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How to Collect, Organize, and Preserve Family Memories and History (Part 1) — The Questions

Posted on: October 14th, 2024 by Julie Bestry | 18 Comments

It’s hard to believe that we’re in the final stretch of the year; next month will be Thanksgiving, with the various winter holidays coming up right behind. It may be a joyous time spent with family or one marked by an empty seat at the table, a time of sharing new and old stories and, sometimes, grieving the questions un-asked and stories never told.

Over the next two posts, we’re going to look at ways of gathering and preserving your family stories so that future generations will have no regrets about what they’ve missed.

PAPER DOLL’S FAMILY HISTORY (AND FICTION)

Paper Doll is naturally curious. I have annoyed Paper Mommy (both as a child and as an adult) by insistently begging for tales. “Tell me a story about your grandparents that I haven’t already heard!” or “Tell me about when you were in school!” I urge my mother, to her frustration. She retorts, “I tell you things when I remember them. I can’t call up stories at the drop of a hat!”

As someone who is practically built out of words and memories, I can’t fathom it. Ask me about my first day of kindergarten, or my first date (an extremely embarrassing skating story everyone somehow remembers clearly) or the day I bought my car, and I can recite it as if it happened thirty minutes ago.

My family finds this annoying.

I find the lack of stories annoying. I want a complete biography, with footnotes, of my mother’s life — every conversation and experience I missed from the day she was born until I was a toddler, I want filled in. And the ones I know by heart, I still want to hear her tell them over and over again, complete with accents and narrative flourishes. 

My favorites? The time in her nursery school education class where the miniature turtle went missing after the toddlers left, but (after a length search) was found in the back of a teeny toy dump truck. The time when my great-grandmother, who ran terrified of a dog chasing her from the streetcar and hid on the floor of the closet during thunderstorms, nonetheless ascended a ladder and climbed in a window when she was locked out of the house. (That’s my mother’s Bubbe on the far right, below.)


I know how my mother’s father came to America. He, his father, and his brother set out from home in Poland so his brother could take a boat to America, but (as you likely learned in Social Studies), people with diseases of the eye could not be admitted. (It’s an imprecise analogy, but imagine your nine-year-old’s pinkeye caused your family to be turned away at Disney World!) My great-uncle’s suitcase was thrust into my grandfather’s hands, and the teenager set off for America.

I’ve heard a few stories about my Poppy, some surely apocryphal. (Only many decades later did we start to doubt the tale of his job unloading cargo on the docks: a burlap bag of chocolate burs open, upon which he and his fellow worker filled their pockets with chocolate and ran away. Um, did chocolate ever come wrapped in nothing but burlap?)

Other stories were also questionable, such as when he told of a man running a food cart being asked for a hot dog. The cart only served fish, so the cart owner gave the man a fish sandwich, and the man was heard saying it was the best-tasting hot dog he’d ever had! (Years later, my grandmother, feeding my toddler uncle, urged him to eat the yummy hot dog he’d been requesting. It was a soft-boiled egg. Perhaps my Poppy’s story was the catalyst?)

Still,  there are verifiable stories. My grandfather bought part ownership of a decommissioned battleship as scrap metal, and later owned an apartment complex he named after my sister. A friend researching genealogy found a Depression-era news article about him being robbed of of hundreds of dollars cash (because he didn’t believe in banks) but was not destitute because he’d also hidden money in his socks.

And once, my mother exited a downtown summer camp reunion luncheon to find her father — a Jewish man from Poland — at the head of Buffalo’s St. Patrick’s Day parade! 

And yet, we know nothing of his life before he came to America except his mother was tall and that his father was, circa 1910, the captain of the town’s fire brigade. When my maternal grandparents were visiting in the mid-1970s, my grandfather slipped on the Buffalo ice and went to the hospital. Fed up with the pesky questions demanded by the hospital, my grandmother snapped when the nurse wanted my grandfather’s mother’s name, and made up a random name that sounded shtetl-appropriate.

Paper Doll with Poppy, circa 1968 or 1969 (The booklet we’re “reading” says it “will tell you how you can become a Computer Programmer.”)

As I described in The Great Mesozoic Law Office Purge of 2015: A Professional Organizer’s Family Tale, it was only when I closed down my father’s law office that I connected with his cousin and learned that my paternal grandfather, whom I always imagined to have grown up in vague immigrant-era poverty, was decidedly more Upstairs than Downstairs.

Indeed, until recently I knew nothing of my father’s father’s family, and have been fascinated by what my genealogist friend’s have found. I didn’t even know my great-grandfather’s name before reading this obituary, let alone that he owned a hardware and tinsmithing store. (When was the last time you heard about “tinsmithing?”)

I only knew of two of my grandfather’s sisters; two others plus a brother were surprises to me. Nor had I learned that my grandfather’s brother became a Broadway performer and impresario! Why was I never told these stories? My father was more interested in his future than his family’s past, I suppose. 

Speaking of my father, he was a clotheshorse and chronically disorganized. So, I was amused to find this post, referencing my Great Uncle Mike “Harry” Bestry:

Damon Runyon wrote in Short Takes, for example, that Harry Bestry owns or owned “3,000 Charvet neckties, which is more than Charvet has now, 75 suits of clothes by an expensive tailor, 75 pairs of shoes, each pair made to order and nicely treed, and hats and shirts and overcoats and sweaters in similar profusion.” He added that a friend of Bestry once reported one could barely get into the man’s apartment “because of the amount of wearing apparel stashed away on the premises.”

There’s something odd about knowing that the person who created Guys & Dolls wrote about my relative. Odder still that this could absolutely have been a description of my own father.

When I was home in June, helping downsize and declutter the family basement, I found a scrapbook my father’s first wife made of their trip to New England in 1951 and a few after that. His bride’s careful penmanship next to each piece of memorabilia detailed not only their trip, but the era. On the same page, she extolled the virtues of a restaurant meal but also noted the antisemitism of the hotelier announcing that the hotel — at which my father and she (both Jewish) had been welcomed — was restricted. No Jews allowed. (They departed before nightfall.)

[If you’re unfamiliar with this era in American history, you might want to see the Gregory Peck film based on the Laura Z. Hobson novel, Gentleman’s Agreement, in which Peck plays a journalist who goes undercover as a Jewish man to explore post-War antisemitism.]

As I reviewed the scrapbook, I absorbed the details of each crumbling page which had been lovingly assembled over seventy years ago by a woman who died perhaps sixty years ago. I was fascinated by the notations of someone to whom I had only a tangential relationship, narrating weeks in the life of someone with whom I shared half my DNA.

Of course, family history comes with world history. I was fascinated by the prices on the menus.

At Keeler’s State Street in Albany (established 1864), a whole baby pheasant with sides of lima beans and wild rice could be had for $3.50, with desserts from 30 to 60 cents. (Eat up quickly! Parking was twenty-five cents an hour!)

Meanwhile, New Orleans’ Restaurant Antoine (founded 1840, and which still exists) cost them a prettier penny. It was a multi-page menu, but my focus was on the eye-popping price of $7 for chateaubriande! Splurge further: $1.25 for a Crêpe Suzette for dessert.

WHY CAPTURE YOUR FAMILY HISTORY?

This is all to say that if you aren’t inclined to ask, and if your relatives aren’t inclined to tell, it can be difficult to create any sense of family legacy, either for yourself for for generations that come after.

In her excellent book, What’s a Photo Without the Story?: How to Create Your Family Legacy, my friend and colleague Hazel Thornton details why you might want to gather your stories and those of your family and your ancestors. At the start of the book, she explains that doing so will:

  • Give depth and meaning to your photos.
  • Make history come alive!
  • Preserve family legends  (rumored or proven).
  • Give children a sense of belonging and help them feel more secure.
  • Make us feel connected to our families , and to the world around us.
  • Help us better understand our families, and ourselves.
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For more on specialists like Hazel, take a peek at Paper Doll Interviews the Genealogy Organizers. 

HOW TO SET THE STAGE FOR ASKING FAMILY HISTORY QUESTIONS

In some families, older relatives may feel frustrated and put on the spot if they feel they’re being interviewed, while others might enjoy the spotlight.

Only you know what your relatives would prefer, but it may help warm up the interest (and the memory) to start with questions that develop more naturally, rather than seeming as though they’re being interrogated.

Share an activity together

Whether you are setting the table for Thanksgiving or the High Holidays, there’s a ritual to preparing food and setting the stage for a family meal. That’s a great opportunity to use the ebb and flow of the activity to tease out the stories of your mother’s or grandmother’s life, whether it was during the Great Depression or the 1980s.

Ask: Who was at your holiday table? Which relatives did the cooking? Did everyone follow traditional gender roles? What foods did you always have? What was the rest of the family doing while the meal was being prepared? Was it a formal or informal experience? Did everyone get dressed up? Was there a grown-up table and a kid’s table?

If you’re attending (or even just watching) a ball game, use those 7th inning stretches or longer commercial breaks to warm up the conversation. On a family vacation? Ask about the trips they might have taken in their youth. 

You may know (or think you know) bits and pieces of a family story, so start there and be open to being corrected.

Go on a “road trip” whether by car or foot

Whether you’re going over the river and through the woods by car to a relative’s house or just taking an amble through the neighborhood to enjoy the changing of the leaves (and walk off a tryptophan-heavy turkey dinner), being in motion has a few advantages when you’re trying to prompt memories.

First, sometimes it’s easier for people to recall and share memories when they don’t need to make eye contact. As the two of you face forward, either while strolling or driving along, you can ask direct questions without them feeling like they are the center of awkward attention. (Of course, some relatives like to be center stage to spin a yarn; experiment until you figure out what each one prefers.) 

Additionally, when you’re walking, the motion keeps the blood flowing, which may keep the conversation flowing as well!

Driving around the “old neighborhood,” whether it was a decade or half a century ago, can prompt stories. On various trips home, Paper Mommy and I have driven to various of the homes she lived when she was a teen or young bride, and it always prompts interesting (and funny) stories.

Share your own stories and seek comparisons

It may help to bring up a story of your own, or one you’ve heard. If someone you know recently got engaged, for example, you could talk about that experience and ask how it differed for them. 

