Paper Doll Shares Secrets from the Task Management & Time Blocking Summit 2022
Posted on: March 7th, 2022by Julie Bestry |
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What did you get done last week? Was it everything you wanted to accomplish? Did you use a paper calendar or a digital one? A task app or sticky notes? Do you have SMART goals? Am I freaking you out?
Longtime readers know that I seek out all types of continuing education, including each annual NAPO conference. After 2020’s conference was canceled, I was delighted to get to participate in a virtual version, as I told you about in Paper Doll Recaps the NAPO2021 Virtual Conference.
Readers, let me just tell you, last week from Thursday through Sunday, I was entirely geeked-out over all things related to task management, time blocking, scheduling, goal achievement.
And while we explored all manner of strategies, techniques, and tools for getting more done, there was definitely an undercurrent of something more valuable in this year’s conference. Over and over, there were presentations and videos that delved into examining the “why” of getting things done.
It would destroy your time management and mine if I shared every amazing detail, but even just the personal highlights are staggering. The summit was a combination of live presentations and panels as well as a series of about a dozen videos each day, and live (video) networking.
Out of the box, after the welcome, we began with a presentation from trainer and coach Jeff Whitmore about intentionality. Jeff talked about the reckoning we collectively saw, both with the onset of the pandemic and now, with the Great Resignation. We’re turning our backs on busy work, on “meetings that could have been emails,” and the experience of being buried in tasks for tasks’ sake, and turning to pondering what we really want — out of our careers, and more deeply, out of our lives.
In a theme that came up over and over during the conference, he talked about identifying the bigger picture of what you want in life and why, and focusing on tasks that drive those goals rather than letting all the competing sensory inputs of notifications and calls and emails determine what you do.
NOVELTY VS. THE FLATNESS OF TIME
The first morning continued with summit founder Francis Wade interviewing noted author, Laura Vanderkam, and her theme posited practical ways make life richer and more nuanced.
For me, Vanderkam’s interview was immediately reminiscent of what I talked about in Does Anybody Really Know What Time It Is? 5 Strategies to Cope With Pandemic Time Dilation in terms of the way our lives seem to sometimes be an endless slog from day to day. It’s Monday again. It’s time to cook dinner again. As I noted in the chat discussion, sometimes it seems like I look up, over and over, and I’m blowing my hair dry again.
Vanderkam’s research suggests that to get out of these ruts, we need more novelty, texture, and richness in our time and our tasks. To this, Francis quipped, “less skim milk, more milkshakes.” After a brief foray for praising Ben & Jerry’s Chunky Monkey, Vanderkam suggested one main tip for preventing the automating and routines that make for good task management from diluting the texture of our lives.
Vanderkam encouraged everyone to plan life in weeks, and to identify one “big adventure” (lasting perhaps half a weekend day) and one “little adventure” (lasting an hour) each week to introduce novelty. The purpose? As Vanderkam noted, “We don’t ask where did the time go when we remember where the time went.” Aha. Mindfulness!
Vanderkam has been studying a wider array of methods for making a Chunky Monkey milkshake out of life. She conducted a nine-week research study with 150 people, having them track their time and studying their time satisfaction and time weariness before and after trying each of nine approaches, from the big and little adventures for making life more memorable to setting a fixed bedtime for yourself so you can “see how many hours the day really has in it.”
Another highlight of the summit was an Oxford-style debate on the proposition of whether the notion of organizing by contexts in David Allen’s seminal Getting Things Done is still valid. GTD methodology lets you conceptualize, and then act on, tasks depending on various features. And if this seems a little too “inside baseball” or geeky to you, I can only say that it was…and it was great. By ten minutes into the debate, I found myself shouting back at the screen (muted, of course) and adding lively comments to the chat.
Back in the early days of GTD, contexts were pretty much considered as where the next action could be done, or what equipment you’d need to perform it.
So, a context might have been “at the store,” or “on the phone” or “at my computer.” Thus, the question is, when all of your next actions — like buying pens on Amazon or having a phone conversation with a client or emailing or searching the web to get clarity on an issue — can be done with just one small piece of metal, glass, and plastic that fits in your pocket, do contexts still matter?
