Toxic Productivity, Part 4: Find the Flip Side of Productivity Hacks
Posted on: July 4th, 2022by Julie Bestry |
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If you reside in the United States or Canada, you’re coming off the end of a long holiday weekend, an opportunity to rest, relax, and regenerate.
Do you feel relaxed? Or do you feel the itch to be accomplishing something on your to-do list? Do you feel that whatever you got done last week might not quite be enough, and that by taking an actual weekend off — not just two whole weekend days, but an extra holiday — you’re coasting? Cheating? If so, you definitely won’t be the only one.
PREVIOUSLY ON PAPER DOLL…
Throughout this series on toxic productivity, we’ve looked at what society can do to vanquish unsustainable expectations, how we can change our outlook and mindset, and what we can physically do to loosen the ropes with which we’ve bound ourselves. Before we go any further, I encourage you to catch up on the concepts and references we’ve looked at so far:
We can lobby for changes in societal expectations regarding excessive corporate demands on our productivity. We can read wisdom (and get therapy) to examine how we’ve internalized toxic belief systems and developed, as Anna Codrea-Rado calls it, productivity dysmorphia.
We can even recognize the finitude, or shortness, of life, and get off the hamster wheel by adding mindfulness and rest (in terms of non-competitive exercise) and more recuperative sleep, eliminating multitasking, and digging deeply to figure out what we want out of life and who we are.
But if none of that floats your boat, even if I’ve convinced you that toxic productivity is a danger to you, your loved ones, and society, these measures may just be too hard to incorporate in the life you’re already living. Trust me, I get it.
USING THE PRODUCTIVITY HACKS YOU KNOW AND LOVE
So, today, we’re going to look at the same productivity strategies, tactics, and “hacks” that are recommended to conquer lack of productivity — whether that’s a problem with procrastination, prioritization, or planning —and see if we can find ways to use them to stem the tide of toxic productivity.
Start At the Atomic Level
In James Clear‘s Atomic Habits, he posits that all of our outcomes — our productivity (for good or ill), our self-care, our financial state — are a “lagging result” of our habits. In other words, there’s a cumulative effect of what we do that, when repeated over and over, leads to where we’ve arrived.
To achieve what we want, Clear believes that we generally either try to change our habits in the wrong way, or we try to change the wrong things. Clear notes that we approach things in three ways:
We try to change our outcomes (achieve more work, make more money, lose a certain amount of weight).
We try to change our habits.
We try to change our identities — including our belief systems, our views of the world, and our self-images.
Heady stuff. But it doesn’t work.
Clear’s approach is to flip the order and the magnitude of these strategies, and start by building identity-based habits, focusing on who we aspire to be (the non-smoker, the half-marathon runner, the person who can feel proud of their work output without working ourselves to death), and making itty-bitty, teeny-weeny changes at the atomic level (think of atoms, or even sub-atomic particles, not atomic as in “big boom bomb”).
To Clear’s mind, starting with these small steps helps you make the leap from “I’m the kind of person who wants be X” to “I am the kind of person who does X” to “I’m the type of person who is X.” (No, unfortunately, it will not help make Paper Doll a ballerina.)
That research focused on four stages: Cue, Craving, Response, and Reward. From a toxic productivity perspective, the cue may be some kind of request in our inbox or voicemail, or even seeing what one of our colleagues is doing, and feeling like we have to learn to emulate that behavior.
That feeling of “Ooooh, my successful colleague just started a YouTube channel and is getting all of this attention. I want to feel respected and admired, so I need to add videos to my repertoire of what I deliver to the world.”
The response in this case might be you buying video equipment, writing scripts, and pushing yourself beyond your capacity to start developing these videos, and the reward might be the sense of achievement of having completed it. You’ve satisfied that craving! Yay!
Wait, yay? Are you sure?
Rewards are supposed to teach us which cues and cravings will make us feel good. But remember what we said a few weeks ago about the hedonic treadmill, how you get used to a certain level of productivity and thus no longer feel any level of excitement or satisfaction? Time after time, your automatic process of building your habits may be contributing to your sense of productivity dysmorphia!
So, how can we use Clear’s ideas to help us create better habits that will separate ourselves from toxic productivity? Clear’s book is too packed with wisdom for me to cover its value in a blog post, but here are two methods to try, based on his teachings. His guidance is in bold type.
To embrace healthier habits that will get you away from the cues to keep working:
Make It Obvious — If you want to get in the habit of taking a walking break at lunch, put your lunch bag (or wallet) on top of your walking shoes.
