12 Ways to Organize Your Life to Read More — Part 1 (When, Where, What, With Whom)
Read any good books lately?
- Does the longest book you’ve read lately end with “Goodnight stars. Goodnight air. Goodnight noises everywhere?”
- Are you being mocked mercilessly by a pile of unread books on your bedside table?
- Maybe you’d like to read that popular novel before it becomes an HBO series?
Paper Doll gets it. Even for the heartiest of readers, there are seasons of life, and in some of those seasons, we aren’t reading. Sometimes, parenthood, work, or a chaotic life gets in the way. Sometimes, there’s a global pandemic giving us all the time to read we could ever want, but we just lack the motivation. (Hey, at least we’re not Burgess Meredith in the saddest episode ever of the Twilight Zone!)
We’ve covered organizing for reading time before, in 12 Tips for Organizing Your Reading Time and Organizing Your Reading Space for More Reading Time. But the world seems like it’s changed quite a bit since 2014, and it’s time to look at some new ways to make your life more reading-friendly.
10 WAYS TO ORGANIZE YOUR LIFE TO READ MORE
1) Gather your TBR collection.
TBR, or “to be read,” may have been a popular acronym previously, but I only learned of it when I started reading the Modern Mrs. Darcy blog. Early on in the quarantine, I had a surprise UPS delivery. My best friend had sent me a bookshelf from my favorite line, Origami Rack. The one she sent me is currently unavailable, but it looks like this…except mine is filled with books, with a corner of the top shelf given over to colorful Post-It® stacks and USB drives.
I was so delighted by the bookshelf, I rearranged my office space so that the bookshelf was to my right (appearing prominently in the hundreds of Zoom meetings I was about to have, dramatically improving the aesthetics of my space). I then went through every nook and cranny of my home, collecting every book I had not yet read, and I was shocked at how many unread titles I found:
- 8 novels
- 7 books about reading books
- 6 books about freelance writing
- 9 books about Jane Austen
- 5 books about diabetes
- 4 books about organizing and productivity
- 3 business books, 2 books about the history of Cornell University, and Lin-Manuel Miranda’s GMorning, Gnight! Little Pep Talks for Me and You, which doesn’t really fit any category.
Honestly, I knew I had quite a few unread books, but anticipated they might all fit on one shelf. Having them all in one place, and arranging them by category, made it easier to pick something when the inspiration struck. There are only two novels left, and I’m working my way through the other titles.
Your TBR shelf may just be half a shelf, or your bedside table, or a small square of counterspace. But bringing all of your to-be-read titles together gives you a starting point.
2) Schedule your reading time.
Early during the pandemic, Mike Vardy, The Productivityist, made a short video detailing how to create a good morning routine. When he talked about having 30 minutes of reading time during and after breakfast, it caught my attention.
I have natural points in my day when I might gravitate toward pulling a book off the shelf, usually at the end of the afternoon when I’ve finished my work but am not ready for dinner. Other people naturally read before bed or on their commutes (whether traditional reading on public transportation or listening to audiobooks while driving or riding). These tend to be defaults, times when they’re unlikely to do anything else.
But Mike, like many successful readers, has a firmly-set block in his schedule. He gets up, has breakfast, and reads before any of the chaos of the day can seep in and derail him. He reads before he’s checked email, or made phone calls.
If you’re afraid you’ll get too involved in your book and miss appointments or obligations, set an alarm on your computer, phone, or watch. See if a friend or colleague would like to read at the same time! You could arrange a five-minute phone or text conversation to connect after your reading block to talk about what you’ve read. You’re far less likely to tell yourself “one more chapter…” if you know someone is waiting.
Scheduling a reading block each day doesn’t eliminate the serendipity of coming across some quiet moments where you can hug a book to your chest and get lost in a story. It just means you’re guaranteed some time in your day and space in your schedule for delighting in the written word.
3) Create physical space for reading.
Carving out time for reading is only part of the story. Do you have a place to read? I mean, in theory, you can read anywhere except the shower. I’ve been known to hold my hair dryer in one hand an a good book in another, and I have friends who read in the kitchen while they stir. (Important PSA: Don’t chop and read!)