(with apologies to the guys for not catching a single one of them smiling!)
One team was Drs. Frank Buck and Joe Leondike; the other, Augusto Pinaud and Art Gelwicks. Always-unbiased Ray Sidney-Smith (host along with Augusto of my beloved Anything But Idle video podcast) served as the debate moderator. Sparks (politely) flew, but in the end, it came down to semantics and the notion of the evolution of David Allen’s philosophy. (And yes, we know the GTD debate panel was all guys, but I assure you, this was a matter of scheduling complexity. Women were invited to participate!)
My take? Yes, David Allen meant contexts to be more specific, but that was two decades ago. Now, tags (like you’d use in Evernote or Gmail) serve as your context. It’s not “computer” but “Amazon” or “LinkedIn,” the places you go (even if you’re only “going” with your fingertips) to perform a task that really matters.
Then again, I’m a proponent of the idea that whether you’re talking about Getting Things Done or KonMari, the Pomodoro Technique or even my own tickler files, hewing to the letter of any productivity or organizing law instead of empowering yourself to embrace the spirit of it is silly.
What matters is what works!
A NEW (TO ME) TIME BLOCKING METHODOLOGY
We tend to see the same systems and strategies repeated over and over: GTD, time blocking, the Eisenhower Matrix (urgent/important), the Pomodoro Technique, etc. But David Tedaldi of Morgen (one of the summit’s sponsors) introduced us to an approach that was brand new.
Tedaldi’s actual presentation was Tools for Time Management: Help or Hurdle? (which dovetailed nicely with my own presentation, on going “retro” to avoid the drawbacks of technology…of which, more later). As the founder of a company that developed a calendaring system for “professionals who manage multiple accounts, who want to schedule meetings faster, or need to keep track of tasks and appointments in a single, safe place,” he obviously believes in tech tools.
But he also acknowledged that using new tools fractures our time as we have to expend effort (and use our work time) to learn how to use these tools. But wasn’t what made the session memorable for me. Instead, that was Tedaldi talking about a new time management method that is simple, but with commitment, could be life-changing.
It’s called the 90-90-1 Method. (I initially misunderstood Tedaldi’s beautiful accent and thought it was the 1991 Method, and was imagining it had something to do with the Hubble telescope, C&C Music Factory’s “Gonna Make You Sweat” or Silence of the Lambs. Sadly, nope.)
Put forth by Robin Sharma in an 2014 post called You 2.0, the recommendation was to the point:
“For the next 90 days, devote the first 90 minutes of your work day to the one best opportunity in your life. Nothing else. Zero distractions. Just get that project done. Period.”
What is your big, bold, audacious life goal? Want to write a book? Run a marathon? Show your child or spouse or friends that they are priorities in your life? Instead of making these things the sand that flows around the “big rocks” in your life, show up! For the next 90 days (which surely falls in line with the precepts of the popular book, The Twelve Week Year: Get More Done in 12 Weeks than Others Do in 12 Months), spend the first 90 minutes of your day focused on the ONE thing that you (claim) you care the most about.
Wow! (I know, right?)
PAPER DOLL TOOK A SPIN (OR THREE) ON THE DANCE FLOOR
Previously a panelist and moderator, I got to add presenter to my resume at this year’s event!
My video introduced attendees to the benefits and logistics of using a tickler file, based on my now-classic ebook, Tickle Yourself Organized.
But my real passion was asking people to consider the notion that as useful as digital calendars, automated scheduling software, and task management apps can be, technology isn’t always the best way to get a mental handle on what we need to do and prompt us to do it.
Think about time. Kids, people with ADHD and other neuro-diversities, and many other people have trouble conceptualizing the passage of time — how long is 15 minutes? What does an hour look like or feel like?
We used to be able to look at analog clocks and perceive, with the sweep of the minute and second hands, how we were getting closer to the top of the hour. With digital clocks, 10:01 or 11:47 just doesn’t feel tangible or real.
This is why Time Timer has proven so successful with students, non-traditional learners, and clients trying to be more productive. With them, you can see time. You can see the PASSAGE of time.