Make It Attractive — Arrange to take a yoga class or go for an adult beverage (or ice cream, or an afternoon tea) with a good friend. Make taking a break social to remind you of when your life was fun. Then do fun stuff!
Make It Easy — Block time on your schedule for non-work things so nobody can steal your self-care by making a Calendly request for time that isn’t available. That person will never know that you’re not in some other “productive” meeting.
Make It Satisfying — Make those get-off-the-hamster-wheel experiences delightful; if you’re an introvert, don’t schedule social things that will steal your energy, and if you’re a hiker, don’t book a yoga class because it seems socially preferable. You do you, boo!
To break your bad (toxic) productivity habits and get off that hamster wheel of constantly feeling like your value depends on your output:
Make It Invisible — To reduce your exposure so you don’t experience the cues to constantly feel like you’re not doing enough, reduce your attention to requests when you don’t need to deal with them. Turn off your notifications unless you’re waiting for a particular response. Stop checking your email every 15 minutes; check it in the morning, right after lunch, and about an hour before the end of the day. Otherwise, focus on your priorities, not other people’s.
Yep, this is the same advice I’d give you if I were encouraging you to be more productive; the point isn’t to be less productive, per se, but to feel less driven by those cues to feel like your value equals your productivity!
Make It Unattractive — The point here is to re-adjust your mindset (as we discussed in the second post in this series). You want to accent the benefits and importance of avoiding the bad habits (of working through lunch, checking email when your kid is talking to you, etc.). Maybe a photo posting your last blood pressure test or the lyrics to Cats In the Cradle will remind you of what hyperfocusing on productivity costs you. (Wait, you don’t know that song? Grab a tissue!)
Make It Difficult — This is about increasing friction so it’s harder to work long hours and feel obligated to keep going when you’re completely wrung out. Set your computer to turn off every day at 5 (or 6 p.m., or 4:30 p.m.). Delete one-third to one-half of the available time slots from your appointment scheduling software. Prioritize yourself on the schedule (and see the time-blocking section, below).
Make It Unsatisfying — You know what makes you tick. Would the social cringe of failing to knock off work and go home (after you’d promised to do so) do the trick? For good or ill, the fear of disappointing your spouse might not be enough, but support from an accountability partner, someone without the guarantee of unconditional love? Could work!
Normally, we’d use accountability to get us working, but sometimes, having a body-double for the “last hour” of the day will ensure we shut down when we need to. If that’s the case for you, reread Count on Accountability: 5 Productivity Support Solutions for some key ways to get help honoring your goal to respect yourself, your time, and your value.
Two P’s Against One: Conquer Toxic Productivity With the Pareto Principle and the Pomodoro Technique
There are two popular strategies in the productivity realm we experts apply to help people not only achieve more, but more of the right thing. Sneakily, these two concepts can also help you get off that hedonic treadmill.
Let’s start with the Pareto Principle, which you might know as the 80/20 Rule. It comes from a theory of economics that says that 80% of outcomes come from 20% of causes, and it’s been found that 80% of successes come from 20% of efforts or sources. This is one of those weird concepts that while not always perfectly true, is surprisingly accurate.
Freelancers will find that 80% of their money comes from 20% of their client base. All those toys your kids are actually playing with (and the apps on your phone that you actually use)? About 20% of them are what’s yielding the most activity.
Use the Pareto Principle to figure out what of the work you’re doing is actually the vital work. The deep work (in the words of Cal Newport). The meaningful work. The work that appears in the Eisenhower Matrix’s “important and urgent” quadrant!
Look at your list of everything you accomplished today. Wait, you don’t know what you did?
You probably added “done” things to the to-do things so you could cross them off. But if not, look at your outbound emails, your calendar, your “recent documents” and “recent spreadsheets.” Going forward, you might track your time with an analog list on paper or software like Toggl or Rescue Time.
Look at everything you’re doing and measure the value — is it financially remunerative (does it pay?!), is it helping you grow professionally or personally, is it emotionally rewarding? It’s very likely you’ll find that the vast majority of your work’s value is coming from 20% (OK, or even 30% or 40%) of your output.
Use the Pareto Principle to give yourself permission (there’s another P-word!) to stop doing everything! With luck, you’ll be able to appreciate all that you have accomplished, focus less on what you didn’t complete, and eliminate a bit more of that productivity dysmorphia.