What was the proposal like? How did the parents on both sides feel? Who was in the wedding party? Was it rushed because someone was headed off to war, or planned in detail? Were there bridezillas in the family history?

Similarly, talking to your relatives about school, about finding their first jobs or setting up their first homes, about having children, about long separations or special occasions — all of these stories may be more easily prompted when you tell your own stories, first. Sometimes, people feel like they have no tales to tell until they can compare and contrast with another’s experiences.

Use photos or physical props, perhaps as part of the downsizing process

Eighty percent of our family photos were taken by my father between the mid-1960s and about 1980; there’s not a lot from prior to then. Later, I started taking pictures with my mother’s 1960’s era Brownie Instamatic (the kind with the square flash cubes you snapped into the top). I thought I’d seen them all, but on my most recent trip home, I came across a stash of photos I’d never seen before.

A little worse for wear, my mother’s 8th grade graduation photo from 1949 was an amazing time capsule. Starting in the front row and going left to right, and then moving back row-by-row, I asked my mom about the people in her class. Understandably, many had been forgotten, but names and anecdotes started to arise, and I even knew a few of the people in the photo but only as adults, many years later.

Use the opportunity of preserving/scanning old photos to start asking questions about who the people were, and how they fit into the family stories.

Similarly, as you help relatives downsize or streamline their homes, ask about the history of pieces of furniture, decor, heirlooms, and memorabilia you come across. 

WHAT TO ASK YOUR PARENTS OR GRANDPARENTS

You’ll have your own ideas of what’s important to know and ask, but if you’re stuck, use these prompts to get you started.

Ancestors and Relatives

You might start by asking about the generations that came before. They may assume you know stories about relatives you vaguely, barely know (or don’t know at all).

  • How did their parents (or grandparents on either side) meet?
  • Where did their families live when they were born? Did other family members live with them?
  • How did they come to live where they did — either how did they come to North America, or to the various cities where they’ve lived and settled down?
  • What did their parents do for a living? — My paternal grandfather was in a business partnership with his brother-in-law; they sold tailors’ notions. My maternal great-grandfather was a baker, and the part of his obituary that notes that he “specialized in pumpernickel and bagel” always makes me smile.

  • How many children did they have? (If their stories predate the mid-20th century, you might ask how many children survived. My grandmother was one of six daughters, besting even Tevye’s five in Fiddler on the Roof, but sadly one died in the early 1930s, leaving a bereft fiancé.) 
  • Did they have any fun nicknames? (Two of my great-aunts had “boyish” nicknames; Miriam was Mickey and Laura was Larry.)
  • What were each of them known for? Did they have any interesting skills or talents?
  • What stories do they have about extended family members? (My mother’s first cousin, Sandy Konikoff — and yes, I’ve forgotten again if that makes him my first cousin once removed or my second cousin — is a famous drummer. He was a session drummer on albums like Joe Cocker’s Mad Dogs and Englishmen and played gigs with Bob Dylan in the mid-1960s. That’s him, below, on the far right.) 

Childhoods

  • Where did they go to school? Were they good at school? 
  • Do they have a favorite teacher? One(s) they despised? (Paper Mommy had a teacher who had a mean nickname for my mom. It’s probably been 75 years, but even now we don’t think kindly of that woman; meanwhile, I am still intrigued that my mother took Industrial Arts in the 1950s (from a teacher missing a few fingers).)
  • How did they get to school?
  • Did they each lunch at school or go home at lunchtime? (Lunch was not served at my mother’s grammar school, and imagining her bundling up and shlepping home in the snow for lunch prepared by her Bubbe — while her mom was Rosie the Riveter at the airplane factory — and then trudging back to school again fascinates me. It was a far cry from my mom’s daily trips to ferry me to and from school and the orthodontist and everywhere else in her Chevy station wagon.)
  • Did they wear uniforms?
  • Did they have extracurricular activities?
  • Did they have to work after school?
  • Who were their best friends? What did they do together?
  • Were they good kids? Did they get in trouble?
  • Did their family take vacations? Where? What’s their most memorable family vacation?
  • What was the financial situation like? Did they have any awareness of how much money their family had?
  • Did they get an allowance? How much? What did they spend it on?
  • Did you have to do chores?
  • Did they have their own bedroom or share it? What was that experience like?
  • What big historical events do they recall living through? (You can always fall back on “What do you recall about World War II?” Where were they when JFK or MLK or RFK was killed? Future generations will ask about 9/11 or January 6th.)
  • How far did they go in school?
  • If they went to college, ask them to tell you all about their college experiences. Ask about where they lived and with whom, what classes they took (and why).

Romances

  • Were they allowed to date? Did their parents set any particular rules about dating?
  • Who was their first crush? First date? First kiss?
  • Who broke their heart? (Paper Mommy is blasé about how many proposals she got, but tells lively tales about the bad ex-boyfriends. Most intriguing? The ex who sent her a dozen long-stemmed roses with a card that read, “May you prick your fingers on every thorn.” Some guys just can’t handle rejection!)
  • To whom did they propose or from whom did they receive proposals?
  • Do they have any romantic regrets? Who was the one who got away?
  • How did they know they’d found the right person (if they did)?
  • What advice do they have based on their experiences?
  • How did they meet your other parent (grandparent)

Careers and Adulthoods

  • What did they envision wanting to be when they grew up? Did they end up doing that?
  • What was their first real job? Do they remember what they got paid?
  • Were they ever in the military? Were they drafted?
  • What were their dreams? Which did they achieve? What do they still want to do?
  • What did they imagine the world would be like when they were older?

Whatever questions you ask, be prepared for the questions to meander into unanticipated territory.

LOOK BEYOND BLOOD RELATIVES

About a decade ago, while visiting my mom, I had a sudden urge to know more about how our dear family friend Jennie, much like an aunt to me, had met and married her late husband. Dave was a delightful teddy bear of a guy — similarly ever-present when I was little — and I asked if my mother and I could come over and have her tell me the story.

Jennie was surprised, but happy to share her lovely WWII-era story of romance. A soldier, visiting his girl and her friends, brought along his fellow GIs. Fresh from the shower, her hair was in curlers when Dave first met Jennie, and he seemed to pay little attention. Indeed, upon their meeting the next day, he didn’t even recognize her…but he fell in love.

(I hadn’t yet mastered taking a photo of a photo without getting a blob of flash. Nonetheless, don’t Dave and Jennie look like a promotional photo from a post-War film?)

Jennie passed away just a few years ago at the age of 97. While she wasn’t family by blood, she was my Tooth Fairy (Paper Mommy couldn’t bear those wiggly teeth) and even just a few years ago was the source of some fabulous phone conversations about Grey’s Anatomy. (She agreed that Alex would never have left Jo.) 

Sometimes, your family legacy extends beyond the genealogy chart.

Obviously these are not one-and-done conversations, but hopefully the foregoing has given you some great ideas for how you might start your journey into collecting memories and family history.

Asking questions is just the first step. Securing the answers for future generations may require a different type of effort. Certainly, you can record these conversations as an audio note or video on your phone, or you may choose to take advantage of a wide variety of apps and services designed for the purpose.

Next time, we’ll look at technology, from simple recording to AI-assisted efforts, for preserving your family history.

Moving? Here’s Your No-Stress Change of Address Checklist

Posted on: October 7th, 2024 by Julie Bestry | 16 Comments

ADVENTURES IN MOVING

A month ago, my best friend of almost forty years called me from her car. “Where are you?” I asked, expecting her to be somewhere en route between where she lives in New Jersey and somewhere near New York City. I was surprised to find out that she was in Central New York, headed toward Western New York (where I’m from), to look for a house to buy! 

My BFF and her significant other had gone to a financial advisor to talk about the usual financial and tax planning topics as they approach a decade that will see many changes — from the last of the “kids” leaving home to their eventual retirements. Among his suggestions was to buy a home. While that wasn’t feasible in the very expensive area where they currently live, they contemplated moving closer to the areas where both had grown up. 

Apparently, the housing market is pretty wacky right now. Home prices are up 30% from where they were just before the pandemic, a mere five years ago! Inventory is low, and demand is high. The morning I spoke to my friend, she’d had a list of six houses to look at the next day; by the time we chatted, three had already sold. Forty-eight hours later, they’d bought a (cute) house! 

Photo by David Gonzales on Pexels (And no, that’s not my BFF’s house, but it’s cute.)

One of my other closest friends recently surprised me with a home announcement, too. He and his new spouse live in the south in separate cities; they’ve been working toward finding a city that worked for both of them as one can work remotely and the other was contemplating retirement.

This summer, while visiting a friend in the northeast, they decided to explore communities within driving distance, and unexpectedly found their “forever” home and, like my BFF, closed on a house quickly. Their move is happening as I write this!

As my area of expertise is paper, my initial concerns for both friends involved making sure they were registered to vote in time (per my advice in The Ultimate Guide to Organizing Yourself to Vote) and that they’d get their addresses changed so they’d be sure to get their mail and not miss any important notices or payments.

WHY YOU MIGHT CHANGE YOUR ADDRESS 

Is mail that important? I mean, most of us get a lot less paper mail than we used to. Fewer people send cards and letters; people post their vacation photos on social media instead of sending postcards. Many folks take advantage of a one-time $5 credit if they get their utility bills by email (or have them auto-debited with email or text notifications after the fact).

Still, mail is can be vital, and making sure that your mail gets to you will make at least one aspect of the moving process less stressful. There are a few different kinds of address changes:

  • Permanent changes of address for all concerned — This happens when you (and possibly your family or household members) change houses (or apartments) and leave (theoretically) for a different home.
  • Permanent changes of address of address for only one member of a household, such as when one person moves out after a divorce, ostensibly never to return.

  • Temporary, but long-term change of address for one person  — Let’s say your kid is headed to college. If she’s staying in town and coming home every week to do her laundry and “borrow” the contents of your fridge, maybe no change of address is necessary. But if she’s headed across the state or country, she’ll want to change her address for most things until May, when she either moves back or tells you she’s going to bum around Europe to find herself.
  • Temporary change of address for one person — There are various reasons for this option, but all involve being away from your home (for work or other obligations) for a length of time, with an expectation of returning. 