Research shows that something similar happens with handwriting notes vs. taking notes on a computer. When you’re trying to take notes in a class, if you’re typing, your instinct is to take a transcription of what the speaker is saying, word for word. The words come out of the speaker’s mouth, into your ears, and kind of bypass your brain & head to your fingers.
BUT, when you handwrite, your brain engages and picks out key phrases, identifies essential elements, and helps you translate the presentation into something you understand so that you could explain it to someone else. Going retro by hand-writing your notes gives you an advantage.
One of the 21st-century problems with task management and time blocking is that all of the technology makes our tasks feel too vague and intangible. For many of us, to get things done, we need our resources to be “grippy” or “sticky” or they cease to have a sense of urgency or importance; when we only see due dates or blocks of time TO do something, we lack essential nuance and context.
There’s no novelty or uniqueness in a one-line task in an app to trigger related memories or brainstorm tangential thoughts. When you enter a task in an app, it’s kind of like transcribing those lecture notes; it sort of bypasses your brain. (I think it’s one of the reasons that the more colorful, artistic Bullet Journal approaches became so popular.) Writing things down on paper, and manipulating the words and the paper, gets the brain engaged at a level you don’t see with digital apps.
By blending time management and time blocking skills with paper resources, we can have a hybrid system (analog and digital) that lifts the weight of worry off our shoulders. We can eliminate the fear that tasks will fall through the cracks, assure that we focus on starting work rather than just noting when it’s due, and replace a sense of overwhelm with one of empowerment. Enter the tickler file!
HAVE A LITTLE COMPASSION
I was also on a Q&A Panel moderated by Casey Moore, along with Olga C. Morrett of Mujer Cronopio. As counterpoint to reviewing my more tactical approach to organizing and time management, delightful Olga, a Venezuelan currently freezing her tushy off in Montreal, spoke expanded on her presentation, Compassion as the Key to Your Productivity.
Our lively panel closed out the summit on Saturday, and I think half of the time was spent with us riffing on points the other had made, not counting the unexpected tangent about Titanic, including the idea that plunging into your tasks without planning not only can put you at risk of drowning, but can endanger the mental health of those you love. And, of course, we all agreed that there was definitely room on that floating door for Rose and Jack.
But I really want to share two key concepts from Olga. First, she talked about how self-compassion is an antidote for perfectionism and noted that “The human experience is imperfect. We are entitled to fail. It’s part of the process.”
And, to show yourself compassion, start with looking at your calendar. What you put in your schedule shows how you distribute your resources: your investment of time, money, energy, and attention shows what you you really value. If you’re not investing in yourself but everyone else’s priorities, then you aren’t showing self-compassion.
ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ
I also took my turn as a moderator on a panel entitled, Is Sleep On Your To-Do List? A Look at Time Management and Wellness. Sleep is necessary for us to be creative, strategic, productive, and neurologically healthy. Poor sleep wrecks productivity, but time management failures can destroy our ability to sleep.
I got to interview Dr. Emily Hokett, an academic sleep researcher and expert on achieving better sleep, and Casey Moore (see above, who was pinch-hitting for our colleague Lisa Mark, whose daughter had a baby the week before the summit–mazel tov!). We talked about how poor sleep effects everything from our stamina to our relationships, and covered a pillowcase full of tips about good sleep hygiene, blackout curtains, and the winning tip for me — getting enough sunlight so that your body can tell the difference between day and night.
THE KIDS ARE ALRIGHT!
Last year, we met four California high schoolers who came together to solve what they saw as serious problems in the time and task management app space. And they weren’t doing it for school credit or for money, but to help make people’s lives better!
Condution is an impressive open source app, and these young founders invite users and other coders to contribute. I tested the beta version last year, and it was as impressive as the guys themselves, and shockingly professional.
Only two of the four, Jack and Micah, made it to the summit. The other two were at SAT prep! Francis teasingly asked if they do normal teen things (oh, they do! Especially sports and music) and if they were on TikTok. (Nope). If you ever worry about the intentions and philosophy behind strides in the tech world, look no further than these young men. Here’s the video that started it all:
SO MUCH MORE
I’ve barely touched on the summit’s wise takeaways, which ensures there will be a lot to pepper in future posts. Eventually, we have to talk about task stacks from Trevor Lohrbeer, the founder of Day Optimizer. It simultaneously adds elements of gamification and diligence to the act of conquering your task list.
