or for your birthday, you likely flipped through the book, perhaps looked at the Table of Contents, and then tucked the book away to clean up after all the wrapping paper was tidied away. Maybe you never looked at it at all.
Sometimes, we buy cookbooks because the cover or the author made the book tempting. A few years ago, Spoon University published a piece on The Hottest Male Chefs of All Time. I’m sure it sold cookbooks. But just because you love watching Jamie Oliver cook, melt over Gordon Ramsay yelling at his kitchen staff, or giggle over the performance stylings of Alton Brown, it doesn’t mean you’re ever going to prepare recipes from their collections. Let go of unread cookbooks!
Just because you love watching Jamie Oliver cook, melt over Gordon Ramsay yelling at his kitchen staff, or giggle over the performance stylings of Alton Brown does not mean you're ever going to prepare recipes from their collections.… Share on XAs you go through your cookbooks, if you come across one you’ve never made even one recipe from, flip through the Table of Contents to get a sense of the chapters or categories. If you don’t see at least a handful of recipes you’d like to try — like in the next two weeks — it may be a sign that it’s time to set that cookbook free.
Organize Your Writing Time for NaNoWriMo 2022
Have you ever imagined writing the Great American Novel?
Does the idea of getting revenge after the end of a turbulent relationship by (barely) disguising your ex as the villain (or victim) in a mystery appeal to you?
Maybe you’ve figured out exactly what Billy Joel was talking about when he sang that “Paul is a real estate novelist” and you’d like to be one too?
(If not, don’t skip out. There are treats here for anyone who wants to organize their time to achieve a goal.)
NaNoWriMo gives you the opportunity to follow your dream.
WHAT THE HECK IS NANOWRIMO?
In the weeks leading up to Halloween, and then all throughout the month of November, you may see #NaNoWriMo pop up in your social media feeds. NaNoWriMo is National Novel Writing Month.
If you’ve ever done a month-long challenge (plank or do yoga every day of January, keep a journal for mindfulness, give up Facebook for a month, etc.), you’ll be familiar with this kind of effort. Except, at the end, instead of a fit core, increased self-awareness, or the calm of not knowing that people with whom you went to high school are bringing about the downfall of civilization, you’ll have written a book!
Each year, NaNoWriMo participants commit to writing a 50,000-word novel between November 1st and 30th of the month. That amounts to an average of 1667 words per day, but it’s only the final count that matters. (Because nobody actually writes on Thanksgiving Day. Too many carbs.)
Sign up on the website, maybe join some supportive forums, and then start writing. You can log your daily count and even get cute little badges for your progress.
Officially, there are opportunities to prep your novel during September and October, and get guidance for developing a story idea, creating complex characters, constructing a detailed plot outline (because outlines, like maps, get you where you want to go), and building your story’s world.
All of these tasks are popular with plotters (people who create detailed outlines and prepare for the NaNoWriMo experience). Of course, there are also pantsers, authors who prefer to write by the seats of their pants and plan very little.
On a related note, there are also rebelsm with or without a cause. Although it’s designed as National Novel Writing Month, nobody is going to kick you out of the clubhouse for writing your dissertation, a graphic novel, your memoir, or whatever else you feel called to write. You may have noticed that I write really long blog posts — some topping 3000 words! One year, I used November to write most of a dozen blog posts and several articles.
It’s not cheating, it’s rebelling. (Doesn’t that sound a lot cooler? You can just imagine the leather jacket and the motorcycle.)
At any point, you can upload your novel to the NaNoWriMo website and it will verify your word count. When — let’s be confident! “if” is so iffy! — you hit that 50,000 word count, you can say that you’ve “won” NaNoWriMo for the year.
Winners get a certificate and a banner for display on social media accounts or any other web real estate, and you can purchase a T-shirt and other merchandise in the site’s store. Whether you actually publish or not — even if you never show your novel to anyone else — you’ll still know that you took on a challenge (one that didn’t involve surviving a global plague or not strangling any relatives at the Thanksgiving table) and triumphed.