For some of us, any chair, bed, or square of floorspace will do. If you love to read but avoid reading, you may need a reading nook that’s more conducive to your physical needs. A comfy chair situated outside of the traffic patterns of your house, natural light (or a good reading lamp), a cozy blanket, a small table to hold your phone, beverage, and glasses – doesn’t the idea of this space feel compelling?
Consider employing a currently-unused space for your reading nook, like the corner of your guest room or some open space at the top of your stairs. Basically, if there’s an area in your home that doesn’t require you to move things around to vacuum, that’s a potential reading nook.
4) Replace a habit with reading.
Nancy Haworth, a friend and colleague in my mastermind group (a small group for accountability) shared the following as one of her monthly goals: “Focus on reading books more, rather than getting sucked into social media and news online.”
For the past two months, she’s been reporting what she’s read and how much progress she’s made, both on avoiding the dumpster fire that is the world these days (both in the news and on social media) and on specific books.
This approach would be tough for me. During each transition between activities, from email to writing, or from phone calls to deep work, I instinctively click on news sites to get that dopamine hit. But a recent weekend, during which my schedule was unusually devoid of obligations, I read a 468-page book, and I accomplished it in large part because I avoided turning to news sites and social media.
Are there other habits you’d like to break, or at least bend? If you tend to snack in the mid-afternoon, could moving to your reading nook instead of the kitchen help you accomplish that? If you’ve been working from home instead of the office, chances are that you spend more time sitting at your desk – there’s no cake in the break room or conversations over coffee with colleagues, and there’s no rush to leave work to deal with a commute. If you’re giving the office a little too much of yourself, a few 15-minute reading breaks could be just what you need.
5) Read with others.
Usually, the solitary experience of reading is a comfort. When you read (or reread) a favorite novel, it sometimes seems like you’ve become a quiet (and pleasantly ignored) minor character with a front-row seat to the goings-on. But other books, particularly non-fiction titles focused on topics like business, psychology, history, or current events, create an environment where you want other voices in the room, other people to help you debate whether the author is right, or tease out the true meaning of a paragraph.
Partner with a friend or colleague. It’s like the tiniest possible book club, but arranging with a friend to read a book means you always have something fresh to talk about. You don’t even have to read the same book.
Remember when Rachel and Joey traded recommendations? She read The Shining and he read Little Women?
(Joey’s guidance about putting too-scary books in the freezer isn’t the worst reading advice I’ve heard!) Once, my friend Mark and I simultaneously read one another’s recommendations. I read Great Expectations (meh) and he read Pride & Prejudice (and developed a teeny crush on Mr. Darcy).
Join a book club. Sure, 2020 doesn’t lend itself to attending the typical wine-and-cheese or coffee-and-cake in-person book clubs, but (hopefully) 2020 won’t last forever. Until then, there are all sorts of online book clubs. Book Riot’s How To Join a Book Club Online in 2020 is a good start if you want to share a reading experience with a large group of people reading the same thing, and Time Magazine covered 10 Virtual Book Clubs You Can Join Now.
Or start your own book club. The advantage of starting your own club is that you can set the rules – anything from “No novels by Ernest Hemingway!” to “Only books by left-handed authors!” – and invite like-minded friends. One person can take a professorial lead, members can take turns presenting, or discussion can be a free-for-all.
Friend of the blog Erin Doland, author of Never Too Busy to Cure Clutter and formerly of the Unclutterer blog, recently gathered a gaggle of friends for a virtual non-fiction book club, with discussion in a private Facebook group. The first title was The Inconvenient Indian: A Curious Account of Native People in North America by Thomas King.
Once the world can be social again, NPR’s Life Kit has a great post on How To Start a Book Club That Actually Meets.
6) Be part of a cultural experience.
Sometimes, a book club is a bit too much of a commitment. Maybe you’re an introvert. Or perhaps you’re just not that interested in what others have to say about a reading experience that feels so personal. You can still be part of something larger than yourself.