You can see a sneak preview of Danielle Hamlett‘s Willpower, Productivity, and Marshmallows, where she shared life-altering advice on how to amp up willpower.
And I don’t know where to begin with the insights shared by Amie Devero, but I’ll be pondering the Arrival Fallacy for a while, which is the false belief that once we “make it” — finish our tasks or attain our goal or reach our destination, we will reach some kind of everlasting happiness and be “done.” There is no inbox zero for all our life’s tasks.
At one point in the conference, Francis was hit with a bit of an epiphany about how all these sessions ostensibly about task and time management were about purpose and intention. When he extemporaneously said the following, I wrote is on a sticky note:
Task management is purpose conveyance.
ALL ACCESS PASS
If you’re bummed that you missed the summit, you can still get in on everything except the live networking. (I mean, I’m good, but I can’t help you time travel! Yet.)
Thank you for the recap. I was able to listen to some of these sessions from the time blocking summit 2022. It was wonderful! It was the first time I did this summit and am looking forward to doing it again.
Sabrina, I’m so delighted you got to participate a bit. I wish I’d “seen” you there during the networking. I’d love to hear about what you watched/attended and what you liked. Thanks for reading!
Congratulations on being both a presenter and panelist at this powerhouse event! I know you have so much to offer.
I am definitely a believer in the “stickiness” of things I write down on paper with a pen. That process clearly engages my mind in a way that keying things into a keyboard does not. Plus, I hate trying to type into my phone. I don’t know why I have such trouble, but I am constantly making spelling errors. That doesn’t happen with I use a pen. Plus, I love the tactile nature of paper, so keeping my tasks in paper form just makes me happy. It also means I can plan and strategize when I am in locations with there is poor/limited wifi.
I love that quote, “less skim milk, more milkshakes!” It does help to add some fun to tasks that seem otherwise dull.
Not sure I could get my husband’s attention for a big adventure each week, but maybe one a month! Most of the spaces that need attention in my home are ones where he needs to be involved. The others I’ve already handled.
As for Aime’s insights, I agree, and would say that this idea of “making it” is a mirage. We reach milestones, and then we set new goals. We are never finished. It’s even okay to completely turn and head in a new direction. Our purpose should be ever before us, calling us into experiences that enrich our lives and the lives of those around us! Love that phrase you wrote down, “purpose conveyance” … that’s terrific!
Seana, so you’re a paper doll, too! 😉 Those tiny keys on the phone have it out to get us!
You don’t have to bring your hubby along on your big adventures! These aren’t about labor but fun! They’re about having fun! It’s like going to a museum or visiting something one town over! I’ve decided that I’m going to try geocaching!
Your energy and enthusiasm about the Summit jumps off the page (or computer screen!) WOW! I am in awe of all that you shared and this is just a small amount of what was available. Incredible!
A few things that stood out:
• The 90-90-1 concept. I’ve never heard of that either. But what a small idea, committing some time consistently each day to that BIG goal.
• Olga’s quote about self-compassion: “The human experience is imperfect. We are entitled to fail. It’s part of the process.”
•Congrats to you for adding “presenter” at the Summit to your long list of credentials! How lucky they were to have your wisdom, see you as a panelist host, and also as a panelist. You are a Rock Star!
I love the idea of adventures. In 2020 I made a long list of things to learn or try in an effort to add some novelty to my pandemic life. My problem is that, often, those things become hobbies. Framing it as an adventure might help.
The 90-90-1 idea is really interesting. I used to do a First Hour for Fiction thing where I dedicated the first hour of my work day to a fiction project. I also intuitively put those things that must be done first on my list. Sometimes that’s exercise, sometimes it’s an important project. Giving that instinct some structure and tying it to a life goal is appealing.
I maybe a tad too compassionate with myself!
I’m not sure about the last question. Maybe? I’m not sure I have a purpose, though, so I don’t know.
Thanks for sharing these takeaways! They are all worthy of further thought.