This is another tactic we productivity gurus use to help clients get their butts in the chair; to conquer inertia, we encourage someone try just five minutes (on the treadmill, writing a blog post, studying a chapter), and more often than not, this is enough to get someone over the hump and keep the mojo going.
However, the Pomodoro Technique also works to dissipate toxic productivity because breaks are built in. In usual circumstances, the Pomodoro-er is thinking, “Sigh, OK, I have to do this. But in 25 minutes I get to take a break.” To the person who struggles to let go of their sense of worthiness being tied to their output, being forced to take a break is a real eye-opener! Permission to stop working is one thing; being required to stop is a much bigger deal!
Usually, when we discuss time blocking, we’re trying to fit as much into our limited, valuable, time as possible, to make sure we create homes for all the work that’s necessary to do. But we’ve already established that not everything we’re doing is of equal value.
When we want to circumvent toxic productivity, reduce busy-ness in favorite of doing our most important work, and get a hearty mix of what we discussed back in the second week, we need to think about our brains!
In that post, I explained that using our central executive network (think: executive function, not CEOs), or task-positive brain network, activates to help us use our memories of previously-acquired information to comprehend new information, focus our attention, come up with solutions, and make decisions.
But our brains also need to operate in the default mode network — it’s what your brain is thinking about when nobody’s expecting anything from you.
What does that have to do with time blocking? Simple — block time to do all those things we talked about in Toxic Productivity Part 3: Get Off the To-Do List Hamster Wheel that turn active the brain off for a little while. Just blocking your time, without considering downtime, will let you get a lot done, maybe even the right stuff done, but it won’t reduce that drive to be “always on.”
When you block your time, “create” is going to be anything that achieves that deep work, that 20ish% of effort to yield the 80ish% of success. Allcott says, “When I’m in Create mode, my mindset is disciplined, closed and distraction-free.”
“Collaborate” is as you’d guess, all of those meetings and calls and emails, those Zooms and those moments you’re in shared documents. And it’s the collaboration (whether anticipated or unanticipated) that often steals the time we need to spend on the other two C’s.
And, obviously, “chill” is about engaging the default mode network by disengaging from the task-positive brain network.
When you put together your time blocks, be sure to consider all three elements. Balancing your creative and collaborative time with your chilling time will help your step off the hamster wheel and live a healthier, more fulfilled, and less toxic life.
— Sarah Arnold-Hall (@saraharnoldhall) April 6, 2022
Give yourself a break. Give yourself some grace. Give yourself a more organized space, more planning time on the calendar, and more opportunities to “win” by not expecting so damned much of yourself.
With so much to consider regarding toxic productivity, there’s actually one more post to round out the series. We’ll be looking at how tools, whether analog or digital, can help or hinder us as we seek to reduce the toxicity of our productivity. And then we’ll close with a little philosophizing and sum up all we’ve discussed.
Until then, I hope you’ve found some of this helpful to reduce any of the unwelcome stress you may feel as you approach the second half of this year.
I love the way you describe Clear’s theory and ideas in ‘Atomic Habits.’ It’s one of my favorite books, along with Duhigg’s.
But what is coming through this piece the loudest is the message about NOT always working and NOT feeling guilty for taking time to stop. From a different perspective based on upping your motivation when feeling overwhelmed, I had similar thoughts on my mind.
That stepping away to engage in fun, calm, not-work things is essential. It IS the big secret to productivity. But even more, it’s the secret to living a full, satisfying life. We only go around once. So it’s not just about producing. It’s about enjoying. As you so beautifully encouraged, “Give yourself a break. Give yourself some grace…and more opportunities to ‘win’ by not expecting so damned much of yourself.”
Message heard and received. Thank you, my friend.
One last thing. Happy 4th! I hope you are enjoying and playing and having a grand time today.
Thank you for your kind words, Linda, and I know we are on the same page regarding the importance of (as you, and Anne Lamott, put it), unplugging. It’s so important for us to remember that our value is in who we are, not what we produce or deliver.
Oh yes. I’m challenged with relaxing over a weekend. One thing I do is look at my calendar for the coming week. What I usually see is a full schedule and that helps me remind myself that I need to recharge so I have the energy to complete everything in the coming week.
Great thoughts, Julie. I haven’t read Charles Duhigg’s book yet (on my list of books to buy and read) but I am a big James Clear fan and find his ideas truly actionable. I really like that you’re talking about the ways in which to use our desire to be productive not only in work but also in play. Our lives need balance (such a topic a few years ago). I believe that all this working from home has thrown the idea of balance between work and home out the window. Hmmm. Thank you, Julie, for continuing this great conversation.