Last November, Paper Mommy fell and broke her pelvis, then contracted pneumonia, and due to some medical neglect that makes me want to punch walls, had three hospitalizations and two stints in rehab over the course of two months.

My mother didn’t need to change her address to the hospital or rehab location — a family friend was able to collect her mail and bring it to her. But my sister, who relocated from her home state to my mom’s house for most of two months (and worked remotely while helping with my mom’s recovery), did redirect her mail, temporarily.

Similarly, I’ve had clients who have home bases but travel extensively and long-term for work. One relocates for six weeks out of every quarter to train different divisions of her company.

Another client is a “locum tenens,” a Latin word that refers to medical professionals (or sometimes clergy) who work temporarily in different locations. For example, travel nurses are temporary healthcare professionals who are hired to address staffing shortages, particularly when patient volume surges or there are higher seasonal demands. Assignments can range from four weeks to much longer, and 13-week assignments are not unusual. Nobody wants to be without their mail that long.

Some locums return to a home base between jobs; others move from one job to the next, living in temporary housing in each location. Getting mail wherever they are feels a bit more like home.

HOW TO CHANGE YOUR ADDRESS

Whatever your reason for changing your address, you’re going to want to organize your approach.

Get the details right

Do not pass go, do not collect $200. Before you submit your change off address for official notifications or share your new digs with friends, make sure you have the details exactly correct, including the full ZIP Code with extension.

I live in an apartment, and my address includes a street address (that applies to thousands of residents of many hundreds of apartments) as well as an apartment number, which is mine alone. Over the years I’ve been here, several new residents have mistakenly listed my apartment number as theirs, and I’ve gotten their mail and packages.  

 

If the mail looks important, I’ve tried to find the person via social media and meet them in the parking lot to give them their mail; if it doesn’t seem vital, I usually write “no such addressee at this location” and return it to to the post office. But not everyone will do that, and you really don’t want to risk your mail or packages ending up with someone who isn’t as cool as Paper Doll. 

  • Verify your exact address with your real estate agent, landlord, or apartment complex management. You may need to start the change of address process before you get all your paperwork, so be sure to clarify via text or email to ensure it’s correct.
  • Don’t make assumptions regarding the address based on what you’ve seen when visitinh. On Friends, Monica Gellar’s apartment’s fictional address 495 Grove Street; the building you see on the show is actually 90 Bedford Street, at the corner of Bedford and Grove in Manhattan. You’re not a TV character, but your home may have an address on one street even if the main (or only) entrance is on the cross street.
  • Double-check to make sure that your new home is properly identified as Road, Court, Lane, Boulevard, Circle, etc. Many subdivisions have similar street names with only the final qualifier differentiating among them. (Want to go down a rabbit hole? Read What’s the Difference between an Ave, St, Ln, Dr, Way, Pa, Blvd, Etc.?)

A few months ago, I was on the phone with a friend who built a home in a new subdivision. He’d been delivered a package for a home with the same number as his on the next street over. He thought he’d do a good deed and walk the package over to them while we chatted. Unfortunately, the next street over was not numbered the same way, so the true recipient’s home wasn’t approximately behind his, but much farther away. Eventually, he cut through some backyards back to his house, got his car, and re-attempted the delivery. Again, not everyone is that helpful!

  • Double-check the directional terms, like 129 West 81st Street (that’s Jerry Seinfeld’s place, in Apartment 5A). Make sure you ask for sound-alike numbers (five/nine, fifth/sixth) to be spelled out (in case you get Mr. Rogers’ old 4802 Fifth Avenue house). 
  • If you’re buying a recently-constructed home, triple-check. Sometimes, a developer may change the street names between when the plans were submitted to the post office and the municipality put up the street signs. 
  • Check to see if your street is actually registered with the post office. It’s hard to believe, but some developers sometimes forget this step.

This is fairly easy. Look up your address on the United States Postal Service ZIP Code Lookup site. Enter what you have of the address, and it should return the proper ZIP Code, including the four-digit extension.

You can enter the address to get other details, the city and state to figure out the ZIP code, or the ZIP code to determine the right name for your location. For example, my childhood home is considered in Buffalo, New York, but known by other names:

WHO NEEDS TO KNOW TO KNOW YOUR NEW ADDRESS? 

Once you know to where you’re relocating, start spreading the news.

Start with the Post Office

Submit a change of address through the United States Postal Service. You can walk in to any post office and fill out a change of address form, or file a change of address online. (The USPS page also helps you change your address for the purposes of changing your voter registration address.)

Click to identify whether this is a change of address for an individual, family, or business. Provide your full name and email address (to which your confirmation will go); USPS also requires a mobile phone number in order to verify your identity and mitigate fraud.

Select whether you will be returning to your address within six months (to classify whether your change of address is considered temporary or permanent).

Choose the date when you wish mail forwarding to begin. (The minimum duration for a temporary change of address is 15 days. The initial forwarding period is restricted to 6 months, but can be extended up to 1 year.)

After you provide your old and new addresses, you’ll be charged the whopping fee of $1.10, by credit or debit card, for security purposes.

Standard mail forwarding lasts for a year. After that, you can pay for extended mail forwarding at the rate of $22.50 for six more months, $33.50 for an additional year, or $44.50 for eighteen months. At that point, you should have cycled through just about every annual bill and notification and should be able to notify everyone who might have slipped through the cracks in the year after your move.

Filing your change of address with the postal service will cover most of your incoming mail, but is only temporary. 

The following should help get you on your way to recalling everyone else you need to notify.

Notify Government Agencies

Only you know which government agencies you deal with at the federal, state, and local levels, but start with these:

  • The Internal Revenue Service — It should be obvious, but the IRS really needs to know where you live. It’s also to your advantage for them to be able to find you; you don’t want to miss out on refunds, rebate or stimulus checks, or important notices.

Fill out IRS Form 8822; learn more at the IRS Address Change page. Alternatively, you can submit your change of address on your next tax return, by phone, or by mailing a written statement that includes your full name, Social Security Number, and old and new addresses to the address to which you mailed your last return. (Yes, you probably filed online with Turbotax, but that’s what their instructions say. Use this IRS page to find a good mailing address.)

  • Social Security Administration — If anyone in your household gets (or soon will receive) disability, retirement or survivor benefits and you live in any of the 50 states, DC, Puerto Rico, the U.S. Virgin Islands, Guam, the Northern Mariana Islands, or American Samoa, log into your account and use Social Security’s online system to change your address; you can also call 800-772-1213, Monday through Friday, 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. EST, but expect to provide information to prove your identity. 

  • Medicare — To change your address with Medicare, you must contact the Social Security Administration, as described above.
  • Healthcare.gov — If you get your healthcare through the federal exchange rather than a state exchange or private insurance, log into your account and update your current application online. If you are moving within the same state, you can update your application online, by phone, or in person — but not by mail. However, if you move to a different state, changing your address is not enough; you will need to submit a new application and select new health insurance.

This is also important if you are the executor of a will or responsible for the estate of someone with military experience service. Make sure the VA can find you.

Note that changing your address with the USPS will not change your address with USCIS and USPS will not forward your mail from USCIS, so you’ll want to jump on this.

  • Voter Registration Offices — If you move, whether it’s across the street or to the other side of town, you need to update your address with your local board of elections. A change of address even within the same congressional district may still change your voting options for city or town council, school board, and other local issues.

If you move to a different county, city, or state, you’ll need to register to vote in that locale. As you learned in my post on voting, different states have different rules regarding the methods (in-person, by mail, online) for registering to vote and changing your address. You can also register to vote or change your registration information, including your address, via Vote.org.

  • Department of Motor Vehicles — Contact your state’s DMV to find their online change of address page (if you’re moving within the same state) or registration information (if you are changing states).
  • Toll Pass Agencies — Don’t forget to update your address with whatever toll pass accounts you use. Look at your transponder if you’re not sure what agency handles your toll pass. EZ-Pass, for example, covers twelve states, and services I-PASS in Illinois, and other regional agencies in North Carolina, Indiana, Kentucky, and Florida.
  • Unemployment Offices — Depending on your state, relocating while you receive unemployment benefits can be tricky. (If you move to a different state, your benefits will likely end.) Notify your state’s unemployment agency as soon as you being the moving process. In most states, the easiest way to update your address will be to log in to your state’s unemployment benefits online account. If you aren’t sure where to start, the Department of Labor has contact information for all state unemployment insurance offices.

Finally, if you are certified or licensed by your state to fly a plane or maneuver a boat, to fish or hunt, or to perform your profession, be sure to contact that government agency to update your address.

Contact Financial Institutions

Even if you conduct all of your financial transactions online, your providers need to know where you live because some financial rules and regulations are governed by the state in which in the accountholder resides. So, create a checklist for any and all of the following:

  • Banks and credit unions where you hold accounts
  • Brokerage houses and investment services, for retirement and non-retirement investments
  • Credit reporting agencies — Officially, you only need to notify your creditors. However, it’s worth your effort to check Equifax, Experian, and TransUnion after the move to make sure your address has been properly updated. Log in to all three via AnnualCreditReport.com. 

Little House Photo by Kostiantyn Li on Unsplash

  • Insurance companies — Whether you have auto, homeowners, renters, health, or dental insurance, long-term care or life insurance, umbrella policies, or coverage for your business — if you’ve got insurance, notify them of your address change. In most cases, changing your address will change some aspect of your coverage, especially the cost.
  • Lenders — Got credit cards? Auto or personal loans? (Obviously, if you’ve got a mortgage or a HELOC, those will be going away when you move, but the bank will still need to be able to contact you for a while.)
  • Online financial accounts — Whether it’s Paypal, CashApp, Venmo, or Zelle, make sure your address is updated in the accounts. Where you reside impacts legal terms and conditions. 

Tell the Boss Man (or Boss Lady)

You may not get a physical paycheck anymore, but your employer needs to know where to send tax forms and other official documents.

If you work remotely and change your state of residence, tell your HR department! 