I think the way Laura Vanderkam means an adventure as less of a hobby and more of, well, an adventure. Going off to a museum or having a picnic in a new town. I’m thinking I’m going to try geocaching.
I like how 90-90-1 is so similar to your First Hour for Fiction. I never do the most important thing first in my day; I have always needed to ramp up, with a few tiny wins first.
And I know you; you are not too compassionate with yourself. I think you are very self-aware, and that *can* help you with self-compassion, but we all have to work on that area.
I enjoyed the summit but missed Robin’s session. Now I have to go back and listen to it. I’m intrigued by 90-90-1. Sounds like a good method to really move forward on a business plan.
David Tedaldi mentioned Robin Sharma’s 90-90-1 method in both his recorded and live presentations, and from what I saw in the chat, it was a brand-new idea to many of us. (See above for Dava’s comment about a similar method, “First Hour for Fiction.” It’s so simple, yet I think (like the Pomodoro Technique) simple is better for getting things moving forward.
Thanks for reading! And yes, in my presentation, I actually waved a Time Timer around in front of the camera. Analog — in terms of time, notes, of task management — helps you slow down and focus!
Wow! You must have filled many time blocks to create this blog post! And congrats on being a presenter and panelist.
I listen to Laura Vanderkam’s podcast, “Before Breakfast’ and I have gotten some good time management tips to apply to my life. When I read her quote above, ‘less skim milk, more milkshakes’ I thought to myself, “I haven’t had enough milkshakes lately!’ And I could use a few more of those different types of adventures. I’ve been a bit of a hibernating bear this Winter but with Spring on the horizon, I ‘ll be happy to shed some layers, come out of my cave, and plan some mini-adventures for myself. 🙂
Wow! You must have penciled in many blocks of time to create your blog post! Congrats on being a presenter and panelist at the Summit.
I listen to Laura Vanderkam’s Before Breakfast podcast (although I do not listen to it until after I’ve eaten breakfast…) and I’ve gotten some great ‘takeaways’ and ‘food for thought’ from many of her episodes. Her quote about the skim milk and the milkshake resonated with me. I could use more chocolate milkshakes and a few of those adventures she spoke about. I’ve been a hibernating bear this Winter–I’m looking forward to Spring when I can come out of my cave and plan (and look forward to) some mini adventures and grabbing myself some milkshakes, too!
It was Francis who made the initial milkshake comment as a riff on what Laura said, but it’s definitely resonant. I want to hear all about your chocolate milkshake adventures!
Thank you for the recap. I was able to listen to some of these sessions from the time blocking summit 2022. It was wonderful! It was the first time I did this summit and am looking forward to doing it again.
Sabrina, I’m so delighted you got to participate a bit. I wish I’d “seen” you there during the networking. I’d love to hear about what you watched/attended and what you liked. Thanks for reading!
Congratulations on being both a presenter and panelist at this powerhouse event! I know you have so much to offer.
I am definitely a believer in the “stickiness” of things I write down on paper with a pen. That process clearly engages my mind in a way that keying things into a keyboard does not. Plus, I hate trying to type into my phone. I don’t know why I have such trouble, but I am constantly making spelling errors. That doesn’t happen with I use a pen. Plus, I love the tactile nature of paper, so keeping my tasks in paper form just makes me happy. It also means I can plan and strategize when I am in locations with there is poor/limited wifi.
I love that quote, “less skim milk, more milkshakes!” It does help to add some fun to tasks that seem otherwise dull.
Not sure I could get my husband’s attention for a big adventure each week, but maybe one a month! Most of the spaces that need attention in my home are ones where he needs to be involved. The others I’ve already handled.
As for Aime’s insights, I agree, and would say that this idea of “making it” is a mirage. We reach milestones, and then we set new goals. We are never finished. It’s even okay to completely turn and head in a new direction. Our purpose should be ever before us, calling us into experiences that enrich our lives and the lives of those around us! Love that phrase you wrote down, “purpose conveyance” … that’s terrific!
Seana, so you’re a paper doll, too! 😉 Those tiny keys on the phone have it out to get us!
You don’t have to bring your hubby along on your big adventures! These aren’t about labor but fun! They’re about having fun! It’s like going to a museum or visiting something one town over! I’ve decided that I’m going to try geocaching!
