Paper Doll Responds When They Say “Be Our Guest”

Posted on: October 17th, 2022 by Julie Bestry | 16 Comments

The theme of this week’s post has become somewhat bittersweet since the I originally conceived it. On Tuesday, October 11, 2022, Dame Angela Lansbury passed away at the age of 96. Depending on your age and tastes, you may know Lansbury from various points in her eighty-year career.

If you’re a cinephile, you may know her from films from her earliest role in Gaslight and in the 1940s to The Manchurian Candidate in the 1960s and Bedknobs and Broomsticks in the 1970s, to Anastasia, Mary Poppins Returns and the Knives Out sequel, which hasn’t even been released yet!

If you’re a fan of Broadway, you could have caught her in anything from Stephen Sondheim’s early Anyone Can Whistle to the title role in Auntie Mame to the distasteful pie-baking Mrs. Lovett  in Sweeney Todd: The Demon Barber of Fleet StreetAnd, if you watched television in the 1980s, 1990s, or 2000s, then you probably knew her best as Jessica Fletcher from Murder, She Wrote.

However, if you’ve been a kid or a parent or a baby sitter any time since 1991, then you will recall Lansbury voicing Mrs. Potts (alongside Jerry Orbach’s Lumière) in the classic animated Disney production of Beauty and the Beast. And if you’re wondering what any of this has to do with organizing, here’s a hint:

Perhaps this post’s theme might seem less shoehorned in (if less palatable) if I could sing it to you. But recently, I was asked to serve as a guest and offer advice and information on three disparate topics: productivity, technology, and paper, and I’d like the opportunity to share this material with you.

THE CHATTANOOGA TIMES FREE PRESS EDGE MAGAZINE

On October 20, 2002, almost twenty years ago, in Professional Organizers Are A Growing Trend, I was profiled in the Chattanooga Times Free Press for the first time. Over the years, I’ve been delighted to be interviewed, right up through March 2021, when I was profiled in the newspaper’s Edge, a business-themed magazine.

However, I was particularly giddy when Jennifer McNally, the new editor of Edge asked me to write the October Business Acumen column in an issue devoted to staying productive. While the issue is geared toward professionals and business owners in the Chattanooga region, I think you’ll find it informative and appealing, no matter where you reside or what you do.

You can read the entire October issue of the Edge — my column spans pages 24 and 25, but other columns range from How to Own Failure (and Still Preserve Your Reputation) to the Take It From the Top series with advice from Chattanooga leaders on issues ranging from tracking goals, focus, and discipline to allocating time strategically and anticipating challenges.


You can also head directly to my guest Business Acumen column, An Expert’s Secrets to Stress-Free Productivity on the newspaper’s site. To give you a taste, it starts with:

Do you feel like life is more demanding than ever, and that effective productivity is hard to achieve? Workdays (and too often, nights) are packed with back-to-back meetings and Zoom calls, Slack notifications and email alerts. Productivity can be elusive.

Maybe you feel like you’re doing more but accomplishing less that rewards you. Increasingly, we’re seeing toxic productivity, where pressure to meet unrealistic expectations zaps physical and mental energy, damaging motivation and self-esteem. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

In the column, I share my strategies for conquering overwhelm by identifying your priorities, protecting your focus, creating flow, and conquering procrastination. I encourage you to take a peek and let me know what you think.

THE STREAMLINED CONNECTION 

A particularly charming guest experience was getting to be on my friend and colleague Miriam Ortiz Y Pino‘s video podcast, The Streamlined Connection.

Miriam is a Certified Professional Organizer and Money Breakthrough Business Coach. Her company is More Than Organized, and she’s a firecracker! Like me, she’s been at this for more than two decades, and Miriam’s got an amazing way of creating transformation.

Miriam offers one-on-one in-person and virtual services including organizing, business coaching, speaking, and training in a variety of areas (including the fascinating topic of Sacred Money Archetypes). Miriam also delivers Streamlined Solutions courses for tackling clutter, time troubles, and paper, and live and virtual group workshops for professionals. 

It’s an absolute trip to talk to Miriam, because every conversation yields insight. So, I was tickled to be the first guest on her show

As a Paper Doll reader, you will not be surprised that, when given the opportunity to talk about organizing, I chose my favorite topic, paper. However, unlike when I talked about the philosophical aspects of Why Paper Still Matters on the NAPO podcast earlier this summer, Miriam and I went in a different direction.