Notify Your Utility Companies

When you move, you (generally) don’t take your services with you, but you may keep the same account number. Notify the following when you change your address:

  • Electric company
  • Gas company
  • Sewer service provider
  • Trash/Waste/Recycling service providers
  • Water company
  • Internet service provider
  • Telephone companies — You may not have a landline anymore, but you almost certainly have a phone. Be aware that the taxes you pay on cellular phone service are determined by the county in which your account is registered. If you use online billing, it may be to your advantage to keep your cell service registered to your old zip code, but your provider’s Terms and Conditions may not allow this.
  • Television service provider — Sure, if you have cable or satellite service, that will change depending on where you move. However, the tax you’re charged for streaming services will change depending on the state to which you move.
  • Other entertainment providers — Whether you subscribe to music or gaming services like Spotify or Twitch, or have tangible subscriptions for magazines and newspapers, update your address. 
WHO ELSE NEEDS TO KNOW YOU’VE MOVED?

Notifying the above folks will keep you from getting into trouble or debt, but don’t forget all of the other individuals and companies that need to be able to find you.

Household Services

Depending on where you move, your household service providers, whether a big company like Terminex or the nice lady who dusts your piano, will need to know how to contact you, whether to continue providing services or finalize paperwork. Start with these and brainstorm whom else you might need to contact:

  • Alarm company
  • Housekeepers
  • Lawn and garden care
  • Pest control
  • Pool maintenance
  • Snow plowing/shoveling
Healthcare Providers
  • Internists/Family practitioners
  • Pediatricians
  • Specialists (OB/GYNs, ophthalmologists, endocrinologists, etc.)
  • Dentists
  • Orthodontists
  • Veterinarians — If you have a pet with a microchip, update the chip’s registration to reflect your new address so Fido or Fluffy can be safely returned to you!
  • Pharmacies, especially online pharmacies
Other Professionals
  • Attorney
  • Accountant
  • Bookkeeper
  • Financial advisor
  • Personal coaches
  • Professional organizer
Schools/Caregivers
  • Daycare providers — for childcare, eldercare, or pet care
  • School administrative offices — Every school needs your change of address: preschool, elementary, middle, and high schools as well as college, whether you are a student, parent or alumni.
  • Tutors — Don’t be so busy with your move that your forget to tell your son’s algebra tutor or your daughter’s piccolo instructor that you moved. It’s no fun to stand at someone’s front door, ringing the bell and having nobody answer.
  • Activity administrators — If your kids are in gymnastics or Tae Kwon Do, or you participate in any community organizations, make sure to update your address with them. Yes, the USPS mail forwarding will prompt you to remember this, but the sooner you update this information directly, the less chance there will be to miss something important.
Online Connections

Do you get meals from companies like Blue Apron or Hello Fresh? Make sure your food follows you to your new home.

Do you use food/shopping delivery services like Door Dash or Uber Eats? I’ve seen more than one tweet or TikTok video with someone ordering delivery for the first time in a long time and only realizing after they ordered that the delivery was going to the city where they used to live. (It’s universally agreed that when that happens, you tell the driver to keep the meal and enjoy it!)

Be sure to update your address at Amazon and other retailers where you shop online. Got an Amazon (or other) wish list? Change that address too, or your friends will be upset when they send you birthday presents that you don’t get!

Do you travel? Update your addresses for your hotel, airline and other frequent-user accounts

Tell Your Peeps

You’re not going to forget to give your mom your new address, but remember to update your friends and members of your personal circle, including:

  • Extended family and friends — The upside is that you may get sent a housewarming present!
  • Civic organizations and clubs to which you belong
  • Houses of worship and religious organizations
Business Contacts

I could write an entire post about whom your business should contact regarding a changed address. But for personal mail regarding your professional life, consider:

  • Professional associations
  • Licensing and certification boards
  • Formal networking groups
  • Affiliate programs from which you are expecting commissions

All of the above assumes that you’ve moved house in the United States. If you move to another nation, be sure to register your address with the U.S. embassy or consulate in your new country. This will ensure that you receive essential updates about safety, security, and emergencies in your area.

Paper Doll Explores the Best of Desktop File Boxes

Posted on: September 23rd, 2024 by Julie Bestry | 8 Comments

September always gets me thinking about school supplies, and office supplies are really just school supplies for grownups (and for all of us pretending to be grownups).

So, when an editor friend (now at Yahoo! Life), contacted me for a few organizing-related pieces, and asked me what my favorite under-$20 organizing item was, I immediately knew that I was going to pick something related to paper. (I mean, come on, I’m Paper Doll!)

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Of course, longtime readers know my absolute favorite tool for organizing action-oriented paper is a tickler file (like the Smead Desk Filer/Sorter, above) but if you’re going to buy one (instead of making one on your own with 31 folders for the days of the month and 12 more for each day of the year), that’s going to be just a bit outside of the $20 range.

Thus, the answer I gave my editor pal for her piece, which came out last week as The Under-$20 Products Professional Organizers Tell Every Client to Buy, was a desktop file box. In turn, this got me thinking about whether I’d ever really talked about this tool in depth.

I went back to my series from early this year on the basics of paper organizing:

Part 1 of the Reference Files Master Class really dug into the mechanics of filing — cabinets, bins, Bankers Boxes, hanging files, interior files, and yes, tickler files. But because I primarily recommend desktop file boxes for action files rather than reference files (with a few notable exceptions, discussed below), I realized hadn’t mentioned desktop file boxes in years!

So, today’s post explores the benefits and use cases of desktop file boxes and looks at the different types you might consider, depending on your aesthetic tastes.

THE BENEFITS OF DESKTOP FILE BOXES

Most of the file solutions we look at are vertical.

Whether you’re using a filing cabinet or file drawer, tub or milk crate, you get to corral a lot of paper, categorize it, and store it vertically. Those solutions are fine for most of your reference material, but action paperwork requires a format from which you can deftly pluck what you need, quickly and, if necessary, often.

Desktop file boxes are a versatile paper organizing tool with a wide variety of benefits.

Small Footprint for Maximized Space Efficiency

A desktop file box is letter-sized and has rails for hanging folders (into which you can placed tabbed interior folders) but isn’t as deep (front to back) as a file crate. The typical letter-sized file box or crate is about 14″ or greater deep (from front-to-back). This allows you to keep a hefty number of papers and categories on your desk, but uses far too much desktop real estate for action items or quick reference.

Conversely, a desktop file box works as a miniaturized version of your typical file drawer or crate and rarely measures more than six inches deep (front-to-back). 

Ease of Accessibility

A desktop file box ensures that you can keep a small, curated number of important documents and information within arm’s reach, eliminating the need to search through drawers or filing cabinets for frequently used items. 

Improved Organization

Unlike with a full-sized file crate, a smaller footprint means you’ll be less inclined to pile papers on top of a desktop file box. (They’d fall off.)

And again, this solution allows you to provide a dedicated space for everything you need close at hand — though you must employ a reality check to ensure you continually edit and keep from overstuffing the box. Because there’s limited space, it encourages you to sort items in an orderly fashion, whether by date, category, project, or whatever other system makes sense to you.

Customizable

You can still use the same standard hanging files, tabbed interior folders, and labels you use for your regular reference filing system, making it easy to add or switch contents.

However, because this is a smaller profile tool, you can choose a completely different set of folder colors and styles (like these Japanese watercolor themed folders) making it easy to tailor your desktop resources to your personal organization style.

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So, your general reference system may make use of traditional Army-green hanging folders and manilla tabbed folders, but your desktop file box could use purple hanging folders with matching interior folders, or any other combinations to express your style.

Portability

Related to the whole point of a smaller footprint is that a desktop file box can be portable. You can easily carry it to the conference room at the office, the dining room, or your back deck if you want to work on tasks or categories somewhere other than where the desktop box lives. Stay organized while going (somewhat) mobile.

Visual Clarity

A small container means that you can quickly see whatever files are stored. In a full filing cabinet drawer, you’ll need to let your fingers do the walking and hope that you haven’t accidentally misfiled a folder. The smaller profile means you’ll see what you need immediately, saving time and effort.

Versatility

As I’ll illustrate further on in this post, desktop file boxes come in a variety of styles to adapt to your decor. 

USE CASES FOR DESKTOP FILE BOXES

Any kind of file box or plastic crate with rails can hold hanging folders and organize your papers in lieu of investing in a filing cabinet or a desk with file drawers. But a desktop file box helps you organize a smaller sub-set of papers and takes up less real estate.

Thus, a  desktop file box helps reduce desk clutter while making good use of limited space through compact vertical storage. You’ll use a familiar, categorized hanging file and tabbed interior file system, but only for the papers you really need. In this case, that’s either going to be:

  • Action-Oriented Task Paperwork — These are the same kinds of things you might put in your tickler file, if you were going to use them, but organized by category (like To Pay, To Read, To Call, etc.).

While my preference is to recommend organizing action paperwork by date assigned (in a tickler file), some of my clients find that very few of their action items are deadline driven. While deadlines are key for students, office workers, or parents, if you find that your tasks are less driven by due dates and more easily categorized by type of labor, categorized files may suffice.

And, of course, you could use a desktop file box as a tickler file, either with a DIY set of 43 folders or by storing your actual tickler file vertically, numbered tabs upward so that the individual slots act like folders.

  • Time/Event-Specific Information — If you’re going to meet with your contractor about your kitchen remodel or need notes to help you through a Zoom or telephone call, you’ll want them close at hand on the day you need them. In lieu of a tickler file, putting these notes in your desktop file box for the upcoming week when you’ll need them means you can plan ahead without having to keep the papers or file flat on your desk, cluttering it up; neither will you rush to your filing cabinet right before your meeting.
  • Red-Hot Reference Paperwork — It’s been a baker’s dozen of years since I wrote Paper Doll Gives You the Business (Files) — Part 1, the first in a short series on organizing paper in small business offices. At the time, I raised the concept of Red-Hot Reference documents. At the time, I wrote, in part:

Red-Hot Reference is the term I use with clients to differentiate between super-important reference materials and run-of-the-mill general reference information. These are the documents that need to have prime real estate on or near your desk so that data can be gleaned with minimal effort and maximum speed. Red Hot Reference includes:

Vital Contacts — Even if you have a computer database or a pre-programmed phone, there are going to be phone numbers, extensions, hot lines, email addresses, and shipping information for customers, vendors, and support team members that you’ll need to grab quickly. …

[t]here’s a difference between having information somewhere and having it at your fingertips. After all, telephone books (remember them?) have practically every number one might need, but nobody leaves the telephone book for the baby sitter. Instead, wise parents create an essential list of emergency numbers — parents’ cells, grandparents, pediatrician, Poison Control, etc. For your business, only you know which numbers (major vendors, labs, clients/customers, etc.) that you need to reach on a frequent or emergency basis. Those are the numbers that should go on your Red Hot Reference emergency contact list.