Duhigg’s book is meaty; I suggest reading in small chunks and then stopping to think about and discuss it. It’s definitely suitable for book club reading and discussion. And yes, I love Clear’s writing and approach.
Thank you for reading and for being so supportive, Diane!
I remember discussing toxic productivity with my daughter when she was in high school. She was somewhat addicted to perfect grades, at the cost of everything else.
She said one of the struggles was that the only feedback she got for this behavior was praise. It wasn’t like she demonstrated a physical weakness or overt struggle. It seemed like “the system” endorsed this approach to high school.
But life is a marathon, and it will be a much better run if we nourish our souls. As you say, for those for whom this is a struggle, make productivity less attractive. Good stuff!
Wow, Seana, that’s powerful. But the fact that she’s discussed this with you means she’ll be much more aware of the danger signs as she gets older. And I know you’re guiding her with wisdom.
Thanks for reading, and it WOULD make an interesting book, but I have to assume an actual journalist or social scientist is writing the analytical part.
You know me, I’m such a completist. Could I write something that was predominantly action-oriented for self-care against the problem and not delve too deeply into the social science? Time will tell!
I love the way you describe Clear’s theory and ideas in ‘Atomic Habits.’ It’s one of my favorite books, along with Duhigg’s.
But what is coming through this piece the loudest is the message about NOT always working and NOT feeling guilty for taking time to stop. From a different perspective based on upping your motivation when feeling overwhelmed, I had similar thoughts on my mind.
That stepping away to engage in fun, calm, not-work things is essential. It IS the big secret to productivity. But even more, it’s the secret to living a full, satisfying life. We only go around once. So it’s not just about producing. It’s about enjoying. As you so beautifully encouraged, “Give yourself a break. Give yourself some grace…and more opportunities to ‘win’ by not expecting so damned much of yourself.”
Message heard and received. Thank you, my friend.
One last thing. Happy 4th! I hope you are enjoying and playing and having a grand time today.
Thank you for your kind words, Linda, and I know we are on the same page regarding the importance of (as you, and Anne Lamott, put it), unplugging. It’s so important for us to remember that our value is in who we are, not what we produce or deliver.
I always appreciate your thoughts!
Oh yes. I’m challenged with relaxing over a weekend. One thing I do is look at my calendar for the coming week. What I usually see is a full schedule and that helps me remind myself that I need to recharge so I have the energy to complete everything in the coming week.
What a great way to use your planning skills to make sure that your life includes recharging time!
Thanks for reading!
Great thoughts, Julie. I haven’t read Charles Duhigg’s book yet (on my list of books to buy and read) but I am a big James Clear fan and find his ideas truly actionable. I really like that you’re talking about the ways in which to use our desire to be productive not only in work but also in play. Our lives need balance (such a topic a few years ago). I believe that all this working from home has thrown the idea of balance between work and home out the window. Hmmm. Thank you, Julie, for continuing this great conversation.
Duhigg’s book is meaty; I suggest reading in small chunks and then stopping to think about and discuss it. It’s definitely suitable for book club reading and discussion. And yes, I love Clear’s writing and approach.
Thank you for reading and for being so supportive, Diane!
I remember discussing toxic productivity with my daughter when she was in high school. She was somewhat addicted to perfect grades, at the cost of everything else.
She said one of the struggles was that the only feedback she got for this behavior was praise. It wasn’t like she demonstrated a physical weakness or overt struggle. It seemed like “the system” endorsed this approach to high school.
But life is a marathon, and it will be a much better run if we nourish our souls. As you say, for those for whom this is a struggle, make productivity less attractive. Good stuff!
Wow, Seana, that’s powerful. But the fact that she’s discussed this with you means she’ll be much more aware of the danger signs as she gets older. And I know you’re guiding her with wisdom.
Thank you for reading and sharing!
I was on vacation when you published this, so I missed it – I guess that proves I wasn’t thinking about work and blogging, right?
Lots of valuable information here – it could almost be a book!
Thanks for reading, and it WOULD make an interesting book, but I have to assume an actual journalist or social scientist is writing the analytical part.
You know me, I’m such a completist. Could I write something that was predominantly action-oriented for self-care against the problem and not delve too deeply into the social science? Time will tell!