On Organizing Paper with Julie Bestry: Paper FEAR and Tickles, we explored the nitty gritty of the frustrations of different types of paper clutter, and how strategically considering both fear and tickles can help you dig out from under

Miriam has since had some organizing and productivity industry rock stars as guests, including Amy Payne, Regina Lark, Geralin Thomas, Mike Vardy, Leslie Josel, Robyn Reynolds, and Nietra Rose! (Seriously, check it out!)

ORGANIZED ASSISTANT

The amazing (and Canadian) Janet Barclay has graced Paper Doll‘s pages many times over the years. I’ve known Janet since the days before modern social media, when we were both getting the hang of things on Ryze.com. (Don’t go visit; it’s all spam now. Sigh.)

Although Janet started out as a professional organizer and productivity consultant, she eventually found and perfected her niche in supporting organizing professionals. She works her magic as a “website caregiver and designer,” which means she helps people keep their online identities afloat so we can focus on our own clients. She rocks that way.  

But Janet rocks another way, as one of the biggest cheerleaders of the organizing and productivity profession. Her Organized Assistant web site is home to blog posts and articles that provide a broad perspective for those of us who work in the field, but she also created the Productivity and Organizing Blog Carnival for the reading public, collecting monthly themed posts on categories ranging from organizing junk drawers to efficiency in the workplace to organizing when a member of the family is ill.

I’m proud to say that I’m one of Janet’s Megastar Blogggers, having contributed to more than 50 monthly carnivals, and am joined by my fancy-pants colleagues Hazel Thornton, Linda Samuels, Sabrina Quairoli, and Seana Turner

 Productivity & Organizing Blog CarnivalIn the spring, I referenced having recertified as an Evernote Certified Expert. As I often talk about the reasons I love and use Evernote, Janet asked if I’d like to share the certification process with her readers, and I was only too excited to do so. 

As an Evernote user, it was easy to pull together my resources for the guest post. I had notes from my original certification as an Evernote Certified Business Consultant in 2015, then as an Evernote Certified Consultant a few years later, and now under the current program, an Evernote Certified Expert. Evernote’s so-powerful-it’s-spooky search capacity found everything I needed to write Adventures in Becoming an Evernote Certified Expert. (This also means I had no excuse for procrastinating on actually writing it!)

Hopefully, you’ll be entertained as you learn about my experience getting certified, and it may encourage you to get certified, use the skills and support of an Evernote Certified Expert, or just learn more about Evernote in its newest incarnation as so much more than just a note-taking app.

Writing this, I’m shocked to realize it’s been nine years since I’ve written an entire post about Evernote. It’s a completely different platform now, with so many more features and opportunities to organize your digital life. So, don’t be surprised to see more Paper Doll posts in the future regarding how you can use Evernote to be more organized and productive.

BE YOUR GUEST?

As much as I love working with my in-person and virtual clients, giving presentations, and writing this blog, it’s even more fun when I get to share a (digital) stage or blog space. As I’ve reported, throughout 2022 I’ve been on a variety of podcasts and have guested at various summits, about which you can read more:

Paper Doll on the NAPO Stand Out Podcast: Why Paper Still Matters 

Paper Doll Picks: Organizing and Productivity Podcasts

Paper Doll on Planning & Prioritizing for Leadership

Paper Doll Shares Secrets from the Task Management & Time Blocking Summit 2022

Not enough Paper Doll for you? You can also check out my Press Room page for more links to interviews and guest spots.

If you have a podcast, summit, or blog for which you might like to interview me on topics related to paper and information organizing or productivity, please feel free to use the Contact page on my site to let me know how we might work together.

ONE LAST LOOK AT MRS. POTTS & LUMIÈRE

Paper Doll cannot live by organizing alone, and I hope that as my guests, you take some delight in the pop culture cameos that have populated this blog since 2007.

Whether solving crimes as Jessica Fletcher or making the worst pies in London as Mrs. Lovett, or getting nominated for Academy Awards, Tony Awards, Golden Globes, or Emmy or Grammy Awards, Angela Lansbury was beloved. And as Lumière to her Mrs. Potts, Jerry Orbach (Law & Order‘s Lennie Briscoe, Baby’s father in Dirty Dancing, and in oodles of other roles on stage and screen) was no slouch, either. With that, I’d like to close today’s post with this behind-the-scenes view of how they put together “Be Our Guest.”

Thank you for being my guest at the Paper Doll blog, and thank you for letting me be a guest on your computer and mobile devices all these years.

16 Responses

  1. Oh, Julie! What wonderful energy you’ve put out in the world. So many podcasts, articles, guest posts, and more. And I’m so happy to be a Megastar Blogger along with our pals Seana, Sabrina, and Hazel. Thank you for the shout out.