I went on to talk about other business-specific issues one might need to keep on hand: contract-related deal points, emergency procedures, etc. The key is that no matter how digital our world may be, keeping some items in analog form offers a great safety net.

For what other use cases can we envision using a desktop file box?

  • In your family communication center (perhaps in the kitchen, home office, or family room) use a desktop file box as a mail station. Sure, your kids are going to text you (maybe even from upstairs) to say they need a permission slip signed, but they have to find some place safe to put the permission slip.

If everyone in the family has a folder in the desktop file box to use as their in-house mailbox, there’s one safe place to leave mail, important papers to sign, and notes of encouragement (or maybe apology notes).

If your kids’ schools don’t use portals for sending absence, early dismissal, and tardy excuses, you may be expected to send notes the traditional way. Paper Mommy used to scribble a note on a piece of scratch pad: “Please excuse Julie at 1:15 p.m. today. She has an orthodontist appointment.” (The unspoken remainder? “And I don’t want to bring her back afterward for the last half-hour when she just has gym class and we could be home watching General Hospital. Tracy Quartermaine is withholding her father’s heart medicine, and what is climbing a rope compared to that?!)

If your school expects you to fend for yourself for these kinds of excuses, draft an excuse template with blanks to fill in for the date, time, reason for the absence/early departure/tardy, and a signature line. Print of a short stack of the forms and keep them in one of the folders so you and your co-parent can quickly fill in and sign one to make mornings a little less hectic.

  • In the kitchen, keep folders of clipped recipes (faves or ones to try), take-out menus, coupons, and those little manuals for kitchen appliances for when your brand-new air fryer just keeps beeping at you and you haven’t quite mastered the instructions (at least not enough to keep the manual in your regular household reference system).
  • In your children’s rooms or the family communication center, or wherever you handle kids’ paperwork, collect school calendars, lunchroom schedules, activity calendars, etc., create a training system.

When your kids are little, show them how you file items away. As they get older, your middle-school and older students can use a desktop file box to keep track of returned homework, tests, and essays so their lockers and backpacks aren’t overflowing with materials they might need later in the semester (but don’t need to keep schlepping back and forth). These skills will be advantageous to them in college, when they have to handle all of their own papers.

  • On your home office desk, think about the papers that cause you the most consternation when you forget them. Maybe you’re always forgetting to bring your action-item papers (like the paper forms you need to fill out for the doctor’s office or the financial records to show your accountant). Still, put a reminder in your phone to take the folder with you on the right day.
  • When creating a mobile workstation — If your desktop file box has handles, it makes it easy to move work files between all the different locations where you need to get things done. That might be the guest room, a co-working space outside of the home, or anywhere else you need some alternate file support. (For more detailed mobile office suggestions, read On the Road Again: Organize Your Mobile Office.)
  • Gathering critical documents for special projects — Envision the various projects in your personal life when you might want a smaller file space than a drawer, but more than a folder. For example, documentation for a complex tax year, supporting documents for an adoption, or notes and intermediate legal paperwork related to a legal separation or divorce.
  • Near the entertainment center for complex electronics — In most households, I recommend having a separate section of the family files system for all the different appliances in the house. However, if you’ve got a home entertainment center with a big TV, a stereo, an audio bar and multiple room speakers, plus plug-in doodads like Firesticks or home assistance devices, your digital world may be overwhelming. Keeping a small, unobtrusive desktop file box on the family room bookshelves will help keep all the flimsy little manuals accessible.

A BEVY OF DESKTOP FILE BOX SOLUTION STYLES

Desktop file boxes come in a variety of colors, styles, and materials. This is just an ice cream taste of what you might find for your home or office.

Metal Mesh

Metal mesh desktop file boxes are heavier than plastic, but lighter than acrylic. Although you’ll mainly find black versions in office supply stores, there are other color options online. However, consider that a neutral color like black or white will likely look better with a wider variety of hanging folder colors.

Below, find a GoldOrcle Hanging File Organizer from Amazon. Running from $17.99 to $19.99, depending on which color you choose, the metal mesh comes in black, pink, or white (each with five grey hanging folders), or black with seven assorted rainbow-colored folders.

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This mesh file box measures 12.2 wide x 9.45″ high x 5.45″ deep, making it closest in capacity to the plastic file boxes, below. The handle is built into the top of the box frame.

Most mesh boxes are similarly built, though if you want a handle built more into the body of the box and not connected to the frame, Staples has a True Red Wire Mesh File Organizer in black or silver, measuring 12.4″ wide x 5.79″ deep x 10.16″ high for $16.99.

Metallic

The U Brands Hanging File Desk Organizer in Copper and Rose Gold (or alternatively in Gold) is extremely lightweight at only one pound, but measuring 12.2″ wide x 6.85″ deep x 9.37″ high, it’s got one of the larger footprints while not being excessively hefty. 

This version has a slightly more decor-oriented vibe than most options, and while the almost 6500 Amazon reviews offer high praise — it ranks 4.9 stars — I wonder about the soldering and how easily transported it is. Perhaps it just looks delicate but is actually tough?

At only $17.99, it’s definitely worth a try if this is your style.

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Plastic

The Pendaflex/Oxford Portable Desktop File is a great starter option. It’s lightweight at 1.4 pounds and perfect for when you care more about function than aesthetics. It measures 9-1/2″ high x 12-3/16″ wide x 6″ deep, which offers the perfect balance between a full-sized file crate and some of the shallower file boxes, below. It comes with five letter-sized hanging folders with clear tabs and inserts.

Amazon has it for $18, but this one is also the easiest to find in Big Box stores like Walmart or office supply stores.

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If you find black a bit dour, it’s also available in blue (with five color Pendaflex hanging folders, tabs and blank inserts) for $28.90 and slate grey (also with the folders, tabs, and inserts) for $27.50.

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There’s no explanation for the difference in price between the three colors.

Acrylic or Lucite

Acrylic and Lucite offer a luxurious, faux-crystal/glass look. However, depending on the workmanship, they (like plastic) can squeak on some countertops and desks. Affixing few flat, felt circles to the underside can reduce the squeak.

The Classic Acrylic Slim Desk Organizer is available for $49.99 from Amazon. It measures 12″ wide x 4″ deep x 10″ high. Although it’s fairly hefty at 2.3 pounds, the 4-inch depth makes it less practical than those with greater front-to-back depth. It’s striking to look at, but I’m always puzzled by the choice of putting the built-in handles on the front and rear of the box, as one would be more likely to carry it holding the short sides.

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This Luxe Acrylic Desktop File from The Container Store measures 7″ long (deep), 14-1/2″ wide, and 10-1/8″ high. The UV-resistant material is designed to extend the product life and prevent  yellowing, even with exposure to sunlight and other elements. The sturdy side handles extend beyond the body of the box for convenient transport. This exclusive Container Store file box is $32.99.

The Russell & Hazel Clear Acrylic Slim Hanging File Box is similar to the first acrylic option above, but with gold-toned hardware. It measures 4.5″ deep x 12-1/4″ wide x 10″ high. You can purchase it directly from Russell & Hazel for $44.

 

Fabric-covered

This is the “sneaky” category. Fabric-covered desktop file boxes tend to be built of sturdy cardboard with a cloth covering, and are lidded more often than not. When purchasing online, be sure to check that what’s called a file box actually has either internal hanging file rails or a top edge that serves the purpose of a hanging file rail.

When, I initially looked at the $20 Brightroom Canvas File Box at Target, I was focused on the aesthetics. My larger concern was that the lid might serve as friction; just as people tend not to put laundry in a hamper if it has a lid on it, there’s a tendency to avoid filing when a file box has a lid. I was looking so intently at the lid that I didn’t notice that there were no references to file interior hanging file rails. Oops. 

Avoid friction. Just as people tend not to put laundry in a hamper if it has a lid on it, there's a tendency to avoid filing when a desktop file box has a lid. Share on X

Then, I had the same problem with the Container Store’s Bigso Stockholm collection. Pretty colors, decent pricing (at $22.99) but while it references that the boxes “can hold” hanging folders, there’s no reference to (or pictures of) hanging file rails. Buyer beware!

Alternatively, this Oterri File Organizer Box with Lid at Amazon is only $18.99, but has all the features the Brightroom and Stockholm lack. It’s 10.6″ wide x 8.26″ deep x 13.38″ high (with largest footprint of the various options here) and uses a linen fabric cover over sturdy board base. It comes in black, dark blue, green, grey, lavender, light grey, pink, and sky blue.

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Although it comes collapsed, when put together, it includes a smooth sliding rail for hanging folders. It does have a lid (a plus for portability, but a downside for those disinclined to file), with an extra mesh pocket for supplies! This is also the only option that is collapsible when not in use.

Wood

As I alluded to in The Truth About Celebrity Organizers, Magic Wands, and the Reality of Professional Organizing back in 2020, I’m not comfortable with Marie Kondo pushing her various lines of what are basically pricey boxes.

However, even I have to admit that the Marie Kondo Shoji Bamboo Desktop File is lovely in its simple elegance. Measuring 13-7/8″ wide x 5-1/2″ deep by 9-7/8″ high, this handmade, bamboo file box, another Container Store exclusive, is $39.99.

For those concerned about the environment and inclined to eschew plastic, bamboo (a renewable resource) may be an appealing option.

Leather

When I seek solutions for clients, I always opt for the highest quality low-cost option. You can always upgrade later.