GET BY WITH A LITTLE HELP FROM YOUR NANOWRIMO FRIENDS
Paper Doll readers know that I am all about mutual support, collaboration, and accountability, and so is NaNoWriMo. Throughout November (and actually, all year), you can avail yourself of a variety of writing assistance and support:
- Discussion Forums — for covering everything from navigating genres to developing storylines to filling plot holes and punching up dialogue
- Writing Groups — for writers seeking camaraderie with people of specific geographical regions, writing styles, or needs. There’s a group for writers with ADHD, authors who write fanfiction, and one called “Rom-Com Writers with Procrastination.”
- Regional Support — from as wide a swath as the whole of Africa to as narrow as a neighborhood near you, you can find people to share your journey
- Writing Buddies — NaNoWriMo makes it easy to find writing partners with whom you can trade ideas (or tales of woe)
As a Paper Doll reader, you already know the importance of accountability, but these two posts may also suit you well on your NaNoWriMo path.
- Count On Accountability: 5 Productivity Support Solutions
- Flow and Faux (Accountability): Productivity, Focus, and Alex Trebek
NaNoWriMo are offers both new and archived Pep Talks from professional writers. I mean, if Outlander author Diana Gabaldon, Alex Cross mystery creator James Patterson, young adult novelist John Green, and MacArthur Genius-winning sci-fi writer N.K. Jemison can’t inspire you to write, who can?
If you need more motivation, NaNoWriMo sponsors offer some amazing prizes for both participants and “winners” who meet the 50,000 word goal. These include discounts for writing software (including Scrivener, Pro Writing Aid, NovelPad, and Plottr), digital devices, and writing/publishing support, and more.
So, you’ve decided you’re going to do this. You register, you post a banner and share your goal on social media, and now you’re watching the clock tick down to November. Now what?
ORGANIZE YOUR WRITING TIME
Last week, I was approached by someone who wanted advice on carving out time to write while still working a full-time job. I was honest; there’s no way to have more than 24 hours in the day, and contrary to what gets thrown around on social media, we do not all have the same 24 hours.
If you’ve got a full-time job (or multiple part-time ones), are raising kids, have a chronic illness, are caring for one more senior parents, or some combination of any of the above, you’re going to have less disposable time (like a temporal disposable income) than a single, healthy twenty-something. Time is not going to freeze and make time for you to write. So, consider stacking a few of these options to achieve your writing goals.
Accept that you have to dedicate specific chunks of time to writing.
You may be a pantser, but that’s about figuring out what you’re going to write. There’s no way to achieve any writing goal, whether writing a novel or finishing a term paper, without deciding when you’re going to write.
If you’re the kind of person who has to feel motivation to do something, I’ve got news for you:
Action precedes motivation.
You have to do something before you’re ready. Your 50K-word novel doesn’t have to be perfect; it doesn’t have to be polished. It doesn’t even have to be good. Your November writing project can be a hot mess!
But here’s my favorite truth about writing. You can’t edit a blank page.
Your 50K word novel doesn't have to be perfect; it doesn't have to be polished. It doesn't even have to be good. Your writing project can be a hot mess! But here's my favorite truth about writing. You can't edit a blank page. Share on XSo feel free to write whenever you feel inspired. Nobody’s going to stop you from grabbing your notepad or keyboard or a quill pen (except, maybe the bird from which the feather was plucked). But schedule time to ensure that you have dependable time to write.
The same is true of organizing or anything else you do. Nobody will arrest you for jumping up during a commercial break in Grey’s Anatomy to load the dishwasher. But if you consider dinner tasks to include meal planning, cooking, clearing the table, and loading the dishwasher, and that “dinner isn’t finished until the dishes are done,” then you won’t ever have to dread walking into the kitchen.
Know what you’re going to write.