    I seem to recall you writing a post early pandemic about not doing enough. But clearly, that was a brief brain cramp and you have been rockin’ it, my friend!

    As one of the parents of 90’s kids, we watched Disney’s “Beauty and the Beast” I don’t know how many times (possibly uncountable!) And what a joy it was to see/hear the video clip you shared of the beloved Angela Lansbury recording “Be Our Guest.” Hearing the music brought back so many happy memories of watching with the kids snuggled together on the couch or dancing to the music. Allison (our oldest) used to pretend she was Belle and would act out the movie as it played.

    • Julie Bestry says:

      Linda, I took a page from Shonda Rhimes and made 2022 my Year of Yes. (My Mastermind group members thought that was my 2021 motto, but now I’m not sure!) I said yes to anything that didn’t put me at risk of COVID, even some projects that made me nervous (like presenting with slides and making videos.) One might still say I didn’t make enough of the *right* content during the pandemic (no book? no course?) but I said yes to the opportunities that others presented to me. I guess I’m what Gretchen Rubin would call an Obliger, eh?

      I’m glad this brought back happy memories for you of *your* Belle.

  2. You’ve been everywhere lately, Julie, and good for you! You are the consummate guest, and the perfect addition to anyone’s blog, podcast, summit, or social media feed.

    • Julie Bestry says:

      Awwwww, I’m blushing, Hazel. We all have our directions. You’ve been publishing, I’ve been guesting (and hey, you’ve been a guest in a lot of places lately, too!) so I guess it’s all going according to plan. Thanks for your kind words, and as always, your fabulosity!

  3. As productivity specialists, we often advise our clients to say “No” more often. I love this homage to saying “Yes.” You never know where a Yes will take you. For you, oh wise one, it leads to a wealth of knowledge sharing. You are as generous as you are brilliant.

    • Julie Bestry says:

      This was the year I took Shonda Rhimes “Year of Yes” to heart, and though there were moments of angst, I’m really glad I’ve done all of this. (What was that you taught me, about the radical trust in the perfect unfolding of my life?) Thank you for your kind words!

  4. WOW! Congratulations, Julie. This is wonderful. I always enjoy your blog.

    I was sad to hear that Angela Lansbury passed last week. =( I was a fan of hers when I was growing up. She had a lovely and long life. RIP.

    • Julie Bestry says:

      96 is a long life, but somehow, for some people, it seems to us that it’s still not enough. We never got tired of telling Dame Angela to “be our guest.”

      Thanks for reading, Sabrina!

  5. Seana Turner says:

    Wow, you have been busy girl! What a testament to your wisdom to be invited to “appear” in so many places. I always learn from you, so keep doing it!

    Yes, I’m a huge Angela Lansbury fan. I saw her in Gaslight, and not only was she terrific, but the whole premise revealed what can (and still does) happen to people. Beauty and the Beast is my favorite Disney movie, so I really enjoyed watching the clip. Thanks for sharing it all. 🙂

    • Julie Bestry says:

      Heh, you are so right about Gaslight. That was her first role, and though I could have talked about National Velvet from that same year, I agree that it’s important for people to know where the term comes from. And I have been busy — this was my “Year of Yes,” having taken a page from Shonda Rhimes. But I like to think of these things as less about me appearing than my advice appearing; it’s all about getting the word out about organizing and productivity!

  6. Julie, what a fabulous post. I’m thrilled for you with all the guest posts you’ve contributed to!

    I admit, I watched the video you shared at the end. I’m a huge Angela Lansbury fan. I loved everything she was a part of – she was a true star and will live forever in all she created.

    • Julie Bestry says:

      Wasn’t that a nifty video? There was another video with more material, that also included more Jerry Orbach, but it was from a documentary piece with someone speaking over the performances, and let’s face it, all we want is the singing!

      Thanks for allowing me to be a guest on your reading screens!

  7. leslie josel says:

    Can we all just bask in the glow that is you, Julie. You give so much to so many that it’s your turn for us to congratulate you on all of the riches.

    I could read you forever and ever. And not to mention, I love me some Angela Lansbury. Sending you many congrats.

    xo leslie

    • Julie Bestry says:

      The glow that is moi! That sounds like something a character from Beauty & the Beast might say, but I suspect it’s Gaston! 😉

      Thank you for reading and for all your sweet, kind words. Crunch all you want; I’ll make more!

  8. Julie, I didn’t realize you were so in demand – Now I’m even more honored that you made time to write for my blog. Congratulations and keep up the great work!

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