However, if you prefer something that makes a real aesthetic statement, it’s hard to imagine anything with more quietly ritzy “ta da” power than the Levenger Bomber Jacket Desktop File Holder with Lid. At full cost, it’s $219.50, but is currently on sale for $153.65.

It’s not pictured, but there’s a coordinating lid. There’s also an interior slip pocket to store small items and an exterior pocket. (I’d be inclined to tuck a paper calendar in the exterior pocket with just the current month hanging out.)

FINAL THOUGHTS

Aesthetics only matter if the look of a desktop file box will encourage you to file away those loose pieces of paper. I’d like to discourage you from spending outside your budget in hopes that spending more will change your behavior; it won’t.

Just as with a tickler file, if you’re using a desktop file box to get a handle on completing your tasks, you still need to build a behavioral system to organize what you must get done. For more thoughts on that, I recommend my book, Tickle Yourself Organized.

 

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See Your Way Clear: Organize With Transparent Sticky Notes

Posted on: September 16th, 2024 by Julie Bestry | 10 Comments


Longtime Paper Doll readers know that I’ve had a complex relationship with sticky notes. On the one hand, in the very first month of this blog, all the way back in 2007, I railed against writing things on random pieces of loose paper in Stay Far From Floozies: Avoiding the Loose Paper Trap.

On the other hand, over the years I’ve broadened my approach. It’s not the sticky notes, per se, personified by 3M’s Post-it® Notes, that left me chagrined, but the act of writing things you want to remember on any visible piece of paper, without rhyme, reason, or organizational process. To that end, I’ve shared a wide variety of pro-sticky note posts, including:

So, let me be perfectly clear: stickies have have a place in organizing — as long as they’re used intentionally, mindfully, and not randomly.

With all this in mind, today’s Paper Doll post explores another intriguing sticky note option reminiscent of the novelty we discussed back in 2012 when I looked a different transparent office supply solution, in Paper Doll Rolls the Highlight Reel: Removable Highlighter Tape. 

BENEFITS AND USES OF TRANSPARENT STICKY NOTES

When it comes to organizing thoughts and information, I want the benefits of transparent sticky notes to crystal clear. 

In case you’ve never seen a transparent sticky note, think of it as combining the functions of tracing paper and sticky notes.

Transparent sticky notes — which, to be fair, I generally more translucent or slightly “frosted” than entirely transparent — offer several benefits that distinguish them from traditional opaque ones, especially for organizing and annotating. Additionally, the notes (though not the writing) are waterproof and are generally more durable than traditional sticky notes. 

Having trouble envisioning how they work? Take a peek:

Academic Uses

Transparent sticky notes are ideal for students at all levels, but particularly in high school and college, especially when studying texts where annotations are helpful or even necessary but the page or document must not be permanently altered.

Transparent sticky notes allow students to scribble questions, ideas, connections, and thoughts directly over content. The notes can be applied, easily removed or repositioned, and (if carefully stored) applied again later.

  • Overlay Text or Drawings Without Obscuring What’s Beneath

Transparent sticky notes allow you to place and affix notes directly over text or diagrams without covering the printed content.

This is particularly useful for annotating books and textbooks, source documents, or presentations where you want to preserve visibility of the original material. 

Science textbooks often include complex illustrations of plants, processes, or anatomical design. Students can learn a few elements at a time, add explanatory text to the overlaid sticky notes, remove the note to test themselves, and create new ones for different elements.

  • Highlight and Emphasize Information

By placing a transparent sticky note over a portion of text or an image, you can use a highlighter or writing implement to highlight, annotate, or draw attention to specific details without making permanent marks on the original material.

You can  use a highlighter directly on a clear transparent sticky note; tinted translucent notes let you both color code concepts or categories and serve the same accenting purpose as a traditional highlighter.

Teachers can write comments pointing to specific areas of a student’s work while not damaging the masterwork, and tutors can add explanatory guidance to notes and then remove them when coaching students to remember what was on them.

Students using printed textbooks can highlight or annotate content, remove and re-affix the notes for studying and self-testing, and then re-sell the practically pristine textbook to the college bookstore after the final exam! (Yes, I know college students primarily use digital textbooks now, but they still read many novels and auxiliary books and use workbooks in traditional formats.)

  • Copy content to paste into notes

Remember how I said that transparent sticky notes work like a combination of a traditional sticky note and tracing paper? Trace directly from your text book and then affix what you’ve traced into your handwritten notes.

The hand-brain connection means that students will remember the material much better from the experience of hand-tracing than they might if they only photocopied an illustration or chart.

Organizational Uses

This is an organizing blog, after all, so we should look at the organizing advantages.

  • Layer for Enhanced Organization

You can layer transparent sticky notes on top of one another or over documents without losing sight of the information underneath. This can be useful in complex planning, when you want to group ideas visually without obscuring the main content.

Again, students can use layering for studying illustrations or maps, adding their notes and layering different types of content on top of the original material, with layer upon layer adding more nuance and detailed information. (I’m reminded of my 9th grade Social Studies class where, when faced with a blank mimeographed map of Africa, we had to learn (and later fill in on subsequent weeks), the country names, then the capitals, then the colonial influences, and the top exported product. I could have really used transparent notes, but regular Post-it® Notes hadn’t made it to our school supplies yet!)

  • Reorganize Ideas Easily

One of the great benefits of traditional sticky notes is that you can move them around, but again, transparent/translucent sticky notes augment that benefit. They allow for more flexible, real-time organization of thoughts, whether they’re used on a document or handout, the page of a textbook or workbook, or even on a large-format item like a map, poster, or whiteboard.

Improve Every Stage of a Project

When you work (or study) in a creative field, your work often has many iterations. Having an overlay for things that aren’t (yet) perfect gives you flexibility to be creative without fear of losing a creative draft or burst of genius.

  • Clear the Way for Creative Work

Transparent sticky notes can help for artists, designers, and creators who need to annotate their thoughts without hiding underlying sketches or design elements. Create temporary markups and adjustments without altering the original work.

Musicians might create an overlay with the conductor’s suggestions written on an angle, above or below the measures, bars, and notes.

  • Collaborate and Brainstorm

In collaborative environments — picture a Mad Men-style creative team or a garage band figuring out how different instruments and vocals might come together — transparent sticky notes enable participants to add thoughts or ideas on top of shared content, whether on a design, blueprint, or lyric sheet.

The ability to make changes without altering the original fosters more flexible brainstorming sessions without fear of losing track of the original document or a sequence or flow of ideas.

Who else might use transparent sticky notes?

The unique properties make transparent sticky notes a versatile option in various context. In addition to traditional students and teachers in an academic setting, who else might use these notes?

  • Authors — Most authors now edit galley copies of their books digitally, directly in PDF files. However, editing that way isn’t always comfortable. Writers might choose to make notes (on clean copies of their galleys or even printed drafts) and then highlight changes on transparent stickies.  
  • Memoirists — Reading your own handwritten journals to help document the history of your thoughts and actions? You probably don’t want your 2024 handwritten notes directly on the pages of your circa-1981 Snoopy diary, but overlaying transparent sticky notes helps the you in the present engage with the you of the past.
  • Researchers — When faced with a variety of primary sources that can’t be doodled upon (or when you don’t have access to a copy machine but would prefer to handwrite your notes layered over a document), a transparent note can help you make a deeper connection between your thoughts and the original work than taking notes on a computer or pad of paper.
  • Book reviewers — Whether you review books professionally or just for Amazon or Goodreads, it’s helpful to have your contemporaneous thoughts while reading and your highlighted quotes at the ready. If you find marking up books to be almost sacrilegious, transparent stickies are a great option.
  • Cooks — Some people take recipes in cookbooks as gospel; others like to “doctor” things up. If you were experimenting as you went, you might not want each changed variable to be written onto the original recipe, but you’d still want to track the changes you made until (or even after) you achieved delicious perfection. TheKitchn blog post This Mind-Blowing BookTok Trend Will Change the Way You Use Your Cookbooks is a bit hyperbolic but does show the use case in action.
  • Attorneys — Boilerplate contracts are in computers, and paralegals make the revisions digitally as instructed. But most lawyers can be seen reviewing photocopies of contracts and mocking them up with revisions. Transparent sticky notes would let them see the original contract language, highlight relevant passages, and make revisions; similarly, they might use transparent notes to help them accent points in transcribed depositions and testimony they want to refer to in court.
  • Spiritual adherents — Whether you participate in some kind of formal Bible study or just like reading holy texts from any of a variety of comparative religions, you probably don’t want to scribble your thoughts in the (or any) “Good Book.” Use transparent sticky notes to highlight and annotate questions, feelings, or motivational elements.
  • Crafters — Whether you’re trying to map colors for a needlepoint project or adjust the measurements on a pattern, writing directly on the instructions or designs can get messy, especially if you need to revise your notes. A transparent overlay lets you adjust without the mess.

How might you use a transparent or translucent sticky note?

CHALLENGES PRESENTED BY TRANSPARENT STICKY NOTES

While transparent sticky notes offer many benefits, they do have some downsides to consider.

Potential for Residue

Some brands of transparent sticky notes might leave a slight residue, especially if left on delicate surfaces for an extended period. (Bibles and textbooks from before the1950s tend to have pages that are as thin as tissue paper.)

Obviously, this varies depending on the quality of the adhesive used, and higher-end (and honestly, brand-name) versions will typically avoid this problem. If the book or document you’re using is delicate, test it on a back page, like in the glossary or index.

Adhesive Strength

Transparent sticky notes may not be adhere as strongly as traditional opaque sticky notes, particularly on rougher surfaces. Unlike the recycled paper of traditional sticky notes, the slightly slick material used to make transparent sticky notes makes the notes more durable but the adhesive may be less durable. This means they might peel off more easily, especially on surfaces that aren’t perfectly smooth or when the notes are repositioned (or applied, removed, and re-applied) multiple times. Again, test them. 

Writing Challenges

Depending on the material, certain pens and markers may not write as well on transparent sticky notes. This can limit their functionality (compared to traditional paper-based sticky notes) if you (like Paper Doll) prefer one specific type of pen. Again, brand-name versions are likely to allow a greater variety of pen use; Post-it® shows multiple examples of workable writing implements.