Even if you’re pantser and don’t know (or want to know) what you’re going to be writing on November 17th, let the back of your brain ruminate while you’re doing mindless tasks like bushing your teeth to get a sense of what you’ll be working on in your next writing session.
If you don’t know what you’re going to write, you will avoid sitting down to write. If you procrastinate and avoiding writing…you will not have written! Sad but true.
And if you do manage to sit down to write with no idea what you’re going to write about, you’ll get distracted. You do not want to get distracted, or you’ll end up with something like this:
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— Writers’ HQ (@writers_hq) July 13, 2022
If you can’t stand the idea of knowing what you’re going to write ahead of time because you feel like that would mess with the mojo of your creative muse, there’s an alternative to an outline.
Grab a stack of index cards and write down key words or concepts: character’s names, key plot elements, essential conversational high points. Then stuff the carnds in a jar or a hat, and when you sit down to write, grab a card to use as a writing prompt. Yes, you’ll be writing out of order and will have a harder job later on, cutting and pasting, but you’ll be writing!
Block your time…and put some blocks on ice.
Start with my post Playing With Blocks: Success Strategies for Time Blocking Productivity to re-familiarize yourself again time blocking.
Look at your schedule (and if you don’t have one, pull out a paper or digital calendar and hour-by-hour, day-by-day) and write down everything that’s already an obligation. That may be work, school, childcare, other-care, scheduled self-care and personal growth (like yoga or practicing a language or instrument).
What do you use, a to-do list or a schedule? pic.twitter.com/UEG2dH1ES0
— Sarah Arnold-Hall (@saraharnoldhall) September 28, 2022
Then write down all the things you do that aren’t ever scheduled, but which you have to do, from sleeping to grooming to housework and grocery shopping.
Identify blank spaces — if you have any. Those are your first options for writing time. If you’ve got blank space, you might be able to use it to write. (I say “might” because nobody can have all their waking time occupied. We need time to veg out, as I discussed in Toxic Productivity Part 2: How to Change Your Mindset. We can’t create without downtime.)
What if you don’t have any blank spaces? Consider whether you can remove some responsibilities for the duration of November. It’s about priorities. (This is true no matter what life goals you are trying to reach.)
- Can you do one big grocery shop for the month and delegate the urgent milk-and-bread runs to another member of the household? (Or delegate all November grocery shopping and housework to someone whom you support in all of their goal achievement practices?)
- Hire a babysitter for a handful of hours each week?
- Are you willing to get up 45 minutes earlier, or stay up an hour later to get some writing time?
- Can you cut out scrolling through TikTok of your November (or limit it to when you’re standing in line at the store or hanging out anyplace where that you couldn’t otherwise sit down and write)?
- And, as a former broadcasting professional, I can’t believe I’m suggesting this, but could you cut an hour of TV viewing out of your life?
When it comes down to it, there some things you have to do in November: eat, sleep, hydrate, groom, work for pay, take care of dependent humans, and vote. (Please, please remember to vote!) But for 30 days, can you vacuum less? Binge fewer shows?)
What if you have blank spaces, but they’re short or weird? It’s possible you have lots of writing opportunities, but none are expansive chunks of ninety minutes or two hours. That’s OK. If you have a good outline (that’s where being a plotter has the advantage over being a pantser), you don’t need long blocks of time.
If you have 15 minutes between when you get home from work and everyone else gets home, focus on just one small part of your outline. Are you stuck on the dialogue for a scene for a pivotal conversation between two characters? Play-act the conversation while you’re in the shower or while driving; it’ll help you get the language and tone right; when you’re getting close to how it should sound (and are out of the shower), use the voice memo on your phone or dictate it into a text to yourself to capture the wording. You can transcribe or copy it into your manuscript later.
Rejoice in exploring short writing blocks. It’s less time to dither or second-guess your writing. Focus on getting words on paper. Consider having 25 minutes (one whole glorious pomodoro) the perfect amount of time to work on two or three great paragraphs.