Have you ever had a book that you just couldn’t tackle, no matter how hard (or how many times) you tried? I’ve given Anna Karenina my best efforts, from my teen years to now in my (muffled static obscuring actual age) years. For (many others) it’s Moby Dick. For them, there’s an audio experience called the Moby Dick Big Read.
The Great American Novel may be great, but it can be daunting. In 2011, a group of artists, writers, musicians, scientists and academics came together for a symposium, sharing their fascination with whales, and it turned into a big fish tale! In other words, you can listen (via Soundcloud, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your favorite podcast app) to the 135 chapters (plus the epilogue), told by Tilda Swinson, Stephen Fry, Benedict Cumberbatch, and many others. If this book has been your own white whale and this finally helps you finish it, you can thank me later. Just don’t call me Ishmael.
The National Endowment for the Arts has its own Big Read, an initiative for exposing readers to new genres and ideas and challenges their current tastes in literature. The NEA Big Read sponsors 84 community reading programs, each designed around a single NEA Big Read selection. If your community or library system isn’t participating, you can still pick one of the 25 books in the NEA online library and avail yourself of the discussion questions and multi-media resources.
One City One Book and similarly named “community reads” projects have been operating for more than two decades, with libraries and civic groups encouraging all the people of one community to read the same book. Check your public library system’s website to see what community reading experiences are available to encourage you to read more.
Next time, in part 2, we’ll look at more ways to organize your life for more reading opportunities:
- How to get book recommendations so you can be enthusiastic about reading
- Why (and how) to change reading formats
- The secret to remembering what you’ve read (and liked)
- How to drive your reading mojo with challenges
- The type of book to rev your reading engine
- …and how to develop an appetite for books to better yourself.
I love to read at night before sleep. However, it cannot be too thought-provoking of a book, because, sleep. I will therefore designate the red couch in the family room to be my reading couch for the more cerebral reads. It is declared. Thank you.
“It is declared.” I like that, it’s like Battlestar Galactica, how they’d say, “So say we all!” I have weird reading nooks. Where my kitchen cabinets end and my dining room begins, I sometimes just sit on the carpet and lean my back against the cabinet and it’s a makeshift “nook” for a quick 15-minute reading session, but my computer is within my eye-line in case something pops up. I also love reading at the top of the stairs, with my back to the corner where the walls come together. Not every nook needs to be uber-cozy.
This is so motivating. I hope to one day have some more time to physically read a book. For now, it’s all audible. Thanks for sharing!!
See? We all have our best fits. I’ve tried Audible, but I just can’t maintain my attention when listening without looking. That’s why we each have to find the right solution for our unique reader-ish selves! 😉
I come from a family of avid readers. There were books in every room- LOTS of books. Family outings consisted of browsing in bookstores for hours. As a little kid, this wasn’t a favorite activity of mine. My mom would take us to the library and say we could take out as many books as we wanted. So guess what? We did! Every vacation I went on with my family, everyone was reading something. I wasn’t as enthusiastic a reader until I was older. I love reading and usually have 10 plus books on the “TBR” pile, and dozens more on my “Books to Read” list. I like reading physical books (and highlighting) rather than digital ones. I appreciate the tactile experience.
During COVID, I have been reading, but not as quickly or as much. My preferred time is before bed. By on occasion, I’ll spend some leisurely weekend hours snuggled up on the couch reading. That feels luxurious.
I know exactly what you mean – for the first month or two of COVID, I couldn’t concentrate to actually read anything, so I was shocked that the first book I was able to sink my teeth into was “Waking Up White,” a personal memoir about coming to grips with systemic bias. A little heavy; you’d think a fun novel would have help distract me. But no, it took until May before I was back in the swing of things re: reading. And ah, yes, the luxury of weekend afternoon reading! Thank you for sharing your experiences!
Reading more isn’t really an issue for me right now – according to Goodreads, I’m 5 books ahead of schedule on my goal of 50 books for the year. You might think it’s due to COVID, but I actually got a headstart in January when I was sick and didn’t have the energy to do anything BUT read.
By the way, I read Anna Karenina a couple of years ago – it took me 38 days. I’d wanted to read it since I was in university.