Less Absorbent Surface

Unlike paper sticky notes, which easily absorb ink, transparent sticky notes are usually made from plasticky or filmy material, like stiff, glossy tracing paper. This can cause ink to smear or take longer to dry.

Most of the TikTok videos I found on the topic are in agreement that mechanical pencils, ball-point pens, and markers work best, and that water-based highlighters and pens are the least effective. If you use markers or gel pens, especially if you also intend to highlight what you’ve written, be sure to let the ink dry thoroughly before touching or highlighting.

Limited Color Options

While some transparent sticky notes come in pastels and neons, they usually lack the range of vibrant colors available with opaque sticky notes, especially the myriad Post-it® colors. This can limit your ability to color-code effectively when organizing ideas. You can easily find colorful options, but perhaps not your preferred color schemes.

Glare and Reflection

Due to their transparent nature, this kind of sticky note may glare under certain lighting conditions, making them more difficult to read or see clearly in brighter environments or on glossy surfaces.

Cost

Transparent sticky notes, whether brand name Post-it® versions or generic, tend to be slightly more expensive than their opaque counterparts, so if you’re on a budget or need a lot of them, the cost could be a drawback. 

If you’re using these sticky notes for creative, academic, or professional purposes where clear visibility is key, these downsides may be manageable. However, for heavy-duty or everyday use, traditional sticky notes are usually going to be more practical.

VARIETIES OF TRANSPARENT STICKY NOTES

According to the website, Post-it® Transparent Notes come in 7 varieties, all with 36 notes per pad (though I was able to find an additional 10-pack of the clear version at Staples.com for a whopping $26.46)! 

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All measure 2 7/8″ x 2 7/8″. Note, this is slightly smaller than traditional Post-it® Notes, which are generally 3-inch squares.

In terms of shopping, I should caution that it’s difficult to find all versions manufactured by 3M, though Staples, Amazon, and Walmart each seem to dependably have at least two versions in stock at any given time.

3M also references online availability at Quill, OfficeSupply.com, Maxwell’s, and Strobel’s Supply, though the latter two only carry 24-packs, priced in the hundreds of dollars.

ALTERNATIVE BRANDS OF TRANSPARENT STICKY NOTES

While Post-it® brand is clearly the gold standard for sticky notes, they are definitely not the only game in town, though it’s unlikely you’ll be able to locate many non-3M branded transparent sticky notes in person unless you are shopping at quirky or high-end specialty stationery/office supply stores in larger cities. 

Office Depot has its own brand of translucent sticky notes, about $3 for a pack of 50 notes, in clear, as well as yellow, orange, pink, and an assorted pack of 12 pads in all colors for $14.39.

If you’re happening by The Container Store, they also have a proprietary brand, $4.99 for a stack of 36 clear notes. 

However, a quick search of Google or Amazon will yield a bounty of options, and if you put “transparent sticky note” into the search at TikTok, you’ll find a number of offers.

Be prepared to have patience. I got excited about the prospect of lined, transparent sticky notes. However, when I went to Stationery Pal‘s website and actually searched for “transparent sticky notes lined,” I was rewarded with some lovely pastel transparent sticky notes, but none were lined. When I tried the same search string but in a different order, I finally got what I was seeking.

In addition to their 2″ x 3″ and 3″ x 3″ pastel-colored “shimmering” translucent sticky notes priced ridiculously low (like $.60 to $1.40 for 50-note pads), they do have blue, green, orange, and pink neon-colored lined, translucent sticky notes. For example, the neon pink, translucent sticky note pads are 3″ square, lined, and $.60/50-note pad, plus shipping.  

(I’ve yet to figure out how TikTok Shop advertisers and companies like Temu and Shein can afford to price their products so low. Caveat emptor.)

In general, my inclination is to shop online with Amazon, as I’m generally happy with their customer service. A quick Googling of “transparent sticky notes” yields more than 100 pages of offerings, from plain, clear, 3″-square sticky notes from known brands like Redi-Tag with four 50-note pads for $4.99 to the puzzlingly unpronounceable Brsbock‘s four 50-note 4″ x 6″ transparent sticky notes for $9.99.

Another “unknown” brand on Amazon, Gueevin, offers “extra large jumbo” 8 1/2″ x 11″ translucent sticky note sheets, 100 for $15.99.

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Colorful options — if you are openminded about the colors you want — are widely available. I’m transfixed by the LinQuick’s pastel transparent notes. They’re billed as “Candy Color”; a twelve-pack of six assorted colors, 50-notes per pad, costs $7.99.
 

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When I first began researching this topic, I was delighted to find an online store called Rose Colored Daze had a collection of Neon Tabbed translucent sticky notes in three difference sizes, ranging from $4.50to $14.50 for ten-note stacks. Imagine a combination of a sticky note, tracing paper, and indexing tabs!

Sadly, all versions are currently sold out, though they do have a number of other varieties of 50-note pads of translucent sticky notes:

Personally, I find round sticky notes to be inefficient; wouldn’t you want to maximize your surface area? Still, if you have a desire for a round, translucent sticky note, Amazon has oodles, such as these Sabary 1.75″ circular notes, which come in five different color schemes for $6.49 for 500 notes.

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So, there’s no need to obscure your ideas — transparent sticky notes will let your thoughts shine through and make the concepts you’re trying to learn less opaque. (So endeth this “clearly” punny post.) 

 

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The Ultimate Guide to Organizing Yourself to Vote

Posted on: September 9th, 2024 by Julie Bestry | 14 Comments

WHAT DOES VOTING HAVE TO DO WITH ORGANIZING?

The word organize has three common meanings:

  1. to arrange, assemble, or put in order your tangible stuff (or activities or thoughts) so you can access what you need when you want it, to be more productive
  2. to coordinate, assemble, and unify a group, as when organizing a search party for a missing child or organizing in a union to collectively bargain
  3. to mobilize in support of a cause or effort you value, like Save the Seals (remember that, GenX?) or “Fix the Pot Hole on Main Street!”, or to get a candidate elected or a ballot proposition approved or rejected

In the United States, National Voter Registration Day is September 17, 2024, and no matter what you believe regarding any given issue or candidate, it’s hard to make a difference if your resources and information are disorganized.

To that end, today’s non-partisan post includes everything you need to know to exercise your right to vote, no matter your opinion on candidates, propositions, or pot holes.

(Dear non-US readers; please feel free to post non-partisan links about organizing to vote in your countries in the comment section.)

KNOW YOUR “WHY”

We do not have government by the majority. We have government by the majority who participate.

~ Thomas Jefferson

No matter which candidates get your vote or what positions you take on any given issue, don’t let disorganization to be an obstacle to voting.

If you’re an American citizen over the age of 18, you have the right to cast votes regarding a wide variety of national issues and policies, including:

  • The Economy
  • The Environment and Energy policy
  • Foreign policy
  • Healthcare
  • Immigration
  • Reproductive and Family Issues
  • Veterans’ Affairs

It’s not just federal policies and candidates. You never know when you’ll care about a school board vote that impacts your kids, a zoning issue, or a noise ordinance related to a neighbor’s teenage beau boosting Peter Gabriel’s In Your Eyes at maximum decibels in the wee hours.

Voting preserves your right to have a say in how your community (school district, town, city, state, and nation) will be governed. It also allows you to model community organization and civic responsibility for your children or grandchildren.

REGISTER TO VOTE

Let’s start with the basics of voter registration.

Know your state’s voting eligibility requirements.

You would think voting eligibility requirements would be uniform across all fifty states, but nope. (Note: residents of the United States’ territories can vote in presidential primaries, but not the presidential election, nor in Congressional or Senate races.)

Between 1812 and 1860, property ownership qualifications to vote were progressively abolished. In 1870, non-white men gained the right to vote. Until the 19th Amendment, ratified in 1920, only twenty states granted women the right to vote.

From Suffs: The Musical

Even then, in effect, only white women were guaranteed suffrage, as poll taxes and civic literacy tests disenfranchised the poor and people of color. (Poll taxes were stuck down by the 24th Amendment; the Voting Rights Act of 1965 outlawed discriminatory state voting practices.)

Native Americans weren’t granted the right to vote until 1924, and that right wasn’t guaranteed until 1948. And of course, the 26th Amendment lowered the minimum voting age requirement from 21 to 18 in 1971, when Paper Doll was only four years old, but already really wanted to vote.

Federal voting regulations aside, individual states have varying rules regarding voter eligibility. In order to vote in federal and state elections, you must be a citizen, of “sound mind,” and over the age of 18, but most states have residency requirements.

In 1972, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down one-year residency requirements, ruling that anything in excess of 30 to 50 days violated equal protection of the Fourteenth Amendment.

And given that residency implies an address, the passage of the National Voter Registration Act of 1993 and 2002’s Help America Vote Act — in addition to modernizing voting technology — removed registration impediments and ruled unhoused people may not be denied the right to vote based on their lack of a permanent address.

Thirteen states (Alaska, Connecticut, Delaware, Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Montana, New Jersey, Utah, Vermont, West Virginia, Wisconsin, and Wyoming) and Puerto Rico do not require a mailing address, and in Arizona and Nebraska, homeless citizens may use county clerks’ offices and court houses as their mailing addresses.

Most states have regulations restricting the voting eligibility of convicted felons while in prison or on parole, while convicted felons in Kentucky and Virginia lose the right to vote in perpetuity. (Florida recently reversed its law in this regard, but … it’s complicated.)

Know your state’s voter registration deadline

As befits a nation that initially considered itself to be a collection of smaller nations, each state has its own voter registration deadlines.

Twenty-two states require registration between 16 and 30 days prior to Election Day (Tuesday, November 5th this year). Six states require registration from 1 to 15 days prior to election day, and twenty-two states and Washington, DC allow registration at your polling place on Election Day.

Fill out the “paperwork” to register to vote.

Your paperwork may not be on paper; forty-three states (plus DC and Guam) allow online voter registration, up from only fourteen in 2008 when I first wrote about organizing to vote. However, you must register to vote by mail or in person in Arkansas, Mississippi, Montana, New Hampshire, South Dakota, Texas, and Wyoming. 