Can you get up 15 minutes earlier and skip 10 minutes of Twitter scrolling to get those 25 minutes? There’s one writing block.
Can you bring your lunch to work so that you use half your lunch hour for eating and relaxing and the other half for writing?
Can you convince your significant other to take over an evening task like laundry, just for November, to give you 25 minutes every evening?
Boom! There’s your writing time!
Let NaNoWriMo figure out your best writing schedule.
NaNoWriMo has a cute social media-style quiz for figuring out the best schedule for your personality and lifestyle. It’ll only take about thirty seconds, and may yield some insight.
Guard your writing time.
Several ago, I wrote R-E-S-P-E-C-T: The Organizing Secret for Working At Home, and many of the concepts apply to helping others in your space respect your time and boundaries. But there are also tips for respecting your own time, staying focused and on-task, and not letting other’s non-emegencies squeeze your time.
Consider what motivates you.
Obviously, you shouldn’t do NaNoWriMo if it doesn’t appeal to you. But before the month even gets started, make a list of all the reasons why you want to do it.
Whether it’s to get back at your 11th-grade English teacher who was dismissive of your creative efforts or to give you confidence that you can step out of your comfort zone, come up with ten big and small reasons you are inspired to write a 50,000 word draft of a novel.
Then write ten more reasons. And ten more after that!
Read one of those reasons aloud at the start of every day in November. Give yourself a fighting chance to overcome inertia and achieve your goal!
Currently stuck in nocturnal. Where are you? pic.twitter.com/9ppvAultN0
— Writers’ HQ (@writers_hq) January 31, 2020
Track Your Progress
Every time I write about NaNoWriMo, I like to share David Seah’s Word Counting Calendar. Print out the black-and-white or color versions. Every day that you write, just log your total word count and then color in the appropriate boxes.
Post the calendar near your writing space to keep you motivated as you progress toward your goal.
EMBRACE THESE RESOURCES
You could write a book (or several) about all the resources available for supporting a writing project. Here are just a few classics and new-for-2022 to help you organize your thoughts, your research, your writing, and your November.
10 Steps to Get Started with Scrivener for NaNoWriMo — Updated for 2022, this list from the ultimate writer’s tool walks you through how to make the software serve your NaNo needs.
Your Essential Guide to Completing NaNoWriMo in Evernote — As an Evernote Expert, I’m constantly finding (and sharing) new ways to use Evernote to support work and personal goals. Anthony Bartlett has gathered some great advice, including linking to essential Evernote templates for creating character profiles, plotting your novel, story premises, and 3-act structures.
12 Creative Writing Templates for Planning Your Novel — Speaking of templates, Forrest Dylan Bryant walks you through a dozen templates, from those listed above to writing trackers to plot and character templates. Don’t reinvent the wheel when you can use Evernote templates to support your writing and story development.
A Novel Strategy: How to Organize Big Writing Projects — Speaking of Forrest, about five years ago, he wrote this nifty post about how to use Evernote to organize your notes for writing a novel.
(P.S. Combining all of the info above, if you’re thinking of using Scrivener, know that you can import your Evernote notes into Scrivener and see your notes and writing area side-by-side. Cool beans!)
What is NaNoWriMo? And How to Win in 2022 — Updated every year, this masterful post from Reedsy has dozens of tips for managing your time, developing your writing ear, and keeping up your motivation.
Write a 50,000-Word Pulp Novel Before Breakfast: My easy no-outline way of writing short novels in four weeks by Amethyst Qu
How to Survive NaNoWriMo in 2022: 17 Top Tips for Success — Self-Publishing School offers a list of winning habits to help make the most of your November.
Although I don’t write about NaNoWriMo every year, there are several posts in the vault, including those from 2017, where I created NaNoWriMoMo and wrote advice for organizing yourself for NaNoWriMo every single Monday of that November. Just type “NaNoWriMo” into the search sidebar on the left of this site to find them.
Whatever you choose to do with the coming month, I hope you take time to plan and organize to help your dreams come true.
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