Good for you (not the getting sick part, but the reading). For the first time, ever, I’m four books behind in my Goodreads Challenge (of which, more next week!) because (as I noted above to Linda), I had a lot of trouble focusing on reading anything for the first few months of COVID.
I have tried Anna Karenina over and over; I never make it past when she finds out she’s pregnant. I just can’t bring myself to care about these characters! (I also had trouble with King Lear, but I followed my own tip and read it with a gang of my friends from college once we were in our 30s. And because they’re all boys, they made it funny, which held my attention.)
Others tell me I’m no fun to read with because I react “out loud” to what I am reading, and hence interrupt them. My daughter, particularly, has given me this message LOL! I’m sure I have a crazy amount of TBR books. I haven’t counted. I might find the answer a little intimidating. Most of the physical books, however, that are in my space belong to my husband.
Oh, Seana, it’s so much harder to know what we’ve got in our non-tangible TBR. Digital/audio just hides from us! I wish it were easier to organize a Kindle library.
And I get it; sometimes, we need to read in private so we can have conversations with the characters or author and react without others noticing.
In addition to the TBR books I already own, I keep a spreadsheet of books I’d like to read. It’s more books than I could read in three lifetimes, but I like having one place to look when I’m thinking about what to read next.
That spreadsheet is a great idea; be sure to catch next week’s post for the second half of my tips, because I cover this. But sometimes, the TBR that we have vs. the TBR of a lifetime can get confusing. I use Goodreads for the latter, and as noted, my new bookshelf for the former. And of course, there’s more to read than our lifetimes will allow, but I don’t want to end up like Burgess Meredith!)
I am a reader. I give myself permission everyday to spend 30 minutes at lunch reading. I love this time. I sit in the garden and read. Yes. There are days when I’m on the road or have clients scheduled closely so I don’t get my 30 minutes at lunch. I also read in bed at night. Typically, I turn in around 8:30 ish so that I can get a good hour of reading in before the book falls out of my hands. I admit. I am an avid book reader.
That’s wonderful that you carve out time to read at lunchtime; it’s like an oasis in the middle of your day. I can picture you. It sounds like you, like Mike Vardy, have the scheduling down pat.
Hurray for your readership, Diane!
I love this! My biggest struggle is that I am a productivity nut and have trouble giving myself permission to read instead of checking off yet another item on my To Do List. When I realized about a year or so ago how little I was reading for pleasure, I joined a book club (again), and that has helped tremendously. But you’ve got a host of other great suggestions. Thanks!
Angie, one way to look at it is that one of the things on your To Do list is to read (for self-care, or for research, or to be better informed) and then you can put reading on your list and cross it off. Happy reading, and thanks for commenting!
I have a supposed TBR shelf. I say “supposed” because it’s the BOTTOM bookshelf (as in, only a few inches off the ground. I get plenty of suggestions from my book club, Goodreads, etc. and much of my reading is audio or electronic these days. Do you think I ever turn to my TBR shelf for my next read? No. I don’t even see it. Will I ever move the books or donate them? Hmmm…good question!
This was a very entertaining and thorough blog post, Julie, but I missed the “Part 1” in the beginning and at the end I was like, “Where are the rest of the tips? Next time? I don’t want to wait unitl next time!” 😉
Then that’s your assignment, Hazel. Move the TBR shelf up so you see it every day. Right now, pick your next book from there.
And I’m sorry you missed the “Part 1” in the title, but you can ruminate on the items at the bottom that you’ll be seeing soon!
You are preaching to the choir Julie. I love to read and replaced my TV time with reading time a few years ago. Since the pandemic began I started setting aside Saturday mornings to stay in bed with a book and a cup of coffee. I love it. Other than that I read before bed, but it usually puts me to sleep. Recently I was notified that I had run out of storage on my tablet, so I delete some books that I already read and some (on second though) that I won’t ever read. I working through the rest now.
Saturday mornings are a great time to read, especially for those who feel guilty about taking time out to read — it gives you the rest of the weekend to accomplish more weighty tasks. And yes, the digital realm makes it so easy to keep so much; enjoy your digital TBR!