Notably, North Dakota does not require voters to register, having abolished advanced registration in 1951! As long as you’ve lived in the state for 30 days and have valid ID, you can vote.

To register:

  • Check online, call, or drop by your Board of Elections to request a registration application.
  • The National Voter Registration Act of 1993, also called the Motor Voter Act, made it possible to register when you apply for or renew a driver’s license or at government agencies when applying for public assistance and disability.
  • Find your state election offices at USA.gov, or Google “board of elections” or “election commission” and your county name plus the state (because there are 31 Washington Counties, 26 Jefferson Counties, and 25 Franklin Counties).  
  • Use the master voter registration document at Vote.org, or scroll down on that page to find your state’s voter registration site.

Review your voter registration card and keep it safe

Voter registration cards show your voting precinct (which determines where you vote) and districts (e.g., Congressional, State Senate and House, school district, county/city district, etc.) for individual campaigns, referenda, and ballot initiatives. 

File your card with your VIP papers, and make a notation on your calendar to bring your card to the polls on Election Day (or on early voting days, if applicable). You may only need your photo ID, but I recommend always taking your voter registration card with you to vote, especially if you registered recently.

SPECIAL CIRCUMSTANCES FOR REGISTERING AND VOTING

If you or someone you know needs assistance with registering to vote and securing a ballot, check the following resources.

College Students

Students should determine whether they will register to vote in their home states or at school. They are likely to be first-time voters and unfamiliar with residency requirements, party registration, absentee ballots, and the election process. These resources will help.

Disabled Voters

Members of the US Military

Overseas and Expat Voters

Are you an American citizen reading Paper Doll from somewhere outside of the U.S.? Howdy! These non-partisan sites can help you register and vote from abroad:

Unhoused voters

CHECK YOUR VOTER REGISTRATION

Perhaps you registered to vote years or decades ago. Even if you wore an “I Like Ike” button, registering to vote once is not enough. Even after you register, there are multiple ways you can fall off the rolls, as Archie Bunker learned years ago!

If you haven’t voted in several election cycles — whether presidential or mid-term elections — your state may remove you from the rolls. 

If you move, even within a state, you have to register in your new location. Update your registration even if you move neighborhoods in the same town, as dividing lines for school and legislative districts are narrowly drawn.

You may be purged from the rolls by accident, such as if you share a name with someone who died, or intentionally as part of partisan disenfranchisement efforts.

Check your voter registration soon, before the deadline for registering in your locale, to ensure that you are able to vote on election day. Contact your local board of elections, or go to https://www.vote.org/am-i-registered-to-vote/ to use the state-by-state lookup.

LOCATE YOUR POLLING PLACE

Your voter registration card should specify your polling place. Alternatively, many boards of elections or election commissions let you safely log in to your registration with information like your name, birthdate, and part of your Social Security number (which they already have on record).

Or, use Vote.org’s Polling Place Locator.

Photo by Elliott Stallion on Unsplash

If you have early voting in your jurisdiction, it may be at a different polling place than the one listed on your registration card. My Election Day polling place is within walking distance of my home; however, to avoid inclement weather or having to rush on a client day, I vote at one of the four early voting locations in my city.

OR, ARRANGE TO VOTE BY MAIL

Voting by mail has become more popular, particularly since COVID, but as with other voting regulations, the rules vary by state. This method, usually referred to as an absentee ballot, reduces crowding at the polls, increases voter participation, and makes it easier for college students, people with disabilities, members of the armed services, travelers, and others to cast their votes.

In eight states (California, Colorado, Hawaii, Nevada, Oregon, Utah, Vermont, and Washington) and the District of Columbia every eligible voter can vote by mail. (And in Colorado and Oregon, all eligible voters are mailed a ballot without even having to request one.) 

Voters in those eight states and DC can generally return ballots through the USPS, in-person at election offices, or in secure drop-boxes. In states that have in-person voting, voters may still opt to vote at the polling place. 

Paul Sableman, CC BY 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons 

But what if you live in the 42 states and 14 territories that don’t run all elections by mail? There, eligible voters must request a ballot.

Some have a “no-excuse” ballot system; request a ballot for any reason. Other states require you submit a “valid excuse,” which might be that you will be out of state for business or out of the country due to work or military service, that you will be hospitalized or otherwise too infirm to vote; some states let everyone over 65 vote by mail. 

The duration of absentee ballot status can vary. In some states, like New York or Georgia, once you request an absentee ballot, you’ll receive one for all elections, whether federal, state, or local, general elections or primaries. In others, voters must request absentee ballots for every single election in which they intend to vote.   

Scroll down on this FindLaw page for a comprehensive list of each state’s requirement for requesting an absentee ballot and voting by mail. Where applicable, it provides a link to each state’s absentee ballot application.

Make sure you’re registered to vote by the applicable deadline, then contact your county’s Board of Elections or your state’s Secretary of State for an absentee ballot.

SECURE THE RIGHT IDENTIFICATION

Your voter registration card proves you registered (at some point) but it can’t be used as ID to vote.

If you live somewhere like Dixville Notch, a tiny New Hampshire polling district of four registered voters, the poll worker is likely your daughter-in-law or third grade teacher who knows you. However, most jurisdictions require you to show some kind of government photo ID, like a driver’s license, state-issued ID card, military or tribal ID, or a passport, and even locations without strict voter ID laws require first-time voters who’ve registered online or by mail to show ID. 

Other states accept non-photo identification with proof of name and address. For example, in Arizona you can bring your Indian Census card; in Kansas, government-issued concealed carry handgun or weapon licenses and government-issued public assistance ID cards are acceptable ID; Virginia allows valid student IDs.

Even states that are strict regarding photo ID have exemptions, such as for those with a religious objection to being photographed, or have impediments to getting an ID (due to indigence or after a natural disaster). Wisconsin has confidential voting for victims of domestic abuse, sexual assault, or stalking.

Check your state’s voter ID laws at your board of elections website or this list from the National Conference of State Legislatures.

Alternatively, use the map at VoterRiders.org and the cursor over your state to see what proof of identification your state requires. States are divided by strict and non-strict photo ID laws, strict and non-strict non-photo ID laws, and states with no specific ID required.

If you have none of the appropriate categories of identification required by your state, you’ll want to  get a state-issued photo ID card. In most cases, this will require presenting a copy of your birth certificate, as explained in How to Replace and Organize 7 Essential Government Documents.

All this aside, if you don’t have your ID, you can generally cast a provisional ballot by signing an affidavit, signing a poll book, and providing biographical information. (You may also cast a provisional ballot if your identity or right to vote is challenged by a poll worker or election official, or if your name is not on the poll or registration list on Election Day.)

MAKE A PLAN FOR WHEN AND HOW YOU WILL VOTE

Very little gets done unless you organize your schedule to do it. 

Think of voting the way you might think of leaving on a trip. Normally, you might get in your car, drive to the airport, park, and fly. Or perhaps you arrange to have a friend drive you. But if you wait until the last minute and you have a dead battery or flat tire, or your friend’s child has the flu but no baby sitter, you’d have to scramble to figure out whether you’d call another friend, get a rideshare, or find some other solution.

Voting is not time-specific, but it’s day-specific, and the lines in some precincts can be as long as those for TSA. And if you were planning to vote after work, but you got delayed by weather or traffic, you might be cutting it close. 

When and how will you vote?

Look at your schedule and figure out:

  • Will you vote by mail? How will you remember to get your ballot in the mail or to a drop-box by deadline?
  • Will you vote early? What day? How will you accommodate your schedule and remind yourself to go? At which early voting polling place can you vote?
  • If you’re voting on Election Day, what time will you go and how will you get there? 

Borrow some accountability and vote with a friend. Arrange to vote together (early or on Election Day) or even drop your mail-in votes at a drop-box together, then celebrate your right to vote with an ice cream, adult beverage, or meal.

How will you get to the polls?

If you’re going to the polls in person, either on Election Day or when voting early, plan how you’ll get there, and create a backup plan in case something goes awry.

If you are able, offer rides to those who may lack transportation or the physical ability to get to the polls on their own.

If you need help getting to the polls: 

  • Ask friends or neighbors how they are voting and see if you can ride with them.
  • Ask if your house of worship is transporting congregants to the polls for early voting.
  • Get free rides to vote early via Lime, as well as access to free scooters and e-bikes through Vote Early Day.
  • Check to see if your locality offers free public transportation via bus or rail on Election Day.
  • Call your public library or your state’s League of Women Voters to find out what assistance is available locally to help voters get to the polls.
  • Ride Lyft, partnering with Levi Strauss & Co. and Showtime/MTV, to providing discounted rides to the polls.

RESEARCH THE BALLOT

Democracy cannot succeed unless those who express their choice are prepared to choose wisely. The real safeguard of democracy, therefore, is education.

~Franklin D. Roosevelt

You may be able to log into your board of elections or election commission site to see a sample ballot prior to any local, primary, or general election. Alternatively, use:

Then, evaluate candidate and party web sites, read news articles, and ask the opinion of people you respect.

PROTECT YOUR RIGHTS

We don’t want seven-year-olds or random Peruvians or visitors from Alpha Centauri to pick our city councilperson or mayor, but we do (or at least should) want everyone citizen to be able to exercise the right to vote without fear of threats or violence, or even ignorance on the part of un untrained person.

I mean, how often have we heard about the airport employee who insists that people with driver’s licenses from New Mexico or the District of Columbia need to show passports because they don’t know these places are in the United States?

If you are in line when the polling hours close, stay in line. By law, as long as you are in line, you are guaranteed the right to vote.

If you are threatened with violence or otherwise experience or observe intimidation:

If you are denied the right to vote:

  • Give a sworn statement to a poll worker that you satisfy the qualifications to vote in your state, and then proceed to cast a ballot (or provisional ballot).

APPRECIATE HOW YOU GOT THE RIGHT TO VOTE

Over the centuries, many have fought to secure and protect your right to vote. The following three videos from U.S. Capitol Historical Society explain the evolution of the Constitutional amendments that secured that right. 

Not only is Tuesday, September 17, 2024 National Voter Registration Day, but it’s also Constitution Day. What better way to celebrate than to make sure you’re organized and registered to vote. 

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