Thanks so much for reading and all your comments!
Your energy and enthusiasm about the Summit jumps off the page (or computer screen!) WOW! I am in awe of all that you shared and this is just a small amount of what was available. Incredible!
A few things that stood out:
• The 90-90-1 concept. I’ve never heard of that either. But what a small idea, committing some time consistently each day to that BIG goal.
• Olga’s quote about self-compassion: “The human experience is imperfect. We are entitled to fail. It’s part of the process.”
•Congrats to you for adding “presenter” at the Summit to your long list of credentials! How lucky they were to have your wisdom, see you as a panelist host, and also as a panelist. You are a Rock Star!
LOL, Linda, I don’t mind being called a rock star, as long as I don’t have to sing!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on which highlights you found intriguing, and the minute I heard Olga’s words, I knew they’d resonate with you.
I love the idea of adventures. In 2020 I made a long list of things to learn or try in an effort to add some novelty to my pandemic life. My problem is that, often, those things become hobbies. Framing it as an adventure might help.
The 90-90-1 idea is really interesting. I used to do a First Hour for Fiction thing where I dedicated the first hour of my work day to a fiction project. I also intuitively put those things that must be done first on my list. Sometimes that’s exercise, sometimes it’s an important project. Giving that instinct some structure and tying it to a life goal is appealing.
I maybe a tad too compassionate with myself!
I’m not sure about the last question. Maybe? I’m not sure I have a purpose, though, so I don’t know.
Thanks for sharing these takeaways! They are all worthy of further thought.
I think the way Laura Vanderkam means an adventure as less of a hobby and more of, well, an adventure. Going off to a museum or having a picnic in a new town. I’m thinking I’m going to try geocaching.
I like how 90-90-1 is so similar to your First Hour for Fiction. I never do the most important thing first in my day; I have always needed to ramp up, with a few tiny wins first.
And I know you; you are not too compassionate with yourself. I think you are very self-aware, and that *can* help you with self-compassion, but we all have to work on that area.
I enjoyed the summit but missed Robin’s session. Now I have to go back and listen to it. I’m intrigued by 90-90-1. Sounds like a good method to really move forward on a business plan.
David Tedaldi mentioned Robin Sharma’s 90-90-1 method in both his recorded and live presentations, and from what I saw in the chat, it was a brand-new idea to many of us. (See above for Dava’s comment about a similar method, “First Hour for Fiction.” It’s so simple, yet I think (like the Pomodoro Technique) simple is better for getting things moving forward.
Thank you for this engaging synopsis! I love the shoutout to the Time Timer. Visual timers are so helpful!
Thanks for reading! And yes, in my presentation, I actually waved a Time Timer around in front of the camera. Analog — in terms of time, notes, of task management — helps you slow down and focus!
Wow! You must have filled many time blocks to create this blog post! And congrats on being a presenter and panelist.
I listen to Laura Vanderkam’s podcast, “Before Breakfast’ and I have gotten some good time management tips to apply to my life. When I read her quote above, ‘less skim milk, more milkshakes’ I thought to myself, “I haven’t had enough milkshakes lately!’ And I could use a few more of those different types of adventures. I’ve been a bit of a hibernating bear this Winter but with Spring on the horizon, I ‘ll be happy to shed some layers, come out of my cave, and plan some mini-adventures for myself. 🙂
Wow! You must have penciled in many blocks of time to create your blog post! Congrats on being a presenter and panelist at the Summit.
I listen to Laura Vanderkam’s Before Breakfast podcast (although I do not listen to it until after I’ve eaten breakfast…) and I’ve gotten some great ‘takeaways’ and ‘food for thought’ from many of her episodes. Her quote about the skim milk and the milkshake resonated with me. I could use more chocolate milkshakes and a few of those adventures she spoke about. I’ve been a hibernating bear this Winter–I’m looking forward to Spring when I can come out of my cave and plan (and look forward to) some mini adventures and grabbing myself some milkshakes, too!
It was Francis who made the initial milkshake comment as a riff on what Laura said, but it’s definitely resonant. I want to hear all about your chocolate milkshake adventures!